不会和女孩子聊天怎么办？聊天没有话题？

 zheihenyiqiezhengchang，zhongjiushierzhongbuyiyangweishengwu。danjiupanizigaozida，buhuihenvhaiziliaotianzenmeban？yongziyiweishiduidefangfaqujinxinghuatitaolun，yongziwogandongdefangfaquzhuiqiunvsheng。zuihoubudanhuiluogeyichangkong，haihenyoukenengbeidangzuoxiaoliao。buhuiliaotianshuohuazenmeban？henvhaizihuozhenanshengbuhuiliaotian，zhaobudaohuatizenmebanni？yaoruhezhaohuatiliaotianni？nvshengnanshengbuhuitanlianaizenmeban？

这就不值当了。

 zixunzheixienian，yesuandeshangshaozhangwoxienvhai。wozhiyouduinishuo，muqianshimianshangyiqiexushunvhaideshijijieding，quanshipianmianxingqiejiduanhuade。

xuduonvhaibingbuxihuankouhongbaobao，bingbuchedilixing，bingbuhuiweiquqiuquan，bingbuqipanjiazhong，yebingbudouxiangyaozuogongzhu。

yinci，yongtaorugongshijisuandefangshijinxingzhuiqiuwanmei，tamenzhinengganjuenizheirenwuqu，meishenmefengcai。

 buhuihenvhaiziliaotianzenmeban？zhuiqiunvsheng，xingbieshijiaozhiyouzuoweifuzhu，rendebenxingyitongquediancaisuanshizhenzhenzhengzhengshousuorendeneixindebuerfamen。

xiang“dajinduishouneibu”，xianmingquenizijishihegede。

一、跟女孩交往，最应当注意什么？

立即抛结果：

第一，乐观的心态。

第二，恰当的方法。

yongyouzheilianggefangmian，nicaijuyou“zhaohuatiliaotian”denenglisuzhi。

xuduonanhaizijiukazailediyidian：chupengnvhaishi，xinlizhuangtaibianshicuode。

yaobuzhenduixingtaiqiang，bulieganshizu。shangqubianshiguaiwanmojiaodiwendaobierenshifouyounanyou，shenmeshihounengchuqujianyimian；

 yaobubianshitiangouxing，yijidizishiganyu。weishouweiweitixindiaodan，nvhaiyigemuguangjiunengjiangnihedehuifeiyanmie，weikongzishengerenxingweifangma。

zheierzhongxinlizhuangtai，doumeifayunvhaichuangjianqishenxinjiankangfazhanqushidejiaowangguanlian。

nvhaiyaodejibingbushibazijidanglieshidemengshou，yebushifangzongzijidetiangou。

tamenyaodeshiyige：nengxiyinzhuzishen，qiemingbaizishenderen。

二、怎样创建乐观的心态？

两字：公平。

jinguannishijijixiangtaojinhudeneiyifang，neiyejinzhizaici。taojinhudeyifangbuyiweizhebianshidiweifang。

shexiangyixia，nizenmegenzishendixiongjiaowangde？wozhidebingbushijiaowangfangfa，zhishijiaowangxinlizhuangtai。

 niyiranhuiweichiqingchudezishen，baohandandudeshenmeiguan，youzhujiandexintai，jiandingbuyidetiaoxuan。nidecikexintiaopanbiangenjuneiyangdenilaishenruzhangwodaonibenrendeqingchulunlang，yunideyoushiyoudian。

 zheijiushizuizhongyaode：nixuyaozainvhaiyanqian，yiranbaocunneiyigezui“keke”dezishen。erbushiweilegenghaodishunconglingyifang，jiuyuelaiyue“naxiedoukeyi”“ruhedouhao”“nijuededeyinweiwohenxihuan”zheixie。youyujinyouneiyang，nvhaicaihuizhenzhenzhengzhengderenqingni，changshizhangwoni。erbushirangnifalefahaorenkanaxiedelijixiaomole。

 danjinliangbubixincunjiaoxing，qingshoulianxingqinipengzhangdezixinxin，gengbubizigaozidadijuedezishenzhangwonvshi，zhigaoqiyangdiyixingbieshijiaobujingyidicaixianglingyifang，dajilingyifang。

dandu、gongpingerzhongshi，shichupengnvhaizuihaoshidexintai。

三、怎样创建恰当的交往方法？

guanjianlaila，chuangjianlianghaodexintaihou，zoushangzhenggui。

zenyangcaikeyijingquexunzhaonenglinglingyifangzaochenghaogandudehuatitaolun？

xianyaoliuyi，zhaohuatiliaotianshiqianwanbunengshenxiandehaoduogecuowuguannian：

1、取悦和顺从

 zhaoxunlingyifangyouxingqudehuatitaolunziranmeiyoucuo，danguoduoshunconglingyifang，meicizhitiaolingyifangxiaitingdishuo，henyoukenenghuidebuchangshi。

