高情商的人怎么聊天 真正高情商的人会这样说话

 gaoqingshangderenzenmeliaotian？jianghua，jihushiyimendaxuewen。shuodedui，shiyouxiaogoutonggoutongjiaoliu，shuobutaihao，jiuhenyoukenengrehuoshangshen。jianghuadexintai，jueceleweirenchushidegaokuanbi，jianghuadefencungan，bianshiweirenchushideguige，jianghuadebuju，juecelelingrenshushidegongzuonengli。bahuajianghao，huodejiaodadeshiwomenziji。niyuehuijianghua，tarenjiuyuekaixin，tarenyuekaixin，bianhuiyueduiniyouganjue。gaoqingshangdexiangqinliaotianjilugaosuni，gaoqingshangderenshuohuahentaolu。

lingyalichi，guanzhongbuyidingduo；danjianghuarangrenxinkuangshenyi，dingnenghuodehaorenyuanrenpin。

zhenzhenzhengzhenggaoqingshangderen，yurenjiaowang，huineiyangjianghua。

01真真正正高情商的人，不和人斗嘴。

zuidongshuohuadeyishuderen，jingchanghuizaigoutongjiaoliuzhongbabubiyaodehuoshengjiaojilingyifang，tamenzizhifushudeshijiyiyi。

zongxiaizaiyuyanshangshengyubierenderen，buguoshibadouzuidangzuolebennengfanying。

 richangshenghuo，youderenyizhixiaijitarentiaoci，dangbierenshuo“shi”shi，tamenyidingshuoqi“fou”，dangbierenshuo“fou”deqingkuangxia，tamenyouyaoshuo“shi”le。

 richangshenghuozheizhongrenbuzaishaoshu，tamendeqiangjingdedifangjiuqujueyutamenbuguanghuidouzui，bingqietaideyoukuaiyouzhun，wulunniqianyimiaojianglenaxie，tamenyizhangzui，jiunengyishunjianchuozhongnijianghuadecunzaidewenti。benlaishimanhengwuli，niquebuqingchuruhezhengbian。benlaijuedelingyifangshiyouyidouzui，duanzhangquyi，queyoubuqingchugaizenmeban。

shijishangzheixierenkanshangqushizaijiangli，shijishangshizaidouzui。

aidouzuideren，huoshengkoujiao，shudiaorendeneixin。

yueaidouzuideren，yuemeifalejiedaobenshendebugou，feichangrongyixugaozishen，meifakeguanxingdianpingbieren。

 dianshilianxuju《sanshieryi》zhong，gujiaweilegenghaodichouchulaishijianjiejueqiyedeshi，xiangqingyigeyuershizhaoguxiaohai，bucengxiangqueyineryulaogongxuhuanshanfashenglezhengzhi。

xuhuanshanzhiyigujia：“yuershinengzuodeshi，zheigedangniangdezuobulaima？”

gujiahuifu：“nvxingchulaichuangdangnandaoshuoyouwuma？yaobuniqudaiwa。”

xiangbudaoxuhuanshantingjianzheier，youlikechizegujiaxintaiyoushenmewenti，xuduoshierzuobutaihao。

gujiazhinenglishuwangri，qiangdiaozishenweijiazhonghegongzuozuochudeqinfen，kelaogongquecongweishiyongguozishen。

xuhuanshanyanjianzishenbeijiechuanle，baotiaoruleidao：“nirujinshifoutingbujinyidiandizhijianyi，shuoyijujiuxuyaoduihuijia。”

aitaikangderen，tongchanghuineiyang：wulunnishuo，xianbianbozaijiang。

xuhuanshanbianshizheileiren：nigentatanganqing，tagennijiangli，nigentajiangli，tashuodaonijiangdebudui。

zishizhizhongyaozaiyuyanshangshengyubieren，shiqingshangzhishangzuishaodegerenxingwei。

