吵架也能吵出感情？吵架和好后感觉有隔阂怎么办？

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情感越吵越高，重点在于一个词

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美满婚姻，必须语言表达的沟通交流

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实际上沟通交流和沟通交流不仅是夫妻之间情感交流和传递的一种方式，任何时刻，缄默都不容易是表述你心态的最佳方式。仅有大家张嘴，我们去告知他人“我要”而不是让他人去猜想“你需要”，情感才可以真真正正开展下来。

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