女孩搭话男孩，怎么跟男生聊天！

 nvshenghexiaidenanhaizizaiyiqi,haowuyiwendoushihuiyaoxianghenanhaiziyouhenduodegongtonghuati,ruguomeiyouhuatiliaodehua,changjinghaowuyiwendoushihuishifendenankan。neimaruhehenanhaiziliaotianzhaohuatini？rendoushiyibulejiedaolejiejianjiandixianjielaide,gaosunizenmegennanshengliaotian，zenmegennanshengliaotianzhaohuatinidouzhidaoma？yikaishibuqingchuxianliaonaxiehuatitaolunshijiaoweiyiqiezhengchangde,ruguonilejielelingyifangdexingquaihao、aihao,nidangranyebianhuiyouhenduohuahetashuodaole。wenzhongjiuxiangxijieshaoyixiehenanshengliaotianhuatitaolunyufangfa，xiwangniqudechenggongshouqianshouxiaidenanhaizi。

1、探讨一同的兴趣爱好。

 niyaobianchengzishendechimizhe，yincibubijinjinweiraotayutadexingquaihaojizhonghuaquanbudejiaotan-shitayezhangwoni。yidannichangchangjianghua，changshizhaoxunyitongdexingquaihaolaitantao。genjuzheileifangfa，ninjiangnenggougenghaodizhangwobicizhijianbinggenjuyitongtediankaizhanlianluo。biru，jiadingnifajuedajiadouxiaihexingtongwu。zaitamenkaibohouchangshixiangtalejiezuixinjuji。biru，“nizuotianwanshangkandaoleyuxinggongwuma？taifengkuangle。”ninnenggouzhaoxungengpubiandeyitongxingquaihaozhutifenggekaizhantantao。biru，“nixiaiwudaoma？wohenxihuanwudaoheyinlejudianying。”

2、根据提出问题来掌握他。

 jiarujiaotansulvjianhuan，qingtiwenwenti。gaosunizenmegennanshengliaotian，zenmegennanshengliaotianzhaohuatinidouzhidaoma？xiangtarenlejiezishenyibanhuirangjiaotanyuelaiyueyouyisi。zheihaikeyishinizhangwonishibushixiangzuihouguidingnideposui。jiaruninyouhenduoyitongdexingquaihaohejianyi，neimaningengyoukenengjianrong。ninnenggoumingquetichuxialienanti：“nizuiaidedianyingshishenme？”“niyoushenmeyangdegerenaihao？”“niyizhizaiyuanxiaozuiaidexuekeshisha？”“nilaiguodezuichaodediqushisha？”“sheijiushinizuiaidedianshijirenwujiaose？”

3、做真实的自己。

 ruguoniqueshixiaimouyirenshi，shizhebianchengnirenweitamenhuiduiyouhuiyouxingqudeneileirenshishifenyouhuode。biru，jiaruzheiyihundanqueshihenjianshenyundong，dannimeitaiguanzhujianshenyundong，nihenyoukenenghuiyaoxiangzhuangzuonishiyigezhongchengdefensi。fangzhineiyangzuo。

4、按时给他们发信息。

 jiarunihuodetadehao，duanxiaoxinenggoushiyizhongfeichanghaodegoutongjiaoliufangshi，gaosunizenmegennanshengliaotian，zenmegennanshengliaotianzhaohuatinidouzhidaoma？nenggouxiezhuninenggougenghaodizhangwota。shizheyoushihoujitamenfaxinxi，kanyixiatashizenyanghuifude。zheinenggouxiezhunikankantashibushiyeduiniyouganjue。reqingfaxinxiderengengyoukenengyouxingqu。ruguonifaxinxishi，zuozhenshideziji。jiarutaxunwenninanti，qingdechuchengxindehuida。yingyongninzishenyuzhongbutongdexiangshengheyoumofengqu。youshihourengyixiafuhaobiaoqing。bubizuodeguofen，keshigesanchawuhuichuxianyixiexiaorongnenggoutuoxia。rongxutayoushihoufaxinxi。nibuxiangnianguota。