aidouzuideren，congbuzhuiqiuwanmeiduiyucuo，tamenzhixiaiyiweidifourentaren。

guyuyun：changyutongaihaozhengshengfu，buyushagualunduanzhang。

douzui，jibianyishihuoshengkoujiao，danquehuiyongjiuxingshudiaorendeneixin。

zhongjiu，zheishijieshangmeijigerenxiaihe“jianpanxia”zuopengyou。

 youyigeyiliudaxuedaxuebiyedegaocaisheng，meiyicihuibaogongzuo，lingdaowenqitadejianyishi，tadougaotankuolun、henyouniantou，lingdaohenshangxita。

 yihandajiadoutaoyanta，bixurongqiashierdeqingkuangxia，qitadanweiderenfeichangshaoxiangyaoxianghupeiheta，tongdanweiderendoubutaixiangyaohetayiqigongzuozhong。yuanxian，tazongxiaiyutarentaikang。

 dangtayutarenjianyibuyiyangdeqingkuangxia，laoshibalingyifangjiangdaowuyanyidui，haizigaozidaganjuezishenhenlihai。yinci，dangranmeiyourenxiaita。

guoyuzhanxianziwode“yanjiangkoucai”，quanshiweizijikoufen。

kanleyigegushi：yiweinianqingrenqingjiaodedaogaoseng：“gaoshou，shenmeshikuailedeqiaomen。”

dedaogaosengshuo：“bubiheyuchunderenzhengzhi。”

nianqingrenbushuangdao：“gaoshou，wofanduizheijiushiqiaomen！”

dedaogaosengxiaozheshuo：“shide，nishiduide。”

budouzuideren，burongyizaihaowujiazhideshiershangzhengzhi，zheixierentongchangguodegengtouliang。

zhenzhenzhengzhenggaoqingshangderen，jibianneixinlejie，jibianzishenyanzhiyouli，yejitarenliuyouyudi。

wulunsheizhanli，shaogangjiju，jiucunxialeqinggan，liuyoulerenyuanrenpin。

02真真正正高情商的人，很少言，明白适度缄默。

sanguoyanyilideyangxiu，jiucengyouyuhuataiduole，yinlaihuoduan。

hanzhongzhizhanshi，sanguocaocaodelongwangshu，kuitanxibeidedifang。

danshi，liuhuangshulingshuzhongjingbingqiangjiangjindaohanzhongshi，pinfancanbaisanguocaocao。

sanguocaocaozuoyouweinanzhishi，zhuchuduanlaiyiwanlaomujitang，sanguocaocaokanjianwanzhongkeyoukewu，qiangyanhuanxiaobuji。

zhengqiaodiaochanjinquqingshibaogaojunduixuanchuankouhao，sanguocaocaobianbanhulihutubanrenzhendijiangdao：“keyoukewu，keyoukewu”。

 xuanchuankouhaoyichuanchulai，bierenzhirenweishiyibanjunling，jinyoujuedingcongmingdeyangxiugaoqingchuzaiqizhongzhiyi，yincizhujianzhenglixinglixiang。

xuduorenbujie，yangxiujiushuo：“xianrujinduijuejiuhaosikeyoukewu，shibuzhiweishizhiwurou，zaixiangkongyoutuibingzhiyi。”

tingjianyangxiudedayijiehuo，xuduorenluxuzhujianzhengliqibeinang，yishijianshiqiyaobaibuding。

jingjichangyishang，cinaijihui。yinciweianshiqi，sanguocaocaoyi“mihuo”weiyou，shaleyangxiu。

wulunshei，shiquziwodebiaoshuyu，zhongjiuyouxinkoukaihezhixian，quebuzhidao，shuodeyueda，cuodeyueda。

suhuashuodehao“weirenchushijieduoyan，shaoshuohuaduozuoshi。”

yuyanbiaodayizhihuichuxianjuxianxingde，yigerenshuodeyueda，baoludequedianyueduo，chanshengdenantiyehuiyueda。

