分享几个干货技巧 刚认识的女生怎么聊

 gangrenshidenvshengzenmeliao？dajiawubirenke，wangwangyizhidanshenzhaobudaonanpengyou，feichangdayibufenyuangushidajiaburongyiliaotian。youqishiganglejiemeiduojiuderen，buqingchuliaoshenme，yebuzhidaocongnalizhujian，nengliaoyoupaliao。zheileizhuangkuangyoufangfapoyima？gangrenshinvhaiweixinliaoshenme，keshihegangtanlianaizenyangzengjinganqingbutong。

 ziranyoufangfa，xiamianjiuyinvshenghenanshengliaotianweilizi，gaozhidahuoerhaoduogeliaotiandefangfa。ziranfangfananhaihenvhaitongyongxing，jiaruninengxuehaojuyifansanneigengqiang。

一、找寻好的话题讨论

 yiduanqingqingsongsongxingfudeliaotiankaishi，yidingshiyouyigehaodehuatitaolun，huatitaolunxuandehao，yigeyeliliaodaogenbentingbuxialai，huatitaoluntaiwuliaole，zishendoumeijinger。naxiedehuatitaolunzuihaoni？

1、从兴趣爱好下手

 nanshengdexingquaihaoyouhenduo，jibenshangmeiyounanshengbuaiyouxihuoribendongmande。jiarutaxiaizhuifan，neimenijiuyaotaqianglietuijianyibutaxiaideribendongmankanlai，suihouniyejiunenggoubiankanbianhetagoutongjiaoliu，yibanfanquanshihaojibaiji，gouniliaodele。

 jiarutaxiaichijiyouxi，neimenijiuyaotajiaoni，jiarutaxiaitingge，neijiuyaotaqianglietuijianxiaidegexing，niyequting，zhaoxunyitongdexingquaihaohuahuatitaolun。

 jiarutaxiaikanqiusai，e……wojianyihuoshisuanleba，youyunvshengqueshifenbuqingchulanqiumingxing，lanqiusaizuqiuqiuxingshashadegaobuqing，kanqiusaizhenbingbushinvshengdegerenaihao。zuihaozhaoyigenimeifangan，yeshiyouxingquaihaoyiqixuexidexingquaihaohuatitaolun。huatitaolunzhaozhengquele，zhengzhongjiantaxinkan，ruheliaodoumeicuo。

2、从节日下手

 meiyiniandoushiyouduogejieri，birujijianglailindewanshengye、shengdan、yuandanjie、xinchunjiajie、qixijiedeng，meiyigejierinidounenggoujitamenzhufu。

 zhufuhuayuyebukeyixiashuo，nidezhuyuanyidingyaoxiexiameishenmezhenduixingdejuede，danyoubukeyilingrenganjuenishiqunfaxiaoxi，yaoburanqunfaxiaoxidexinxineirongyibanrendoushihuihushibuhui。

 zuihaodezhufubianshizaikeqihuaqianbianzaijiashangtademingzi，suihouzaijiashangyiliangjuhenjiandandezhuyuanjiukeyile，neileiraowanzidekaobeidezhuyuanqianwanbuyaofa。jiarutahuiyingnini，neinijiunenggouzhujianxindehuihuale。

3、从互联网下手

 pingchangduokankanxinwenwang，nenggouzhaowangluorediandehuatitaolunjinru，lirunilejiejinqitinghuodeneicangma？nilejieneisheiyougengxingelemeiyou？jinqimouyidianyingdaoyandeyingpianyaogongyingle，ninyouxingquaihaoma？

 shijishangzheihaoduogefangfaquanshijiandanyixuede，nanshengliaonvshengyeshiyiyang，zhuanvshengdexingquaihaodianlailiao，nvshengyibanyouxingqudebianshi：dujialvyou、meizhuanghufu、yingshizhizuo、maidongxi、tesemeishi、zhaoxiangdeng，zongyouyigehuatitaolunnikeyijinru。

