高情商回复别人的赞美 碰到他人对自身开展夸奖

 canyugezhonggeyangdefandicishidi，dajiahuichangchangpengdaotarenduizishenkaizhanxuqingjiayidichuipeng。kuajiangnidegongzuonengli。yudaoneiyangdezhuangkuangshi，bunenggouyincideyiwangxing，zihaobuji。jiangtarendechuipengdangzuozishendezhengtishilideyidanwei。zheigeshihou，dajiajiuxuyaokeguandikandai，wanzhuandihuijilingyifang。ruhegaoqingshanghuifubierendezanmei？jiaonididiaodehuifubierenzanmeidehua。

 danjiarulingyifangshizishendelingdaoganbuni？lingdaoganbuzaidanweineibudeqingkuangxia，kandaizishendeshuxiashi，yizhizhizechaoguokuajiang，erzaibierenyanqian，yizhiguobaoleichuipengzishendeshoudixia。shishishang，tashilingdaoganbuyouxinzaibierenyanqianweizijidetishengdianlianmian，shitazhanledianlingdaoganbudeguang。

 yudaoneiyangdezhuangkuang，zhenduizheilei“yanmian”，yidingyaojinjinzhuazhu。meiyouzhuazhu，huoshishiqianxundihuijuedehua，bianshibujilingdaoganbudelianmian，meiyoujilingdaoganbudejietixia。yinciyudaoneiyangdezhuangkuangshi，dajiajiuxuyaofenbianchangsuo，youmudeyongshangxiabiansangejiliang，yongshangzheisanzhongketaohuadefangshi。tanranmianduilingdaoganbudekuajiang。

第一招：迁移主题风格

 lingdaoganbuhuizaibierenyanqianzenmekuaren，shishishangbianshihuifenbujingyihedutedechangsuoshang。zaidutedechangsuoshang，ninengsiliangboqianjin，guanjiandemudi，bianshijianglingdaoganbuduinidekuajiang，shenggaodaoduiqiyedexiexie。lingdaoganbulejienilejienideweiji，zaixinliduinizanshangyoujia。

 shishishang，jiukeyifenchengsangeliucheng。diyigeliuchengshixianzhanxiannidexiexie，ganxielingdaodeguanxin，zhuyaobiaoxiandezishenshouzuwucuo；diergeliuchengshitigaoxingweizhuti，jianggongxiannengzheduolaosuoyoutihuijilingdaoganbu，kuajianglingdaoganbuhuiyonggong，xinxiongkaikuozheixie；disangeliucheng，bianshiyongshijixingdonglaibiaotaifayan，shuomingzishendezhongshi。

第二招：比照托起

 liru，lingdaoganbukuajiangnizuoshizhouquan，ninengneiyanghuida：ganxielingdaodekuajiang，youyunishimoumoumoulingdaoganbudepenyou，yeshiqiyezhuzhongdevip，ziranyaojiangquanbudeshierbantuodang，banwan，youyuninfeichangzhidedajianeimerenzhena。genjuneiyangdebizhaofangshi，jiangtadebiyaoxingjifanyingchuqu，jiuyaotaduishitaxiangjianle。

 ruhegaoqingshanghuifubierendezanmei？shuobailedebizhao，shishishangbianshiyikaomouyixiaobufendeyoudian，xianxianchulingyifangdebiyaoxing。zhongyaobianshiqujueyunixuyaobawozaiqizhongdeneiyigedian，bingjiangbawozhumeiyigechangsuoshangdedian，yingyongneiyangdegousijianglingyifangzhaoshujinlai。jiusuanlingyifanggaoqingchunijuededebuguoshitaoludehua，yehuiganjueyouqiwenxin，duinizanshangyoujia。

第三招：烘托重视

 zheizhaodeguanjiandian，bianshiyaobawozhulingyifangdehuaquhuifulingyifang。jiurutongyinjiuzheiyishiba，lingyifangbuqingchunidejiujingshihaoshihuai，cicicanzhuoshangfajuenidejiujinghainenggou，suikoushuochuyijudekuajiang。niyejiunenggoujiecijihuiyijianfankuilingyifang，shiyouyuyoulingyifangdecunyou，cairangzishennenggouhuodeneimehuanlede

 zaibuyiyangdechangsuoxia，jiyulingyifangjinyibudekuajianghezanyang，bianshizheiyizhaodejingcui。nicaikeyigenjuzheiyizhao，biaomingchunideshuizhun。buranniyejiuhuishenxianbuqingchuruhehuifulingdaoganbu，zhiyounankandidianlediantou，dizhiganxie，zheileimeiyoushenmeyouqichusedezhuyaobiaoxianshang。

 ruguonigaoqingchuzheiyijiliangdejiqiaoshi，zaiyudaoxiangjindezhuangkuang，niyejiunengqingqingsongsongweiyuneiyangdeneiyangdeneiyangdele。lingdaoganbuyehuiduinigaibian，duinilingyanxiangkan，juedenishigekezaozhicai。neiyangma，niyekeyigenjujiuju，jilingdaoganbuliuyouyigehaoyinxiang，keyijiecijihuilajinhelingdaoganbuzhongjiandeguanlian，jizijideshengzhijiaxinxiulu。

 huizong：zaijiujushang，lingdaoganbukuajiangni，yuanyishangyeshiweilegenghaodizhengqueyindaoniduojiangliangsanju，anshizheniduojingsanbeijiudehanyi。nibunenghuixiehoujiumeiyoulexiamian，neimashiduoshaoyiranhuiyouyidiannankan。yinci，yingyongtishengdedezheijigeketaohua，keyijinixiamiandezishi，zuoyigemaixiafubi。