不太会说话，如何提高说话技巧？

 rujindeshehuishang，yaoxiangzhangjiupingwendefazhanqushi，shuohuajiqiaoyounaxie？chukaibenshenshifenjishuzhuanyedegongzuonenglideyingshiliwai，haibixuyouzhegezhonggeyangrenjijiaowang、goutongjiaoliudechuangxinnenglifangfa。liaotianyoushenmejiqiaoyounaxiekeyi xuexideni？wulunshihesheiliaotiandouxuyaoliaotiandejiqiao，neimexuexishenmeyangdejiqiaocaishibijiaohaode，gaoqingshangdeni？shuohuajiqiaoxunlianzenmelian？

 tanzuoshengyibixutanpancelve，milianaibixuyuyanjiqiao，richanggongzuoshangjiarubuhuiliaotian，youyurongyidezuirenyishiledahaojihuiquanshijingchangchuxiandeshi。

 churuzhichangzhizhong，youshiyuyanbiaodanengligongzuonenglihaoderen，mingbaizaishenmechangsuoshuoshenmehuaderen，doushihuizaiqiyefazhandefeichanghao，erzheixiebushanyugoutongjiaoliuzhinengbenfengongzuozhongderen，shizhongdouburongyihuodejinyibutigao！

neima，ruhetigaoshuohuadejiqiaoni？

1、学不懂积极，那么就试一下回复另一方。

xingqinghaixiuderen，bulunshigongzuozhonghuoshirichangshenghuo，zaiyurenxiangchucengmian，bushishanyujijide。

shuohuajiqiaoyounaxie？keshibuguanzenyang，goutongjiaoliushibibukeshaode。

 jiaruzishenqueshibushanyujijiherengoutongjiaoliu，nenggouzaibierennijiaotanshihuifureqingdian，zuishaobaozhengbicinengyouxiaodegoutong，quebaogongzuozhongnengkaizhan。

xuebudongjiji，neimejiushiyixiahuifulingyifang。

 jiaruzishenzaizhirenyuanchangshangburongyiliuxupaima，yebuhuichuipengtaren，nenggoushizheyanzhelingyifangdeyudiaolaijianghua，jinkenengbubiyulingyifangchanshengjiaoqueshishier。

 duitarenshuodehuayaoyouhuifu，xuehaozheiyiyuyanjiqiaohou，jinengzhongshilingyifang，youkanqilaizishenshifendaqi，zheiyifangfaheshidabufenren。

2、学不懂客套，那么就试一下遵循礼数。

 bushanyuherenketaohua，nenggouchangshizunxunyixieyurenxiangchuzhongdelishu，lirupengmianshiwenhao，tarenjianghuashiyongxinlingtingdeng，nengbaozhengzheizhongzaoyichongzulingrenjuedezhongshile。

 womenzhongguorendeketaoshiyizhongyoulimao、youhanyangdezhuyaobiaoxian，jiusuanshiqinqipengyouzhongjian，yebukeyiziyiweishiguanlianqinmiwujianjiukeyisuiyiyixie。

 gaiyoudelishuyiranbukeyisheng，gaiyoudeketaoyebukeyishao。ruguobumingbaidezheizhong，henkenengbianhuizaoshoulingrengangadechangjing。

3、赞扬另一方。

zanyanglingyifangdeshenshangshifenmimideyoushi。

zanyangdeqiaomenbingbushizheixiewenbuduiti，zhishiqiadangdishiyonglingyifangyanlilixianghuadezishenpinpaixingxiang。

congnimendiyicigoutongjiaoliuzhujian，jiujinmizhuyitadeyanwaizhiyi，tanxuntajiujingruhekanzishen。

nidezanyangyaoyouqi、yaoxuxurusheng、yaojingque，liru“fengliutitang”“itjiexujinglei”“wumeidongren”deng。

zaimasiluolilundexuyaocengcililunli，rendoubixuguishugan，qidaihuodetarenderentong。

4、提升自己的个人心理素质。

haipazaipangrenqingsongjianghua，shuobailebianshiqianqueyongqi，xinxinbugoudeyuangu。

 youderenyushengjulaineixiangxing，zhangshijianleiyuefeichangshaochupengbieren，youqianquefengfuduocaideshehuifazhanjingyan，jinerpeiyanglehaipazhangkoudexiguanxing，ganjue“shaoshuohuaduozuoshi”，“yanduobishi”。

 lefangzhiweihaixingxiangqizhi，yincimeishimeikedoutishizishennengshaoshuohuajiujinliangbimianjianghua，yizhidaozhizishenrongrubushangjianghuadezhuangkuanghejuede，jinerqianquebiaoshudedanliang。

 youyixieshier，yuefaquduobi，zeyuefaqianqueshijianhuodongdejiyu;meiyoushijianhuodongdejiyu，jiuwufadedaoxiangduiyingdeduanlian，richangshenghuodeshejiaoquanshizhongdoujuxianxingzaiyigebudadefanchouli，zishenyouzennengfazhanni?

 nihebujiangzishendexingquaihao、aihao、caikeyi、tezhangdengcengmianquanbuliezaizhishang，kanyixiazishenxianjieduanhuideshiershishenme，burongyideshiershishenme?zuodehaoshishenme，zuodehenfeijingdeyeshishenme。

 liejuyizhangbiao，kanyixiazishendaodishineiyangyigeren，suihoucongshanyudecengmiansuzaozixinxin，zaiyibuyibujianjianditishengziji，zhangjiuyiwang，nidexinxinbianhuileijidaoyidingshuipingle。

yongyouzixinxin，dangranjiuxuyaochulaishijianhuodong，duanlianzishen。

5、沟通能力的训炼。

 menzaijianghuadequanguochengzhongfashengleyixiechuxianyiwai，birushuoshuocuo，chanshengshuocuo，beilingyifangweinandeng，goutongnenglijiukeyizhengjiudajia，naizhijingmiaojuelun。

 liuyixunlianzishendegoutongnengli，yeshikoucaipeixunzhonghenzhongyaodeyihuan。liaotianyoushenmejiqiaoyounaxiekeyi xuexideni？wulunshihesheiliaotiandouxuyaoliaotiandejiqiao，neimexuexishenmeyangdejiqiaocaishibijiaohaode，gaoqingshangdeni？shuohuajiqiaoxunlianzenmelian？

zhuanyezhishidezhubei，henzhongyao。

 nidulideheimoshuiduodehua，nitanqihualaidangranyanzhiyouli。pingchangduodushuduhaoshu，duodubao，duozhuyixinwenbaodao，naizhitishengjingyan，duolijingquanqiu，duoqinshentiyan，yeshileijideyizhong。

常常训练更关键。

 ruguobulijingchangchangdexunlian，jishininaozhonghuoyuanchongzu，yebuyidingbahuashuodebujinrenyi，bingbushibiaoshubuqingchu，bianshihulvelezheixiediqumeiyoushuo。

 shuohuajiqiaoyounaxie？fangfoxuexikaichehuoxueyouyongneiban，jianchiduanlianzishendeyanjiangkoucaiba!changchangduojiangduojiang，caikeyitishengzijideyanjiangkoucai。