不会聊天怎么办？掌握这4个说话技巧训练

 shibushinijuedeyitianbuyaojinjiugenrenxianliaoshizailangfeishijian，cuoguolianghaodejihuie！shuohuajiqiaoyounaxie？a？jiaruniyanjiangkoucaibutaihaohaineimejuedejiudacuotecuole，meishixiantanduiyigerendeyanjiangkoucaitigaoyouweizhongyao。liaotianyoushenmejiqiaoyounaxiekeyi xuexideni？wulunshihesheiliaotiandouxuyaoliaotiandejiqiao，neimexuexishenmeyangdejiqiaocaishibijiaohaode，gaoqingshangdeni？shuohuajiqiaoxunlianzenmelian？

 duojianghuaduoxiantankeyihelitishengyuyanbiaodajigouyuyanbiaodanengli，keyiduanlianzhaohuatiliaotiandegongzuonengli、huihuadegongzuonengli；nengtishengluojisiweinengli，baohansiweiluojigongzuonengli、xiangxiangli、xiangxiangli、rangluojisiweiyuelaiyuegengweihuoyuexing。keyixunlianzishenxuededejianghualiaotiandejiqiao、zhaoshuhefangshi。

闲谈训练方法是口才培训的主要方式。为何那么说呢?

由于：

 yi、shuohuajiqiaoyounaxie？xiantanshiyouqishiyumeitianpengmiandeqinren、pengyou、guanlianfeichanghaodepengyouxiantanshiqingxuhenshifangyali、meiyouyali、burongyijuedejiaolvbuan，yucitongshiyekeyilajinxianghuzhijiandeguanlian、cujinganqing；

 er、xiantanshijibianmeiyoufahuihaoyebuhuidaozhinaxiebijiaoyanzhongdebuliangyingxiang，xiantanxunlianfangfashiyizhongmeiyouyalideshizhanyanlianxunlianfangfa。

 san、xiantanshigenjuduirendedanaojiyilikuyouguanxinxidehuoqu、shulihezaishengchanjiagongyouliyutuijinyouguanxinxidejiyili。zaixuanbuchangsuoyongshikeyikuaisucongnaozilihuoquyouguanxinxi，qiexiantandejiyuxuduo，zhixuzishenyoukongxianshijianjiukeyihemoshengrenliaotian。

闲谈训炼如何开展？

01、tizaozuoyixietiqianzhunbei

 touyitianyelizhunbeichongfenyixiexiaogushihehuatitaolun，nenggoushizishenjinqilijingdeshi、kandaohuotingdaodeshi，haikeyishizaiwangshangdeshehuiredianhuatitaolun、youyisiqiguaideshehuiredianxinwen、yulebaguahuatitaolun。

02、积极进行闲聊

jijizhaojiyu、zhaohuatiliaotianzhujianxianliao。zaishidangdeqingkuangxiayinjinzishenzuowanjiuzhunbeihaodehuatitaolunhexiaogushi。

 zhenduibuaishuohua、bushanyancidepenyoueryan，zhaoshidangdeliaotiandehuatishiyijianjiaoweijiannandeshi，dajiadekoucaipeixunyingxuexicailiaoyouliaotiandehuatilanmu。zhuanyeweidahuoerchulizhaoliaotianhuatidenanti。

03、尽可能多讲话

 xiantanshiduoyingyongliaotiantaolu、duoxiangdao、xiangxianghejiading，jinkenengduojianghua，jinkenengbayijuhuabianwei10juhua，ba10juhuabianwei100juhua；xunlianzishenduihuatitaolunshencengcijinxingdegongzuonengli，xunlianzishendeyuyanbiaodajigouyuyanbiaodanengli。

04、汇总剖析

 xiantanzhihouchoushijianyushijianlaihuizongpouxishikoucaipeixunshifenguanjiandeyihuan，zhangqixingjianchibuxiehuizongpouxikeyishiwomenkoucaipeixunshibeigongban。

 1.、pouxihuizongnaxiedifangmeiyoujiejuehao？shenmehuatitaolunmeiyoujiehao？shenmehuatitaolunrangzishenwufajie？shenmehuatitaolunhainenggouzaicishencengcijinxingliao？suihousisuoxiayicipengdaoyiyangdezhuangkuangyingdangruhejiejue。liaotianyoushenmejiqiaoyounaxiekeyi xuexideni？wulunshihesheiliaotiandouxuyaoliaotiandejiqiao，neimexuexishenmeyangdejiqiaocaishibijiaohaode，gaoqingshangdeni？shuohuajiqiaoxunlianzenmelian？

2、zhuiyiyixiashenmehuatitaolunjiejuedefeichanghao！suihouxiaoxiaogaoxingyixia，chunfengdeyiyixia，qingheyixia!

3、zhuiyiyixialingyifangyoushenmefeichangzhidezishenxuexipeixundediqu？

4、pouxizishenhetarentayonglenaxiedesiweimoshi？

5、pouxiyixiazishenhebierenyongleshenmexiucifangfa、youmojiqiao、wanxiaohuafangfa？

6、shuohuajiqiaoyounaxie？pouxiyixiazishenhebierenyonglenaxieyuyanjiqiao、liaotiandejiqiao、liaotiantaolu？