haimingweishuo：“dajiayong2nianquxuehuishuohua，queyongliushinianlaixuehaojianmo。”

zaiwomenweiduojianghuaertouruyixiechengbendeqingkuangxia，bianhuimingbaijianmoyiyouqishiyongjiazhi，shiyizhonggaoqingshang。

yurenjiaowang，yuqishuoduoyan，bibushangjianmo。

qianqianjunziyuneyuyanerminyuxing，shidudejianmo，qiahaoshigaoqingshangdezhuyaobiaoxian。

zaidianshilianxuju《huanlesong》zhong，wugenvshengyiqishenghuo，bianchengbicizhijianhaopengyou。

kewugerenli，dedaoshuzuiduoxinlaide，zeshilengaodeyoudianerbujiangqingmiandebaozong。

zaiershierlouli，meiyigerendoushiyouyixiemimihejieju，tamendouzhizhaobaozongqingtu。

huanlesongfanshengmeibashenfenzhengjian、chuxukadoujiaodaobaozongcunfang；quxiaoxiaodejiazhongduijuebaofashi，zhaobaozongbangzhu。

meiguanbaxiaizhaoyishengdemimigaozhilebaozong；wangbochuanqiyepochan，yebaituobaozongbaoshoumimi。

zaibaozongneibian，zheizhongmimiquanshiyigejudian。tadesanjianqikou，dedaoledahuoerdekendingxinlai。

zhenzhenzhengzhenggaoqingshangderen，mingbaizaishidangdeqingkuangxia，mobuzuosheng、sanjianqikou。

nengjianghua，buyiweizhehuijianghua；koumohengfei，burushidudejianmo。

songchaoshi，qiantangyouyigemingzijiaozuoxuxuanderen，boxueduocai，zuzhiduomou，zhimingdufeichangda。

yici，qiantangpaixuxuanhuijingxiugongli，yizhaoguojiguanli，songchaoyaopaiyiweisuitongdeyabanshi。

songchaodezhongchendouyouyuzishendeyanjiangkoucaibibushangxuxuan，bukenqianqu，yifangbeixuxuanjixiao。

songtaizubianlingrenchengshangyifendianshimingce，suihoukanguoyiyanmingceshuo：zheirennenggou。

beitimingdedianshilejiezishenyanjiangkoucaibibushangxuxuan，biandahaodianzi，wulunxuxuanzenmejiang，zishendouzhuanglongzuoya。

yidengchuan，xuxuanbiankankanertandiweiyabanshitiaozhan，qiaosheruhuang，ruibukedang。

shubuzhiwulunxuxuanshuoxieshenme，zheimingdianshidouyiyanbufa，chukaidiandiantougaishi，meifayiyan。

xuxuanbuzhidaolingyifangnongdan，zaicizhanxianzishendecaihuahengyi，renweineiyanghuizhilingyifangjuedewangzifeibo。

danshi，zheimingyabanshiyiranchizhiyibi，jibubiaodayijian，doubujiedawenti。

zheiyangyilai，xuxuanmanmandishiquxingquaihao，zhinenglaolaoshishidigandaojingdong。

shuobailedazhiruoqu，zuzhiduomou，daqiaoruozhuo，dabianruone。

yingduilingyalichidexuxuan，dianshidejiejuezhiceshi，biqifengmang，zhuanglongzuoya，lingtadeyanjiangkoucaiwuyongwuzhidi。

xuxuanbenxiangyizishendejianshibiancainianguolingyifang，danyudaojianmodediren，yeshushouwuce。

zhenzhenzhengzhenggaoqingshangderen，gaoqingchujianmoyiyounengliang。

3真真正正高情商的人，讲话明白在意别人的体会。

《sanguo》zhongdexuyouyinchumouhuacesanguocaocao，shihuoshaowuchao，zhongzhichibizhizhanwansheng。

