刚加微信的女生该如何聊天 刚认识的女孩子怎么聊天

 gangrenshidenvhaizizenmeliaotian？xintai，zhirenshanyong。nvshengyixintaiweidaoxiangxingzuochujuece。yixiesuoshitongchangshizuinengweihaixintaide、bieyitiandaowanzhituzhetianyanmiyu、duozuoyidian、tabuxia、dounengjiandaode。zhizhiyouyitian、takouzhonghengzhe“benlainiyehenaiwo、meiyouliyouaibushangjieguo”、tashijishanghuoshigaobudongweiheaibushangjieguo。danzheibingbufangaitazaixiamiandemouyiyishunjianjiubianchenglenidenvyou。tanaxieyemeixiang、zongzhi、gensuiqingxuzou、zheijiushinvsheng。gangkaishizhuinvshengyuehuipinlvyaoxiankankan，heganglianaideqinglvliaotianhuatishiyouqubiede。

zhenduitianjiaweixindenvsheng，dajiayingdangneiyangliao：

第一步：找寻适合的话题讨论进入

 genjutouxiangtupian、nicheng、qianzi、shineikongjiandongtaixing、weixinpengyouquan、liuyanbanliuyandenggongbuxinxineirongxunzhaotadegerenaihao、youqifangandeshiqing、yixiebenrendexiaoxiguan。

例一：假如你发觉

①：她喜爱听周董。

②：她喜爱听万青。

③：taxiaidapingpangqiu。

④：taxiaimeiguodianshiju。

⑤：她反感王源。

⑥：tafanganbumingbubaidenannvaimeiguanlian。

⑦：tayouqitaoyanchiboluo。

⑧：tayoumeirixinglaihouheyibeikaishuidexiguanxing。

⑨：tayoumeiriwanshangpaobudexiguanxing。

ninengtiaoxuannayigehuatitaolunjinruni？

biaozhundaanshi②、④、⑥、⑧。

zaoqihuatitaolunjinrushouxianxuanzelengmenhuoshencenglei、bingchansheng“jiuhanfengganyu”he“gongshang”dejushi。

ziranqitaxuanzexiangyebubiwangjile、zaizhonghouqiyiranyoufeichangdadeyongtu。

第二步：核心话题讨论，推动女生

①：zhishicengmianyaoguang、wuxurenhedongxidoudong、dannaxienidounengshuoshangjiju。

②：youyisijimin、naohuiluqingqierqiuchuleibacui、zheiermoliandeshigaoxiaoduanzichuzanglianghelinchangfahuifanying。

landajiedegengjiubunengyongle、zhinengshinikanqilaigengweifawei。

zaoqifengqudefangshiyizichaoweizhudao、houbanqiyiheitaweizhudao、ziranbushishangsixiandeneileihei。

③：zaoqizuoyigedabiaodedougen，bubifankeweizhu。

dangyigehuatitaolunwanbishi，mashangcongtadejinjigexinxizhongxunzhaozhujianxiayigehuatitaolundeguanjianzi，xianjieyaodangran。

houbanqizuoyigedabiaodepenggen、bubigaliao。

nenggouzhujiangongxiangzishenyouqudexiaogushile、danyaoliuyiguanchazhengduimiandefanyingsuishisuididiaojie。

④：回绝尴聊。

zaifajuehuatitaolunkaizhanbuxialaideqingkuangxia、qingzhaoyigetuocigankuailiuguo、zaiduojiangyijudouhenyoukenenghuisi。

⑤：换位思考一下。

 nigaochuyixingzihouhuotiqianzhunbeijiangchuyijuhuashi、xianbazijidaidaodaotadebuwei、jiarunifajuezheixingzijirenyizhong“buqingchuhuiyingnaxiecaihao”dejuede、neimashandiaozheixingzi、zaidayixingzibingfanfuliucheng。

xiangxinziji、huisazirudeliaotianganshoushimeiyigerendouxiaide。

⑥：先人一步

zheiyinanyidujiaogao、zuixianyaoyouxiaoyucefenxitaduimoushiqingdeguandian、zaitameizhangkouqian、nixianbazheigeguandianjiangle。

zheiyizuofahuichansheng“sanguanhe、xinyoulingxi、qiaoyuzhiyi”decuojue。

⑦：nenggoujitayigezhuanxiangbiecheng、bianshiweiyounicaihuineimajiaotadeneilei。

 ⑧：congzhiqiandeliaotianjiluhuotanhuazhongxunzhaohaoduogeyouyisidegeng、zheizhonggengneimeyouquganwanbukeyixiaohao、anxinfanfuba、burongyilande。

⑨：buguanzenyang、yidingyaozhongshita、wanxiaoyaomingbaifencungan、zheiyeshidaodedixian。

第三步：操控聊天节奏感

①：gaobaibingbushichongfengdehaojiaosheng、zhishihuoshengshidemingjinshoubing。

zhongjiuziguyilaigaobaiduobaibiao、jihuhunyuanshaoyuangu。

shangqubianshuo“wolongaotiancongjintianqizhuinini”、nipabushigeerlengzi。

 ②：zaoqininengmeirijijiliaotian、dandaohoubanqiyidingyaoyizhizhuzishenbulizhi、dengtalaiyueni、jiarutabuzhudong、neibianshiniqianbianzuodebuzuhao。

gangrenshidenvhaizizenmeliaotian？ganwanbukeyirangtaganjueniyitiandaowanshashimeiyou、jiulejiehetahuche。

③：shengchanzhizaochedikekongxingdexiaochongtuxiaofenqixiaolengbaoli、zhangwohaofencun、zheiyiwanhaolanenggouxunsudetishengganqingjichu。

④：shengchanzhizaomingxianchajubizhao、bingbushishilengshire、zhishichangtaihuareyoushihouleng。

例二：

yiqiquwan，yaomaishuguo。

jingguoboluomideqingkuangxianinengwuyijiandeshuoyiju“yinweiwotaoyanchiboluo、buqingchuzheimiejuerenxingdewupinweihecunyou”。

jingguotiyuchangdeqingkuangxianiyejiukeyishuoyiju“zhennongbudongzheizhongrenyelipaonaxiebu、zheibenlaishizaochenzuodeshi”。

xinlijulihenzhongyao、taijiyuqiuchenghuifeichangrongyirangnvshengqijingtixin。

 nizhixuyixiazouruleguoduojiuyidingyaozaishihedeqingkuangxiadaotuiyidian、yizhizouruhuichanshengguitiannandejushi、yizhidaotuihuirangtaganjuenishigeshagua。

 zaiwangfandubudequanguochengzhong、ninengjingyadefajuenimenzaoyinenggouwuhuabutanle、naizhijianjujindaozhixuyishenchushou、jiukeyibaodaota。gangkaishizhuinvshengyuehuipinlvyaoxiankankan，heganglianaideqinglvliaotianhuatishiyouqubiede。