最好的朋友背叛了我该怎么办

 youyixieshier，dajiajingliguocaikeyiganshouzheiqizhongdelangmanhetongchu，liruzuihaodepengyoudepanbian。yiqianwomendoushiwuhuabushuodezuihaodepengyou，quexiangbudaozuizhongbeipenyoucongshenhoutongyidao，zheizhongganjuequeshirangrenshenshousunhai。zuihaodepengyoubeipanlewogaizenmeban?yingduineiyanglengkuwuqingdekeguanshishi，zheishidedajiazenmebanni?

留意下一次交友要睁大双眼瞧清晰

看客观事实的明显水平，再选择是不是宽容

 jiaruzuihaodepengyoudepanbianjinjinyouyuwuyideguocuo，bingqiechanshengdebuliangyingxiangsuanbushangfeichangdadehua，neimawomennenggoukaolvdaokuanrongbierende，zhibuguoshikuanrongzhihouyaoqianwanbiezuopengyoujiuxuyaoshinizijidekanfaeryingxiangle。jiarulingyifangzuochudeguoshiqueshishitaida，rangrenmeifakuanrongdehua，neimabibushangcihoumotu，zaibukekaijiao。

看别人的道歉心态，再选择是不是要拾起友情

 jiarulingyifangzuochudeguoshijiaoweixiao，bingqieshitouyihuifashengneiyangdeguocuo，duinidaozhidesunhaiyebingbuda，lingyifangdedaoqianxintaiyehenhao，henchengzhidehua，hebujibicizhijianyicishiqiyouqingdejiyu。zhibuguoshizaiweilaidejiaowangzhong，haixuyaozaimolianyixialingyifang，buranhenrongyishizairanglingyifangmengpiandiercidehua，zhenshitaidejiushinizishendeshejiaonenglihezhilidouxuyaotigaole。

自身调节良好的心态，再去结识其他盆友

 lingyifangpanbianleni，zhiyoushuomingnishiquyige“jiapengyou”，erlingyifangsangshidequeshiyige“zhenzhixin”，yincinixuyaodianjizhehuoshibierendesunhaifeichangda，yincimeibiyaotaiguonanguo。zheishiniyinggaizuodeshi，jinkenengdiaojiehaozishendexinlizhuangtai，congyiqiandeyinyingzhongzouchuqu，zaizaiciqujieshixindepenyou，congzheidangzhongfajueheshizishenqushenjiaodehaopengyou。

吸取被朋友叛变的经验教训，避免不幸再度开演

 zuihaodepengyouweihejiuneiyangfeichangrongyibeipanlenimenwangridenonghouqingyi？shifoulingyifangyagenjiuweicenggaoduzhongshini，pingchangjinjinduinixurenweishe？shinipingchangziqiqirenguanle，renweiniduirenhaolabierenjiubixuyeduinirucihao？shiniyiqianzuolesunhaitarendeshier，lingyifangsijibaofu？zongtilaishuoyaonongqingchulingyifangpanbiannidedongyin，suihouninenggouzairihouherenxiangchushibimianrucidecanjuzaicichuxian。

不必缺失对人会的基础信赖，对友情的期望

 youyizhihuajiaruguanaidehaodehua，huoshinenggourengrankaidehencuicande。yincijiusuanniyiqianchiguofangmiandekui，keshiyebubibameigerendouxiangdeneiyanghuai，zheiyiquanshijiehaoderenhuoshiyouhenduode，xiangyaoniyouyishuangshanyufajuedeshuangyan。yinciniyaoqianwanbiechenniyuwangridetongkuzhong，yejuebunengfangqiduiyouqingdeqiwang，nidechuangxinzhiluyingdangyouniqucaokongyo。

从这当中学习培训社会发展的繁杂，人的内心的叵测

 zuihaodepengyoubeipanlewogaizenmeban?beipengyoupanbian，shijishangyezailingyigecebianjiaohuilerenmenshehuifazhanshangyurenxiangchuguanliandefanza，jiqirendeneixindexinuwuchang，taxiezhuwomenqujianshaolezhengquerenshiyigerenbenlaimianmudeshijian。yinci，youshishidangdibacuoshidangzuohaoshierlaiduidai，niyekeyicongzheidangzhongdedaoyidingdefazhan，neiyangyeshitingbucuode。qingbuyaozaidanxinyiwang，haohaodizhenxidangxia，guohaomodemeiyitianba。