30多岁大龄农村单身男，相亲失败了心里很难受怎么办

 yigepengyoushuo:shiyeshibai，gongzuobuwending，muzidanshen，liangnianxiangqin30duogenvsheng，doushibaile。nongcunhukou，meiyoufangzi，meiyouqiche，meiyoucunkuan。shenshangtiemanleshibaidebiaoqian。womeitiandouzaijiaolv、yinuhejingshenzhemozhongduguo。wogaizenmeban？xiangqinshibailexinlihennanshouzenmeban？

zaiwoquerenzheigepengyoujiushiwozhihou。tadezheigewenti，woxianglehenjiu，yenulile。danshi，jieguosihubingbulixiang。

一、努力寻找女生资源资源

dalingxiangqin，haiyouxiwangma，youxiwangma，youxiwangma？

wensanbian，diyicishiyiwen，diercishiqiangdiao，disancishixiangyaoquedingde。

 woxianzaiduixiangqinmeiyourenhexiwang。tebieshi，daduoshuyunianlingjiaodadeshengnvxiangqinderendoumeiyoujiehundeyiyuan。yinweihennanganshang，tahuibianchengshengnv。yinci，yushengnvxiangqindechenggonggailvfeichangxiao。

 liangnianxiangqin30duogenvsheng，jieguodoushishibai。xianzai，dangwoshuowoxiangzaicixiangqinshi，wosihuchenglexiaohuadeduixiang。meicishenbianderendoushuo:e，wohaizaixiangqin，weishenmehaimeizhaodaoren？

 zheishi，wozhinenggangadixiaole。shibaizhemeiyoufayanquan，bierenzongxihuanbaxingfujianlizainidetongkuzhishang。youshihou，ruguonibukaixin，nikenenghuishuo:weishenmegongzuozheimeduonian，gongzihaishi3000yuan，liansaodiayidouburu。wanmeifanji。zhuazhutongdian，sayan。

 ruguomeicishibaidoushuoshiwodeyuanyin，neizhendeshiyuanwangle。daduoshuxiangqindenvhaidoushiyoujiarenqiangpode。wobishitamen。ruguowobuxiangjiehun，buyaolangfeibierendeshijianhejingli。dangran，zuizhongyaodeshiqian。

 meicixiangqinchifanhesongliwudouyaohuaqian。ciwai，womenyinggaitourushijianheganqing。womenyinggaimeitianzhudongliaotian，ranhoukanzheaidehuida。womenyidinghenbushufu。wobishizheizhonglaixiangqinerbudasuanjiehundenvhai。chaojimieshi。

 wozuixihuanxiangqindenvhaishi28-29sui。zaizheigenianling，wohuijizhejiehun，you30suidenianlingjiaolv。zaizheigeshihou，neixieyuanyijiehunderenhenrongyijiehun。woyoujicixiangqin，xiangjiehun，dagai28-29sui。

 erqie30suiyishangde，daduoshizoumaguanhuadikan，henduodoubudasuanjiehun。yinci，jiehunhaishizhaonianqingdian，chenggongdegailvgengda。

dalingxiangqin，haiyouxiwangma？meiyouxiwang，huozhexiwanghenmiaomang。

 womajingchangshuo:erzi，jialinengbangwojieshaodedoujieshaojinile。doubuheshi。yihouyaokaoziji。ruguoniyounengli，nikeyizijidaiyige。ruguonimeiyounengli，nihuidanshen。

 zheishiyijianduomewunaideshia，lianwozuiqinaidemama，yeduiwojuewangle。woyejingchangfansi，weishenmehuochengzijizuitaoyandeyangzi。

daling，tuodan，hehe。xixishuiba，menglishenmedouyou。

suoyi，yaozhaonvshengziyuanduodedifang，yishigongchang，ershidanwei。

woxihuandiaoyu，xihuanzuofuye。gongchangyidingfuhewodeqizhi。zhuyaoshilaole，shentishoubule。

