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 gaoqingshangliaotianshuzhong，gaoqingshangliaotianhuashufanliyouhenduozhidexuexidedifang。youderenchenmoguayan，jianghuashibenzuizhuoshe，renbijiaoduodeqingkuangxiayeyoushejiaokongjuzheng、rongyijinzhang，bukeyishuohuazhidao。niyoumeiyouxiangguo，weihedianshishangzheixiejishuzhuanyedejiemuzhuchirenjiuyouqihuishuohuanini？shijishangjiemuzhuchirenyebushiyushengjulaijiuhenhuijianghua，zhishizaixuduorenyanqianjianghuashi，tamenhuitishizishenzuoweizhuanyerenyuan，jianghuashiwubiyishidaoguanzhongmendeniantou，yincimanmanyuelaiyuexianshuyoujishuzhuanye。jishishishoudaobeipan，yenenggaoqingshangmianduinanpengyouchugui。

 liru，jiemuzhuchirenhuisisuo，yingyongzheiyiyuqijianghua，zheixiebiankandianshijubianzuobiedeshidefensimennengzhuyidaoma？zheiyijianyi。”

 huoshiyongyuqifalaizhuzhong，yibanjianghuashiyuqishichengyoushangxiangxiajiangdide，jiaruyaozhuzhong“dizhi”yici，jiuxuyaojiang“dizhi”dediyigezideyuqitisheng。

标准六：每分300字慢慢描述

meifen300zideshengyinsudubudanshizhubo，yeshiquanbudedianshijiemuzhizuogongzuorenyuandedegongshi。

 xinwenjizheyi300ziweiguifan，xiexiayifenzhongdexinwenbaodaoboyinzhuchi，shipinjianjigongzuorenyuanzaiweiciboyingaoweijibenlianjieshipinyingxiang。

 jiaruzhubozaisongduboyingaoshi，shengyinsudutaikuaihuoshihenman，shipindeshedingbianhuibuchenggong，xinwenzhaiyaoheyingxiangneirongjiumeifazuodaotongbu。

 gaoqingshangliaotianshuzhong，gaoqingshangliaotianhuashufanliyouhenduozhidexuexidedifang。zhenduinideguanzhongyeshiyiyang，fayanshi，nixuyaozaizongtijiezouganshangbaochiyizhi，hanyufayanzhong，meifen200-300ziquanshinenggoujienade，burongyilingrenjuedehenmanhuoshitaikuai。

标准七：从对白逐渐进到话题讨论

zaiyanboshidangchang，zuichudeqianyanchengwei“kaichangci”，ruguonihetarengoutongjiaoliushi，zuichudehuayeshi“kaichangci”。

zenyangshunlijindaogoutongjiaoliu，yinchulaishihouhuatitaolun，douxuyaokao“kaichangci”chongfenfahui。

 chuangzuozheshuo，ninengjiangzishendeshijuexiaoguo、tingjuexitong、chugan、weilei、weijuesuobuhuodexinxineirong，genjunannanziyude“duibai”fangfabiaoxianchulai。

“yougantiandeweier。”“ganggongbudejiaodanhuangsedetusimianbaochixudebeiduanjinqu。”“zheierbianshimianbaogongfang。”

zheiyeshiduimianbaogongfangkaizhanfangtanzhiboshide“kaichangci”。

jianghanyouwugandeduibaizuowei“kaichangci”deyoushishi，guanzhonghuiduinizaochenghaogandu，jinerxiangyaozaicitingnifayan。

zheieryunyongdeshishehuixinlixuezhongde“xiangsidujibenyuanli”，dajiahuiduihezishenyouleisiniantouderenzaochenghaogandu。

 zaikaichangcizhongyingyongguanzhongguangfanhuirenkedewugantiyanxingyuyanbiaoda，lingyifangbianhuiduinidebiaoshuzaochenghaogandu，congerrenkejienani。jishishishoudaobeipan，yenenggaoqingshangmianduinanpengyouchugui。