怎样和不熟悉的人聊天不“冷场”，如何找话题聊天不冷场？

 “jinchaoyoujiujinchaozui，jiufengzhijiqianbeishao。”hezishenxinyixiangtong，ruhezhaohuatiliaotianbulengchang？mingbaizishen“geng”derenxianliaoshijianshushideshi，nenggoukankanertan。haipabumingbaijie“geng”，xiaiganliaodehuatizhongjiezhe。chengrendexianliao，bingbuxiangxiaohaizixiangshuoshenmejiushuoxieshenme，huatitaolunjianyi，jinyouxuexipeixun，haowanerde，meiweide。zenmeliaotiancaihaoni？

 chengrenzhijiandexianliaoyouyuyouquelidezishenaihao，youhenzhuguanxingdefenbianxing，lijingfengfuduocai，bujinxiangtong，yinciyoushixunzhaoshihedehuatitaolunnanyi。ruhehebingbushihenzuishuxiderenxianliao，shiyimendaxuewen，bumingbaizhaohuatiliaotiandexianliao，shizuifeichangrongyigaliao。

1.不可以只聊自身的喜爱的话题讨论

 ruhezhaohuatiliaotianbulengchang？xianliaozuibihuikankanertanzishenxiaidehuatitaolun，liru，jiarunixiaizhuixingzu，keshilingyifangtaoyan，huoshinixiaidechaojiouxianglingyifangtaoyan。suihougoutongjiaoliuneishihou，niqueyizhiliaonizenmezhuixing，nidechaojiouxiangzenyangzenyanghao。cikebianhuizaochengtarendedichu。youyutarengenbentaoyanzheiyihuatitaolun，taoyanzheigeren，wulunniruheqianglietuijian，tarennenghuiyingdeyejinjin“ena”。yinci，jiarugerenaihaodehuatitaolunshizishenmingquetichulaide，ninengdagaixiangxijieshaonidexihao，suihoukanlingyifangfanying，jiarulingyifangfajuenimendeaihaotongyang，tayouxingquaihao，huichaliangsanju，jiarujinjinjiaotashifanyingdehua，nijiuxuyaoheshierzhi，tinglingyifangdehuiying，kanyixiashifouyougongtongyuyannenggougoutongjiaoliu。zenmeliaotiancaihaoni？

2.用心聆听

 youshijiarubuqingchushuoshenmedeshihou，yanzhenglingting，shidufuheyixia，yeshijianqingnankandeyizhongfangfa，youyunikenengshigeqingjingderen，burongyizhaohuatiliaotian，keshijiarulingyifangshigesuihederen，jiukeyifeichanghaojiejuenankan。padebianshiniburongyizhaohuatiliaotian，haiqieduanfuyanleshitarenduinishuodehua，zheijiushizhenzhenzhengzhengdehuatizhongjiezhe。nihenyoukenengbingbushihenxihuanzheiyihuatitaolun，buqingchuruhejiexialai，keshiniyoumeiyouxindehuatitaolundeqingkuangxia，bufangqingjingtingtarenfayan，suihounenggouhuiyingdediquzuoxietixian，zheijiushiduitarendeyizhongzhongshi，burongyilingrenganjuezishenzaiyanaiyoushang。shufudexianliaobuyidingjiushiniyijuwoyiju。zheileifangfahaikeyilingrenjuedeshushi。

3.一直提出问题一些很“直接”的难题

 zenmeliaotiancaihaoni？liru：“nichilema”、“jiaxiangzainaer”、"jiazhongliangkouren“zheizhongyijuhuajiunenghuiyingnidewenti，guihairenyizhongnidiaoyanhujidejuede。zheileinantifeichangganga，youyuchedimeiyouyinchulaixiayigehuatitaolundehenyoukeneng，quanbunantifenliwendeqingkuangxia，rutongjirenyizhongshenxungan，youyixieshejidaogerenyinsidenanti，liru“nijisuia”、“ganshenmegongzuo”、“zainagexuexiaoxuexipeixun”zheileidenanti，buyidingtarenyidinghuihuiyingni。zheijiubatianliaosile。

 ruhezhaohuatiliaotianbulengchang？ninengshuo：“kanzheninianlingbingbuda，rengzaidushuba”zheileiwenfajizanyangletaren，youkeyilejietarendayuenianji。huoshiniyaobicinenghuhuanyixiaxinxineirong，ninengxianziwojieshao，danbubitaiga，shuo：”woshinaliren，nilei？“，nenggouhuangewenfa：”wojiaxiangzaizhejiangsheng，henmeilidediqu，nijiaruxiaidujialvyou，hebukaolvdaoneibian。“cikeniyejiunenggouxianghujiaohuan2gexinxineirong，jiandanziwojieshaolezishennaliren，yeyoubianshilejielingyifangaibuaidujialvyou，jiaruxiai，niyihoudehuatitaolundaliangle。yincitichuwentiyeshiyoufangfa，jinjibiebanantikuangsile。