zenmeshuojinanpengyoudaoqiandenuanxinhua?youxierenhuidanyou,wozhiqianle,wanyilingyifangbujiena,butongyifuhexinggaizenmeban?zheiganghaocaisuanshizuiyoukenengchanshengdeshier,weiyounijienalezuihuaidejieguo,caikeyiyingduizuihaodeweilai。yuqishuoshi“gaibugaizhiqian”,burushuoshi“woxiangbubimianduixiaotiaodeqinggan”。liaotianshiweilegenghaodiweichiguanliandengji、shengjiguanliandengji。neimazhiqian,bianshiliaotian(weichiqinggan)deyibufen。chulejinanpengyoushengrijingxicelve,haikeyishuoxiejinanpengyousajiaodaoqiandehua。
zhiqiannenggoushiyijuhua,haikeyishiyigexintai,gengnenggoushiyizhongluojisiwei。
zhiqiannenggoujuyourenrang、renshicuowu、zhaoliaolingyifangxintai、jiechuanlingyifangxintaidenggongxiao!
wozhiqiancengshuodezhongzixin、zhiqianxinjinjinzaiqizhongyizhong,jinrizaixiangjinliaoyiliao:
1致歉的自觉性
xiandechujielun:yaojiji,danbixuwanzhuanyidian,yongrouhe、anshizhedefangshizhiqian。
xuduonanshengyou“gangtiezhinan”younianjiu,nijijidashan,tahuixiangyaoyunizuopengyoude,youqishiyixiejiaoweiyouxiuyangdenansheng,jishinimensanguanbuheyebuhuihuijueyunizuopengyou。nixuyaojitamenyigejieti,fouzetaruheyoulianzaicilianluonilei?
genghekuang,nanshengzhaonvshengshisaorao,nvshengzhaonanshengyuyijiuburongyineimanong。zaiwodejutizhidaoxia,xuduorendaofenshouzhihoudouqudechenggongdaodayouqingqu,yeshiyouhenduorenzaoyiqudechenggongfuhexingle。
2致歉的時间
guozaozhiqianbuhao,qiannanyouburongyijianxinhaoduogeyue、liangniandebuzhengque,duanshijianjiunengxianggaoqingchu、jiuzheng?zheijinrenjiezhigaozhiqiannanyouniyaofuhexing,nenggouguangmingzhengdadizaicicuicanta。
haositaiwanzhiqian,yexuqiannanyouhuirenweinishizhaobuzhexindenanpengyou,caihuixiangqichiwobiancaode。nideqinfenhuidiaojia,niyehuishiwang。
canzhaoshijian:tichufenshou15tiandao30rinei。nanshengshikeguande,nizhiyouyongzunzhongshishidewupinlai“shuodong”ta,liruniyaogaoqingchuyijianshisuohaofeideshijian、qineidegenggaizheixie。
3致歉的几个因素
zhiqianjigeyinsu:jianyue、shenru、hanyousixiangjingjie。
buqianglietuijianlingjulizhiqian、shipinyuyinzhiqian,shouxiantuijianwenbenzhiqian,danpianfuyebukeyiguoduo。
timingzhizeyixia,xuduonvshengtichufenshoujiqiannanyoufayidaduanyidaduandewenben,zheimeduodezi,qiannanyoudoubuxiangkan。
wangwangyaoshenru,youyutamendexiaoduanwen,tongchangnenggounongsuodao1/10,neimeduowenbenzhibuguobianshibiaoshu:lejiebudui、qinfengai、sinian。
shenrujiuguidingwomenzaizhiqiandeqingkuangxia:lejielingyifangdetihui、renkezishennanti、yongshihedefangshizhiqian。
xuduonvshengdoubuqingchu,tamenyexutiwanfenhoujiuhouhuile,keshibianshixiangjingyijing,yigerenzaixixinsisuoyixia。cike,nideyouxiaozhiqianrangtamenhuicaiyizishendejuece。
renkezishendenanti,bushirenaolingyifangdeyouliangfangshi,xuduonvshengzhiqiandeqingkuangxiayaoshuo“sheirangniyongyuanbuzhidaohongwo......”
zenmeshuojinanpengyoudaoqiandenuanxinhua?qiannanyouxinliyouguifandehuida,tajiuxiangkannihuiyingdeduima,dannidezhiqianzhongdaiyouduitademaiyuan,changshiyeshitayishidaozishendebuzhengque,tazenmekenenghuikuanrongnilei。
wojingchangshuonanshengxiangxiaogougou,danxiaogougouyeshiyouleguanhexinlide,zhenduinvshengdezhiqian,yehuichuxianbuyiyangdeaihao。
xinggewaixiangdegouhenyoukenenggengxihuannvshengzhijieledang,buaishuohuadegouhenyoukenenggengxihuanwanzhuanyidiandenvsheng,zuihaoshihainengyoudianertiaozhanxing。
4清除换位思考
zheiyidianshizuizhongdejihui,dajiadabufenyemeiyouhuanweisikao,jinyoulianminzhixin,yincijishizhiqiandequanguochengzaoshounazhonggongzuoyali、cuobai,doububizhizelingyifang,talejiebushangni,zuiduogehuikuanweiniyiliangju,danhuoshiburongyijienanidezhiqian。
youyudajiadoujianchibuxiewomenzijidedadaoli,rutongnihuijueyixingpengyou,heqiannanyouhuijuenishiyigedadaoli。xianghuzhijiandedadaolishimeifaxiangtongde,yebuhuiyouhuxianglijie。
dajianengzuode,jinjinyongshijixingdongrangqiannanyouhuoli,jinyouneiyangtacaixiangyaoshuodongzishenkuanrongni。
zhiqian,huizongchulaibianshizaibenshenchusedeqiantitiaojianxia,jiangchuranglingyifangshenyoutihuidehua,lingyifangcaihuifazifeifudijuedenibianhaola,nenggoukuanrongnini,feichangzhidexiangchuxialai。chulejinanpengyoushengrijingxicelve,haikeyishuoxiejinanpengyousajiaodaoqiandehua。
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