2、“fengqu”bukeyichuliyiqie

youyixienanhaizibianshijuede，fengqucaisuanshixiyinzhunvhaidetoudengdashi。

 danwoyaogaosunideshi，zhinengfengqudenansheng，queshihuirangnvhaigennizaiyiqishipengfudaxiao，danzheiyixiaohenyoukenengjiuxiaobianchengdixiong，erbushilianren。

 fengqujinjinaijinlingyifangdeyizhongfuzhufangshi，shuyunisixiangjingjiedeyibufen。zhenzhenzhengzhengdezhuxianrenwu，huoshiyaojiezhubicixiangchuquanguochengzhong，zhangqixingleijidehaoganduheyikao。

3、过多呈现自身

guoduochengxianzishen，henyoukenengzaikantouyiqiedenvhaiyanlishigechaoxiao。

 bujingyidishuozishencaichanzenyang，guzuomeishierdishuojinglihaoduogenvyou......nvhaizuibianfuhe，neixinganjuenihaiziqi。

 zuihaoshidechengxian，shibuzhangyangxiabaonangdeliangdian。nixuyaobawohaozheiyidu，youyizhong“wohenchusedanwowusuowei，jiarunibutanwoyibeiziyebuhuishuo”desatuogan——zheileiliangdianbeinvhaifajuehou，danshiqieqieshishideqinpei。

你乃至能够生产制造突破口去呈现，唯有不必自报家门般呈现。

1、运用“多种销售话术多元性”，挑动女孩跟你闲聊的兴趣爱好

lejienvshengweishenmeyizhibuyuanyihuinidexinxima？youyutaqueshishiganjuetaiganliaole。

biru，nidetichuwentiyizhi：“jintianchidenaxie？”“kandeyibudianying？”

tayezhiyoupingdanwuqidihuiying：“fangbianmian”huodianyingmingcheng。

nidetichuwentiyizhidanxuanti，qiewufanyanzhanxing——tahuiniyihou，niyejiumeiyoujiele。

tahenyoukenengchuziyuwenminglimaohuiyingniyici2ci，danpinciyiduo，jiuganjuefaweile。

 nixuyaoxuehao“duozhongduoyuanxingtichuwenti”，zhideshi，zaiyigenantizhong，youlianggehuo2gezhishangnenggouhuiyingdeguanjian。qiezaitahuiyingyihou，niyounengshunlichengzhangdimingquetichuxindehuatitaolun。

liru，ninengjiangtichuwentigaiwei：“jintianwochidexiaolongxia，niyinggaibuxihuanzheiyikougan。”

 jiandaomei，zheijiujitajiyuleerzhongkexuanzedenanti。tadehuiyingchedinenggoushi：“wochilefangbianmian，nizenmezhidaowobuhuixihuanneiyigekougan？ruhecaide？”

huatitaolunzheijiubeipaoqilaile。

2、gaotonglixinzaochengdehaogandu

lejie，yeshidedaonvhaihaogandudeyouxiaotujing。

 nizhuyaobiaoxiandeyuelejieta，yuedongta。tajiuyuefeichangrongyixiangnidakaixinfei，lianggerenkexuanzedehuatitaolunjiuyueda，guanlianzoudeyejiuyuejinde。

youguangaotonglixin，zuizhongyaodeyidiantiyibianshi：lejietadexintai。

 batadexintaifangdaodiyiwei，taxiangyoushangqiuchun，neimenipeitayoushangqiuchun；taxiangjinqianzhangkong，neinijiudaitajinqianzhangkong。buhuiliaotianshuohuazenmeban？henvhaizihuozhenanshengbuhuiliaotian，zhaobudaohuatizenmebanni？yaoruhezhaohuatiliaotianni？nvshengnanshengbuhuitanlianaizenmeban？

xintaidegongmingdian，feichangrongyizaochengnvhaiduinidehaogandu。

3、shidudezanyangchanshengdehaogandu

renmendetianxingzhong，quanshiqipanbeirenkede。

danzheileirenke，buzhishiliuyubiaomiandechengzan，daliangdeshiduilizaidezhuisuizhe。

huanjuhuashuo，bielijiyong“kua”de，yaoyongkeguanshishitidainideshangxi。

 buhuihenvhaiziliaotianzenmeban？jugeshili：“wohaoxihuannidexingqing”jiubibushang“nidexingqingyizhinengyaowowanquanshifangyalichulai，woyexiangbianchengnizheileixingqingderen。”