第二、捕获聊天的关键字

 liaotianyidingyaozhuazhuguanjianzi，jiarunizhuabuduiguanjianzi，neiliaotianhuishenxianshifennankandechengdu，jingchangfashengnijuededongtashuodaoxidezhuangkuang。

 jugenvshengzuixihuanwennanpengyoudeqiushengyuwentiweilizi，nvshengshuo：wozuotianfuyaodeqingkuangxiajiandaoyitiaoxinwen，xinwenbaodaoshuo……，woxiangwenyixiatamendeguanjianzishisha？guanjianzibingbushi“xinwenbaodao”，zhishi“fuyao”，jiarunanshengwennimenshishenmexinwenbaodao，neizheiliaotianleisiyegaigaoyiduanluo。

womenyaozuode，bianshijingquebawozhulingyifangliaotiandeguanjianzi，suihoujizhongyaohai，zaicigentaliaoxialai。

第三、把控好节奏感立即收尾

 zaiwomenliaotiantandaozhengshuangdeqingkuangxia，bianhuidanyoumingrigailiaoshenmehuatitaolun，buqingchuliaoshenmebianhuishenxianganliao，shijishangmeiyouhuashiyiyezhijianjiukeyiliaoguode，xuehaozhangwofencun、lijitingshouhenzhongyao。

liaotianbuqujueyushijiandezhangdu，erqujueyupinzhi，zuihaonengtandaoshitahuiweiwuqiong、xixinxunwei、liaoguohainengliao。

 jiadingnimentandaoyeli12dianhuoshi1dianxingquzhengnong，zheigeshihoujiusuanlingyifangpaochulexindehuatitaolun，yeqianwanbiehuile，shuixingzaijiang。ciketayidingzhuaxinnaogandizaixiang：taruhebuhuiwole，shifoushuijuele，huoshiwojiangshuocuole？yizhiyigeyelidoushizaixiangqini。

 gangrenshidenvshengzenmeliao？zhidaodiertiannixinglejiujitamenhuigexinxineirong：zuotianwanshangshuijuele，guoyibuqu。suihoujiukeyiranhouzuoridehuatitaolunzaiciliao，huoshidakaiyigexindehuatitaolun。

neiyangzuo，nibudanshitaxiangxiangniyigeyeli，jiejuelemingridehuatitaolun，yijuliangde。

聊天聊的是心理状态，是全过程

 jiandaozheier，huoxuninengshuozhaoshuguoshen，shijishangliaotianguigenjiediliaodeshixinlizhuangtai，wulunshinanshenghuoshinvshengliaotian，deshixinjinjibunengguozhong。huatitaolunliaodaohaonengzaicifazhanqushidangranhao，jiaruliaodaobutaihaoyebubihusiluanxiang，liaotianshiyaoweichixinxiangan，liuyihuatitaolundejiezougan。

 zairuheliaodaohao，yebubiyigunaodibazijidegerenjingli、texingyoudianxiangdaohuangdouyiyangquanduitashuo，nixuyaoxiangyibenshuyiyang，shitajianjiandiqufanyue，bingqiemeiyiyedoushiyouyiwaijingxi。

 yebuyaodanxinzishenqidehuatitaolunshifoutaiwuliaole，danyoulingyifangganjuezishensuoranwuwei、shigewuquderen，liaotianzuiguanjiandeshihudongjiaoliudequanguocheng，erbushizuihoushifouhuizaiyiqidejieguo。

 jishitandaozuizhongnimenmeiyoubianweiqinglv，neirujinbingbushi，weilaiyeshiyouhenyoukenengbianshileni？zongeryanzhi，liaotianliaodebianshixinlizhuangtai，yonglianghaodexintaikandai，fangzhangxiandiaodayucaikeyidiaodayu。gangrenshinvhaiweixinliaoshenme，keshihegangtanlianaizenyangzengjinganqingbutong。