想要挽回男友的话，应该要避开哪些错误的方式呢?

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一、避开属于你的惯性思维模式

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二、避免情绪失控

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三、千万不要死缠烂打

 “meiyicixiangqizhihoutayuwowuguanle，shuyuqitarendeneishihou，woyefeichangdehuang，feichangdanxintahuiwangdiaowo，yinci，woyehuidianjizhegesanchawufaxiexinxineirongjitamen，huoshidadianhuajitamen，zuishaokeyiyongxintingtadexiangsheng…”zuixian，neiyangxintaizhuangtaiyuanbenjiushishuobuliwanhuide。

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