有必要天天聊天吗 刚认识的女生怎么聊

 gangrenshidenvshengzenmeliao？jinqiyoupenyousiliaowojiang：“qianbujiuxinlejieleyigenvsheng，yikaishimeiridoushihuiliaotian，liaodeyehenhao，danjinjitianxianzhujuedelingyifangmeineimajiqingle，zheigaigaizenmeban？”gangrenshinvhaiweixinliaoshenme，keshihegangtanlianaizenyangzengjinganqingbutong。

 zheigewentijiuchuzaileniyunvsheng“meitianliaotian”shang。shijishang，zaixihuanyigenvsheng，niyebukeyimeitianzhaotaliaotian，jiusuannimenmeiyiciliaodaodouhaihao。

关键缘故有3点：

1、huirangnvshengganjuezanyitiandaowanhunhunee，jitaliuyoudishiyongjiazhideyinxiang，shijianjiuletajiubuyuanyilinini。

2、huipuluxuqiugan，lveweiyoudianerjingyandenvsheng，yiyanbianhuikanchuqunidesixu，suihoubianhuiduiniyouyidingdetifang。

 3、dajiazhenduisuibianhuodedewupindouburongyiquaixide，henvshengmeitianliaotian，taganjuezansuishidaiming，bianhuiyouyilengdanwomen，youyutazixinxinwuluntaruheduini，niyongyuandouzaidengdaihuitadexinxi。

neimazhuinvshengjiujingyaoruheliaotianni？

ninengcongxiabian2gecengmianxiashou：

一、先融进她的日常生活

 chuduixiangyidingshiyaoquzhangbuduande，guanjiangousiyidingshijinkenengranglingyifangjiandaoninhaodeyimian。yinciyiqiehuijianshaobenshenshiyongjiazhideshier，zannengbuzuoyebuzuo。lirugangyizaijiashangnvshengdeweixin，jiuyaotarangnifaxiangpian；zailirumeiyicidekaichangciyemeiyouchuangyi，chukai“zainaer”yebuzhidaogailiaoshenme。yaoxiangzhangwobi“nizaiganshenme”gongnengqiangdashibeidekaichangci，ninengjishuganfalesiliao，wojiaoni。

 womenzongdelaishuo，henvshengganglejiedeqingkuangxia，yidingbubizhuiguojin。yaolejiezheiyihuanjieliangrenzishenyebuzhangwo，meihuatishiyiqiezhengchangde，yuefaxinji，jiuyuefeichangrongyibahuatitaolunliaoguo。shenxianmeihualiaodechujing。

 suoyishuo，zaizheigehuanjiezanzuiguanjiandemeirirenwubianshi：rangbicizhijianxianghuzhijianzhangwo，xianqingchulingyifangdefangbeigan，yucitongshijinliangjitaliuyouyigehaoyinxiang。

 youguanliaotiandejiezougan，jilaozheiyigongshijisuan：“ertianyixiaowensantianyidaliao”。bukeyitaijiqing，buranfeichangrongyipulunideyaoqiu，yebukeyitailengdan，yaoburanfeichangrongyirangnvshengwangdiaonishisheiya。

 ei，danshinibiemeitianlianluobingbushirangnimeiguanxinlingyifanga。buliaotiandeqingkuangxia，ninengduoqufanyifantadeweixinpengyouquan，duizheixienijuedeyouqudedongtaixingdiangezanhuoshipingjiayixia，xianhungelianshu。

 yucitongshi，nihaikeyifayixiechengxianniziji“shenghuozhuangtaihao”deweixinpengyouquan。rangtaduinideyinxianggengweishenru。liruniyizhizaizhufan、niyizhizairenzhengongzuo、niyizhizaijijizhudongyundongjianshenzheixie。

 zheiyezuodaolexiyinzhunvshengzhuanzhulidemudi。jizhule，zhejichibushangxishidoufu。henvshengganglejiedehuanjie，rangbicilejiebicizhijiandeqingkuangjiukeyile。

二、拥有一定掌握后，试着去邀请

 youpenyouhenyoukenenghuiganjue，yaohenvshengyouhuia，neiyezhendehennanba，zheiwodehetaliaojihuia。bingbushidepenyou，bingbushiniyaodeneiban。henvshengtandaonenggouyouhuideshuiping，zhenbuyidingfeiyaokaoliaotiandepinciduicheng。

 xiangwoyiqianjiujiedaoguoyiweishifenneixiangxingdenanshengfaguolaidesiliao，zaihetadegoutongjiaoliuzhongdajiajibenshangmeiruhetandaoliaotianfangshi，zhishijiletayouguanpinpaixingxiangtigaoshangdeyixiexiaojutizhidao，shulileqiadangdetanlianaigousi，meiduojiuhou，tajiuhexiaidenvshengqudechenggongkaizhanleyouhui，ertayunvshengyigongliaoleyejiusansicitian。

 gangrenshidenvshengzenmeliao？nikeyishuozheiyinanshengburongyiliaotianma？dajiashuoliaotiandeshizhishiweilegenghaodijinvshengjiyuzaijingshenshanglaiwanchengguanliandeshengzhi，zhixunengrangliangrendejianjugengjinle，niyaoruheliao，queshimeiyouneimeduodexianding。

 yinci，dangnimenduibicizhijianyongyouyidingzhangwodeqingkuangxia，huatitaolunliaoguodeqingkuangxia，yuqishuomeitianchuaimozhezaizenmezhaohualiao，haizhenbibushanglijishizheyuelingyifangchuqu，rangnimendechupengcongwangshangqianyidaoxianxiatuiguang，rangnvshengduinizaochengxianshigan。

 dangran，duiyuruhequyaoqinglingyifang，nizhibixuxunzhaoyigehetayitongdehuatitaolun，suihoushiduyongyigejianshaobeitahuijuejilvdexiaofangshi，haoxiang“huanjieyali”huoshi“zhuzhongjiyudelaibuyi”。

例如：

 “kanguonideweixinpengyouquan，niyeaichimalatangma，woqiyeloudixiajinqixinkaiyeleyijiahuoguojiamengdian。liangrenquda5zhee。”

再例如：

“jinqixingongyingleshashashayingpian，qiahaodajiaqiyefaguoerzhangyingpiao，womenliangyiqiqukanyixiaba。

 zheilianggeshilidejibenyuanliquanshizaixianglingyifangzhuzhong“guoqulezheiyicunjiumeizheiyidianle”，chufeishinvshengzaoyiduinizaochengbumanqingxule，burantadagailvshiburongyihuijuenide。gangrenshinvhaiweixinliaoshenme，keshihegangtanlianaizenyangzengjinganqingbutong。