shenmejiaociweifaze?guanjianjiushizhishehuijiaowangzhongde“xintaijianjuxiaoyong”,zhuzhongdejiushishuoshehuijiaowangzhongde“xintaijianjuxiaoyong”。
一、什么叫刺猬法则
shuobailede“ciweifaze”,yejiushishuociweixiaoying,laiyuanyushubenhuadezhexuezhuzuo,tazhuzhongdeshishehuijiaowangzhongde“xintaijianjuxiaoyong”。
yibiankexueyanjiuciweizaiyanhandongjideyishizhuxingshengzhangxixing,kexuejiazuolegeshiyan:bashijizhiciweifangjinshiwaideyuanzishang。zheizhongciweibeilengdeduosuo,yibiangongnuantamenlaolaodidikaozaiyiqi,erhuxiangrongruyihou,youyinchengshoubushangxianghushoushangdezhangci,xunsujiuyouyaofenbiefenli。danshiqiwenqueshitailiangle,tamenyoukaozaiyiqigongnuan。
shubuzhikaozaiyiqishidecitengshitamenpobudeyizaiyicifenli。aidetaijin,shoushanghuibeiciteng;gedehenyuan,youlengdebushufu。jiushizheiyangfanfudifenleyouju,juleyoufen,buduanzaishoulengyushoucizhongjianzhengtuo。zuizhong,ciweimenzongsuanzhaodaoyigeshihedejianju,jinenggouhuxianggongnuan,youyizhiyubeixianghucizhong。
yingyongdaoguanlifangfashijianhuodongzhong,jiushishuoguanlizhejiaruyaogaohaogongzuo,yingdanghexiashuweichiqinmiwujiandeguanlian,keshizhei“qinmiwujianyoujian”deguanlian,shiyizhongbuyuanbujindeshidangdexiezuoguanlian。
1、yuxiashuweichixintaijianju
genjuduiciweifazedekexueyanjiu,guanlifangfaxintaizixunzhuanjiajuede:guanlizheyingdangyuxiashuweichijinmideguanlian,danzheijiushizhi“qinmiwujianyoujian”deguanlian。zenmehuishi?youyujiaruguanlizheyuxiashuxingyingbulidijiaowang,feichangrongyizaochengxianghufenbuqing、chengxiongdaodi,gongzuozhongqueshibiaozhun。yiner,guanlizheyingyuxiashuweichixintaijianju,bujinzhuyaobiaoxianchuganranli,haiyaojirenjingweizhixingan。
2、miaoyong“shineikongjianqinhai”
shijishang,richangshenghuozhong,renherenzhijianjiaruxiangweichihemujiaowang,haiyaoweichiyidingdeshineikongjianjianju。yibanlaishuo,lurenzhongjianhuiweichiyimizuoyoudeshineikongjianjianju,neiyangcaihuirangxianghudejuedehaoyidian。kaodetaijin,feichangrongyijixianghudaozhiweixie,zheizhongqingkuangzaishehuixintaixueshangjiao“shineikongjianqinhai”。
3、zhangwoshidangdeshijianjianju
ciweixiaoyinggaozhirenmen,weichishidudejianju,caikeyijixianghuzhijiangongnuan,youyizhiyucizhonglingyifang,zheierdejianjuhuoxuyebaohanshijianjianju。meigerenyouguishuyuzishendeshijian,jiaruwuguzhanyoutarendeshijian,weihaitarenyiqiezhengchangdeyishizhuxing,shiduitarendeyizhongbuzhongshi,haihuiweihaidajiadeqinggan。liru,zaiduixiashuyingyongshineikongjianqinhaideneishihou,jiaruqinhaishijianguozhang,huirangxiashuzaochengyanjuanxintai。youyuzongyouyigerenzaishenpang,huiweihaixiashuyiqiezhengchangdegongzuozhong,zheiduitigaoxiaolvbuhao。
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