congcizhihou，xuyouwangzizunda，jianghuayagenbuzaiyitarendetihui，shenzhishisanguocaocaoyanqianyeshizheiban。

yigerenyidanzishigaorenyideng，jianghuabuzaiyitarendetihui，jiulibuxinghenjinle。

sanguocaocaoxiaomingyuanhuanaman，xuyoushiliangmiansandaodichengsanguocaocaoweiaman。

zhenduixuyoudexiaozhanghebuzun，sanguocaocaoyizhiweichizheyizhiheqianrang，shubuzhi，xuyouquetandewuyan，buzhidaoshoulianxing。

 youyicisanguocaocaolvjunrujizhouchengshi，xuyouzongmajinqian，yimabianzhixiangdamenshuo：“bushixuyou，nisanguocaocaozenyangjinqulezheiyimen？”

xiaozhangdexuyoujianghuabumingbaizaiyitarendetihui，zuihoubeisanguocaocaosuohai。

《zengguangxianwen》shangshuo：“liangyanyijusandongnuan，eyaneyuliuyuehan。

yigezhenzhenzhengzhenggaoqingshangderen，jianghuahuizaiyitarendetihui，congburongyisuibianduirenhuilengchaorefeng。

luxundesanwenshi《lilun》zhongjiangleyigegushi。youhubierenshengleyigenanhai，quanjiarendoushifengaoxing。

manyuedeqingkuangxia，keyibaochuqujigukekan，xiangbogehaoyunqi。

youxierenshuo：“taweilaiyaofajiazhifude。”tayincidedaoleyifanxiexie。

youxierenshuo：“taweilaiyaodangguande。”tayincishoudaoleyiliangjuchuipeng。

youxierenshuo：“taweilaishiyaosilede。”tayincibeidudaleyidun。

gudaimingyanyouyan：“kounengtumeiguihua，yekeyitubaijili。”

 jianghuabuzaiyitarendetihui，chuyanbushen，biranzhishangshangji，renherenquanshihuxiangde，niyaoxiang“nuanrububo”，jiubukeyirangtaren“tongrudaozha。”

 gaoqingshangderenzenmeliaotian？youyici，xubeihongdaozhangdaqianjiabaifang，zhangdaqianbazijidemeishuzuopin《lvliumingchantu》jiaojitakan。xubeihongchongzhehuazhongneizhifupadaoliushuzhitou，chantouchaoxiademingchan，yongxinqiaolehaoyihuierhou，duimeishuzuopinchuanchuyifanzanmei。

随后极其婉转地说：

“wozhiqianyehuaguochan，yincihaixiangyiweinongminqiujiaoguo，jutashuodao，chandetouquanshichaoshangde，feichangshaoyouchaoxiadezhuangkuang。”

tingleting，youtianbudao：“ziran，wobingmeiyouqukaozigezhengshuguo，yexunongminshuodeyebuyidingdui。”

danzhangdaqianduizheijianshiqingjidaolexinzhong，zongzhaojiyuzhengshiyixia。

zongsuanyouyici，zaichumensuxieshi，takanzhenshile，guoranruxubeihongchangshuo，chandetou，juedaduoshuquanshichaoshangde。

zhangdaqianganmangbazijidejiandaodejieguogaozhixubeihong。

shubuzhixubeihongtinghouhou，jinjinxiaoerbuda。

zheishihou，zhangdaqiancaigaoqingchuhuilai，yuanxianxubeihongyikaishijiukandechulemeishuzuopinzhongdebuzhengquezhichu。

danweilegenghaodizaiyizishendetihui，hubianleyigenongminchuqu，wanzhuangaicuo。

 zhenzhenzhengzhenggaoqingshangderen，mingbaishuohuazhidao，tamenzizhiyuyandenengliang，huizaiyibierendetihui，buwangyanwangyu，jinxiaoshenwei。gaoqingshangdexiangqinliaotianjilugaosuni，gaoqingshangderenshuohuahentaolu。