怎么聊天找话题不冷场？其实冷场是有原因的

 zaiyigelanmanyouhuiqifenxia，niyuxiaidenvhaifenbiewanzhefenbiedeshoujishang，ruhezhaohuatiliaotianbulengchang？niyongyuanbuzhidaoruhezhangkou，suihoujiushizheiyanggaliaole。ruguoniganjuenankandeqingkuangxia，nvhaiyehuiganjuenankan，xintaishihuiganqide。shijishangyichangyouhuichulai，juedaduoshunvhaizhenduidajialiaolenaxiehuatitaolun，shixiangbuqilaichude。keshinvhaizhenduidajiadejiaowangqifen，gaoxinghuoshinankan，shihuihaijidehenqingxide，zheiyejueceledajiayihoushifouhuiyougushichansheng。zenmeliaotiancaihaoni？

haola，zongxiaipaopiantiheihei，neimadapochongxiaolou。

一、话题讨论的来源于

 jianxindixiongmentingjianshuzuiduodeyijuhua，huatitaolunlaiyuanyurichangshenghuo。xuduodixiongjiuganjuewohaizaifuyanleshita，shijishangtamencunyouzheixienian，dangranyoutadedadaoli，jianyijulishuoming：“nizaiganshenme？”nvhaihuiying：“tiqianzhunbeiquyouyongni”zheigeshihourichangshenghuodechabiejiuchulai，duiyoushuibulejiedecikexintiaopanbianshuo：“niyaohuiyoushuia”nvhai：“heihei，huiyidianshenqian“nanhaizi：“……（mengquanqingkuang）”xiabianni？xiabianmeiyoule……。

 zenmeliaotiancaihaoni？suihoushitigaozishendeyanjie，duowaichuxingzou，yinianzuishaochuqulvyouge2ci，neiyangtandaoyixiededifangshi，nishunlichengzhangjiukeyiliaodegengjiashenru，gengyouhuatitaolunxing，eryanjiezhiyoubansuizhenilijingdeshiertigaoertigao。

三、处理尬聊的好多个方式

 1、aimeiguanxi：zuixianshishentigerenxingweishangde，dangmeiyouhuashuole，dixiongmennenggouyibenzhengjingdexiaozhewangzhenvhai。dangnvhaiwenji，niyejiukeyishuo：“jiuxiangjingjingdikanni”huoshi“zheigeshihoujuedeniqueshihenmeilidongren”weichiyigeaimeiguanxiqifen。

 2、fanwendao：dangyigehuatitaolunliaonizheili，tandaowanbi，dixiongmennenggoudangrandepaohuilaijinvhai，neinini，nineigeshihou……

 3、ruhezhaohuatiliaotianbulengchang？shixiantiqianzhunbei：nenggoutiqianzhunbeihaoduogehuatitaolun，nachulaijizaishoujishang，queshimeihuatiliaole，jiukeyiqushangyigewc，suihoucongnideniuzikuzili，quchunidegeshouji，bazhunbeihaodehuatitaolunkanyikan，huilaizaiciliao。