怎么让女生主动找你聊天？情商高的人怎么说话？

 ruherangnvshengzhudongyuenixianliao?doushuo，taiguojijidenvxingtongchangbubeiaixi，shijishangyongzainanhaizideshenshangyehenshihe。qingshanggaoderenzenmeshuohua？neimananshengzenmebaozhengrangmeizhijijiyuenixianliaoni?xiabian，hewotaolunyixiayunvshengliaotiandejiqiaoba。henvshengzenmezhudongliaotian？

1、设置悬念

 henvshengzenmezhudongliaotian？zheileifangfachangjiandebianshiweixinpengyouquanle，dahuoerweixinfapengyouquanshijishangzuiyaoxiangbianshipenyoudeguanzhudianzanyeyoupingjia，hekuangshixinaideneigeta。yinciweixinfapengyouquandeqingkuangxiayidingyaoxuehaoshezhixuannian，baocunyisixinxiangan，zaochengnvhaidehaoqixin。

2、操纵节奏感

 qingshanggaoderenzenmeshuohua？xuduoqingkuangxiagennvshengliaotianbingbushizhiguanxinxianliaozishen，haiyaoxuehaoqulingting。jiezougancaozongdediyidianbianshiniyaolejiegailingtingdeqingkuangxialingting，nenggourangnimenzhongjiandejianjuyulaiyujin。dangnvhaijiaoweilixingdeqingkuangxianiyejiuyingdangjitayixiejiyu，rangtayigunaodebahuasuoyoudoudaochuqu，cikedabufenbuyongnijianghua，nizhibixuzaiquanguochengzhongzhaoxiekuanweilingyifangdehuajiuhaole。zhangciyiwang，nvhaixiguangennilaixuanxieqingxu，dangranyejiuleijileduinidexinlaigan。

 jiezougancaozongdedierdianbianshizhengqueyindaolingyifangjianghua，nenggoushinigengweidezhangwonvhai。shijidefangshijiushiyitayouxingqudecengmianquxiashou，congcebianqutichuwentirangnvhaidaliangdequhuiying，yongfengquyouyisidefangshi。henvhailiaotiantandaowulukezouzheijiushinidebudui，shijianjiulerensheidoushihuiganjuenifaweide。zaixianliaozhizhongyidingyaofangzhigennvhaitandaowulukezou，gennvshengliaotiandeqingkuangxiabubibazijidulidezhuduowupinyixiaziquanbudoudaojita，dangnvhaikantounideqingkuangxiabianshiduinisangshixingquaihaodeqingkuangxia。

3、学好积极完毕闲聊

 henvshengzenmezhudongliaotian？bubizhuyaobiaoxianchuzishenyizhishifendebushede。youdeqingkuangxialiangrenhenyoukenengyijingliaodaohuobao，nanhaiziranzhishibuyuanyijijijiangliaotianjieshuhuozheqieduande，keshiwojinriyaoxiangduinishuodeshiyaoxuehaoshengchanzhizaoyixiefubi，zaitaolunyixiehuatitaolundeqingkuangxiaxuehaozaishidudeqingkuangxiajiuwanbibaituochuqu，jilingyifangyixiexiangxiangdeshineikongjian，neiyangnenggoushengchanzhizaotajijiyuenijieshidejiyu，suoyishuoqingshangzhishangshishifendezhongyaode，huabubiyizhishuodetaiman。

4、创建依靠及其摆脱依靠

 qingshanggaoderenzenmeshuohua？ruguonijuedenvhaigennixianliaodeqingkuangxiabudichu，niyejiuchengshengjujiranglingyifangyikaogennixianliao。shuobailedeyilaiganbianshianshizhidingdehetaxianliao，meiyouhetaxianliaotahuijijigennixianliao，yigexiguanyangchengbixuershiyitianshijianzhishang，yincibixujianchibuxieyiduanshijian。neimadangnvshenghenixianliaodexiguandeyangchengle，niyejiunenggouyunyongzheiyidiannizhuanle，haikeyishuochengyuqingguzong，zheijiushibaituoyikao，baituolinshuiqianhetawanandexiguanxing，conggeyitiandaogeshuri，jianjiandidejiangdi。neiyangnvhaibulunshigenjushenmeyuanyinyiranhuiganjuemishi，huiwenniweishenme，zheigeshihoubixubiezhu，bukeyiyiwenniyejiulikeshuochu，yaoyouyidingdehuifu，keshihaiyaolingyifangyousuoqidai。