高情商的人怎么聊天 如何高情商地聊天

 gaoqingshangderenzenmeliaotian？aijianglideren，qingshangzhishangyibandouhendi。weihezheiyangshuoni？guanjiandeyuanguqujueyu：zaigoutongjiaoliuzhong，tamenzhijiangli，butantihui。shixiangxiang，dangtarengaoxingdeyaotouhuangnao，huoshinaonudehuomaosanzhangshi，niyizhizaiyibenzhengjingdijiangli，sheikeyitingdeyingwenjinlai？gaoqingshangdexiangqinliaotianjilugaosuni，gaoqingshangderenshuohuahentaolu。

 yibangaoqingshangderen，zongshinengduirendeqingxuhetihuiyongyoulingminderenzhi，erdiqingshangzhishangderenduirendeqingxuganzhilijingquexingjiaoruo，zaochengjianghuabanshiduirendeqingxutihuizhaoliaobuzhoudao，zhiyouyongyixiejiroujiangyingdedadaolihuogoutongfangshi。

bulunshizairichangshenghuozhong，huoshizaigongzuozhongli，dadaolijiangdeyueda，yuehuirangtingderendudehuang，buyuanzaigoutongjiaoliuxialai。

 renshibixushidangjianglide，danyizhijianglideren，huozai“yingdang”dangzhong，erbushi“zhenzheng”dangzhong。meifajiandaoyingshengshengdexinli，gengganshoubushangmeiyigerentihuishangdechabie，yizhibujingyijianjiurenaotaren。

zenyangtigaoqingshang，rangtarenmishangyuniliaotian？

1沟通交流的关键是“了解”，先了解自身，然后了解别人

guoduojiangliderenyaoxiangxuehuigoutong，yaoxianxuehaolejietaren，erlejietarendeqiantitiaojianshixianlejiezishen。

 ruguowomenzishenjiuchenmizaigezhonggeyangdadaolizhong，yidinghuibaoyou“yucejiaodu”，zuoshixianfenbian“woneiyangduima”、“woneiyanggaibugai”，erbushi“wozenmehuishineiyang”、“woxiangyaoshenme”。

meifalejiezishen，gengbuyaoshuoqulejietarenle，zaiyutarendexiangchuzhong，yebiranshihuaizhe“yucejiaodu”de。

2让体会走在大道理前面

ershi，babamamayizhibujieshoudajiaxintaiganqingdehelihua，yizhipingdingdajiabuyinggaineiyang。

tamencongmeishizheguolejie：

为何大家会馋猫？

weihewomenyaoganyixieshi，rangchengnianrenfahuo？

weihedajiayoushihouhuiyoukuyounao？heshidajiahuiyoukuyounao，fashengshenmeshi？

weihewomenbujianglimao？fashengshenmeshi？

gaoqingshangderenzenmeliaotian？danshishishang，quanbugerenxingweiquanshiyouxiaode。

 youyuxiaohaizibumingbaiyanzangtingcong，tamenbanshiquanshianzishenzuizhenzhengdetihui，tihuiyouxianxuanze。yezhengyouyuci，zhangdayihou，dajiadouyanxiandanchunxingxindishanliangdeertong。

tihuidenengliang，bijianglidaduoshule。

 rutongqinglvzhengchaoshi，weishenmeshuobubiguanduiyucuo，yaoxianquwuwulingyifang，yeshiyouyuzheiyiyuangu。dangyigerenyouxintaideqingkuangxia，tatongchangshitingbujinqudadaolide。

 youyujiaodubuyiyang，xiangpipeideguidingheguidingjiuchedibuyiyang。dangtarenyuniliaotian，fangkongzijidexintaishi，ninengxiantihuilingyifangdetihui，suihouzaizhongguidao“dadaoli”，keguanxingdijiangchuzishendeniantou。

 “guoduojiangli”huirangxinliyuelaiyuebujiankang。youyuzhixinyangdadaoli，dangdadaoligenzishendetihuimaodunshi，tamenhuiyiweiyayiganzishendetihuiqujiejuekunnan，congerzuchengbipo。

 shijishang，quanbudeyuyanjiqiaodougenjulejiezishen，haodegoutongjiaoliushizhongbingbushilingyifangchuyizhao，dajiataoruyigechulixiaoshouhuashu，zhishi2geliudongxingderen，zaihuxianglijiehetihuidangzhonghuihua，zuizhongzuodaohuligongying。

 ruguonishizhequlejiehetihui，qingshangzhishangbianhuizaibujingyijianjiantisheng。gaoqingshangdexiangqinliaotianjilugaosuni，gaoqingshangderenshuohuahentaolu。