找不到聊天话题怎么办？如何能让你爱的人主动联系你？

 genzishenzuiaiderenxianliaokebukeyishahuhugentanaxiedoushuo，zhaobudaoliaotianhuatizenmeban？yaoxiangranglingyifanglaiduiniyouganjue，neijiuxuyaoxuehaodongyidongnaozi。liaotianhuashu900juyounaxieni？

youshi，zhaoshuguoshenbingbushihaoshier，keguoyudanchunxingyebuyidingbianshiyijianhaoshi，youqishigenzishenaideren。

 liujinqiaishangleyigenvren，jiaoxu。zheiyinvxingduisheifangfodouaidabuli，yifujurenyuqianlizhiwaideyangzi。liu，doumeiyouyinweixihuannishangyigerenjiuziluanzhenjiao，zhishicongrongdandingbujinghuang。

 zhihoutayoulejie，xuhenxihuanyinyongkafei，duixianmokafeiyehenyouzishendekanfa，yincitagoumaileyibenjishuzhuanyejiedukafeizhishideshubenlaixuexipeixunzuoxianmokafei，bingchangchangdaoxuxiaidenajiakafeitingzhuangzuoqiaoyu。

 zhaobudaoliaotianhuatizenmeban？xuxiaidengshan，qiahaozheiyidian，tayexiai，zishenjibenshangmeiyigelibaitiandoushihuiquzhoubianpadengshan，sansanbu。xufangfohaitingfengjianmixinshierxingzuode，liugankuaigoumaileyibenxingzuoshu，yezhujiankexueyanjiuleqilai。

xuyikan，bianyoudianerhaoqixinzheigerenshishei，yinciyunxuleliudeshenqingbanli，jiushizheiyang，liuhexuzhujianliaoleqilai。

 youyuliuzuodekechenghenda，tachangchangzhaoyixiexuyouxingqudehuatitaolun，yilaierqudeliaotian，gesanchawufabuyixiezishendeguandiankanfa，yuxushenrutantao，youzaibuzhibujuezanmeixuyouniantou，jiewudute。

 liangrenxunsujiuliaoleqilai，bujinshixiaoshuojishierxingzuodengshannaxiede，jianjiandidezhujiantidaogongzuozhongrichangshenghuoheganqing。xuyouyizhongxunzhaozhixindejuede，liuyezaigenxudexianliaolifajue，xushijishangshiyigewaigangneiroudenvxing。

 tazaibujingyijianjiangchuleduixudexiai，xutingle，ganjueneixinwennuande，yebiaoshuchuliudehaogandu。jiushizheiyang，liangrenjianjiandideshuoqiletiantiandelianai。

 shijishangchuduixiangjiuzheiyang，kaitounan。congsuweimoumiandeliangren，yuelaiyuexianghuxinrenlejie，suihouzourulingyifangdeneixinshenchu，zhidaobianchengqinglvlianren，zuiweizhongyaodeyibubianshixianliao。

最先，学着去聊另一方有兴趣的话题讨论。

 rutongliuneiyang，yaoxiangaoqingchulingyifangduishenmeshieryouxingqu，pingchangyoushenmexihao，niyutazhongjianyounaxiexihaoshiyitongde，naxiexihaoshinenggouyitongchuangjiande。

 ziran，jiusuanshichuangjianyitongdexingquaihao，neimeniyaoqueshiquyouxingqu，jiarujinjindandandequzhangwotarenyouxingqudewupinsuihoupaodaotarenyanqianqudatankuotan，henyoukenengdiyijuhuabianhuibeitizou，neiyang，feichangrongyirangtarenganjuenihenzhongdiduan，hainatayouxingqudewupinlaizhuangmozuoyang。keneng，neirenbianburongyitaixianglicainini。liaotianhuashu900juyounaxieni？

次之，适度的发布自身的观点。

 yaoxuehaofabujianjie，yiweidetaohaotarenshibuhaode，yexuyaoyouzhenbenshi，yulingyifanggoutongjiaoliu，quchuangjianyitongdehuatitaolun。

 danweihedajiayoushuoyaoshiduni？zheishijishangyehenxiwei，youyu，meiyigerenzhenduizishenxihuandedongxidouhenzhizhe，dandajiayourendougeyouyi，xiangtongyijianshiqingdeguandianhenyoukenenghuigeyoubutong。zheigeshihou，yaoxuehaozuiheshidehuozuochushidudetuoxie，bukeyirang2gexianliaodexintaiehuale。

最终，学着适度的去赞美他人。

 shijishang，meiyigerendouqipanhuodetarenderenke，shuobailezengrenmeigui，shouyouyuxiang，shiduzanmeibierenshituidongbicizhijiandefeichanghaodefangfa。

 zaizheigeshihou，niyejiuyidingyaozixi，yaoxuehaoqufajuetarendehao，jinyouneiyang，zanyangcaihuigengyouyiyi，rutongliuneiyang，tazixidefajuexuqianshijishangbingbingbuxiangdahuoshuodeneibanbingliangduisheiaidabuli。liaotianhuashu900juyounaxieni？

 shijishangxuqianshigewaigangneirouderen，tabushitaoyanjiaoyou，jinjindongtaderenhenshao，zheiyidianyeshixuqianzishendejiedi，yincidangliujiangchuduitadexiaishi，xuqiancaihuiganjueyouqiwennuan，yeyinerduiliuzaochenglehaogandu。

 zhaobudaoliaotianhuatizenmeban？ziran，womenzaizanmeibierendeqingkuangxiayaoshidu，yaozaishihedeshijian，qiadangdechangsuo，yishidangdefangfazanmeibieren，buranhaowudaolihechixudezanmeihuikanqilaihenyouyi，lingrenganjueniyizhizaifangcaihongpi，fandaohuidebuchangshi。