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为何要勇敢说不他人呢？

 1、dangzishenpengdaotarenguidingnizuohaozijibuyuanyizuodeshierdeqingkuangxia，yexubukeyizuo，ganlebianhuiweifanzishendebiaozhunhedaodedixiandeqingkuangxia，neimazheigeshihoujujuebieren，bianshibuhaofeizishen。

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 2、dangzishenpengdaoleshushouwucedeshiershi，jujuebierenbianshiweilegenghaodibudangetaren，zheigeshihouqianwanbiedangzuodapangziqubashierwangzishendeshenshanglan，zhendangzijizuobutaihao，tarenbudanhuizeguaini，zishenyehuibuhaoyisi。zhishigaozhitaren，“wobuganxin，yezuobutaihao，niciwaizhaofangfaba”，neiyangcaisuanshitigaogongzuoxiaolvdefangfa。

 3、jujuebieren，budanshiyizhongduizishenfuzedexingwei，huoshiduitarenchengdan。youshierbukeyihanhubuqing，zhishiyaoshishizaizaijiangchuzishendejutiqingkuang，neiyangcaiburongyiduitarendaozhisunhai。zheixiegaoqingshangjujuebierendebiaobaidefangfaganjinjixia。