shengxiadexuanzezhinengqudanwei，zhishaonvshengziyuanzhiliangjiaogao。

 tongguozhengshidekaoshijinru，shifeichangkunnande，youqishiwozheige30duosuidelaoren，jiyiliyizhihencha，kaoshijingzhenghaishineimeda，kendingmeiyoujihuikaoshang。

 ranhouxuanzequxianlaizhengjiuguojia。caiqulaowupaiqianhefeigongzuorenyuanzhaopindefangshi。haoxiaoxishi，wohaiyouyigehaowujiazhidelianggexuewei。ruhexiajiangyeshiyimenbenkekecheng，danyenengmanzuzuidiyaoqiu，duoshaoyenengfahuiyixiexueweidecanyuwendu。

 dangran，buhaodedifangshigongzitaidi，fulitaicha。xingyundeshi，woyouyigefuyelaizhichiwodeshouru。zhiyaowobutangongzi，meirenzhidao。youyigetimiandegongzuodanwei，zuihaoshuochulai。xiangqinshibailexinlihennanshouzenmeban？

 zaidanweigongzuodehaochushikeyijiechudaogengduodenvsheng。yeyouyixielingdaoxihuanbagua，xihuandangyuelao。meicijuhui，wodouhuibawozheigedalingdanshennanqingnianlachulai，ranhoujieshaojidanshennvqingnian。

 zongdelaishuo，yuyiqianzuodianshangderenxiangbi，yigerendaizaiheshangyuanyiyangdedifanggongzuo，jihuigengda，ziyuangengduo。gengyoukenengquxiaodingdan。

yinci，youshihou，haishixuyaokaozijiquzhengqu。ziyuanbuhuiwuyuanwugudichuxianzainimianqian，xuyaonifuchudaijia。

 xiangqinrenshi，xuyaoniyoufangzi，youche，youqian。buxingdeshi，meiyou。suoyizhinengfahuizijidemeili，xiangbanfadashan。qiantishiyaozhaoyigeyounvhaidedifang。

二、努力赚钱

 youqianrenshizuishuaide。ruguonibuxiangxin，kankanmababa。takanqilaixianggewaixingren，danconglaimeiyounvrenrenweitabuhao。zhangkaizui，bishangzuishimababade。youqiandenenglihenhao。

 furenherenhenvrendoushimingzhongzhudingde。meiyouqianderenbushiherenheren。zheijiushiwoshuode，dannihuixiangxinde。biewenweishenme，niyoumeiyoudanxinguonagefuyoudedierdaimeiyounvpengyou？neixiemeitianhanzhezhaobudaoxifuderenjibenshangdoushiqiongdefalaosaodelaoshengnan。

 qianshiqiongrendejilianggu，youqiannijiuhuiyouxinxin。yinci，nenggouzhuanqian，bubidanxinmeiyounvrenxiangyao。qianbushiwenti，wentideguanjianshimeiqian。

 dangmeiyourenxiangyaotadeshihou，dangmeigexiangqindoubeipaoqideshihou。nibixugaosuziji，nijintianxihuanhushiwo，mingtianyidinghuirangnifudanbuqi。dengdeng，wohuibiandefeichangfuyou，wohui，wohui...

 qianshihaodongxi，buxingdeshi，fengbuhuibatachuidaowojia，woyezhuanbudaoqian。zaiwodeshenghuozhongquxiaodingdanshibukenengde。wozheimeqiong，zenmenengquxiaodingdanni。sheishixiazi，haishifengle，douhuixihuanwozheigeqionggui。

renchoujiuduodushu，renqiongjiuduozhuanqian。zhiyounizugouyouxiu，zirancainengxiyinnvhaidaonishenbian。

 datiexuyaozijidenuli。ruguonixianzaibuchenggong，neijiugengjianuli。buyaobashijianlangfeizaiwuyiyideshiqingshang。nuligongzuozhuanqian。youleziben，yiqiedouhuidaolai。

 xiangqinshibailexinlihennanshouzenmeban？huiyoumianbao，aiqingyehuiyou。xiangxinziji，zhiyaonizugounuli，chizaohuifangqi。yigerenzhu，buhao，buxiangma？