和别人聊天没话题？找不到聊天话题怎么办

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说些什么不重要，怎么讲才算是关键

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说另一方要听得话，学好察颜观色

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高情商的聊天话题是看透不说透

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不善言辞的人应当自我反思

 zhaobudaoliaotianhuatizenmeban？bushanyanciderendabufenquanshihexingqingxiangguan，dabufenshijiaojiquanxiao，jingyanbugoujiqiguzhijijianbumingbaifanshengderen。yaoxianggaijinzheixiefangmiandequedian，zuixianyaokuozhangzishendejiaojiquan，duoshezuyouguanlingyudezhuanyezhishichongshiziji，zhenduidajiaderenjijiaowangnenglilaijiangquanshiyizhongduanlianhetisheng。zaizheigeshehuifazhanlicunhuozuizhongyaodezhuanyejinengbianshiliaotiandejiqiao，zheiguanlianzheninengbunengjiejuehaorenjijiaowang，yibandaduoshuchidekaiderendouhenhuixianliao，xiangfannenggouneimeshuo，huixianliaoderendouburongyihundehencha。