教你如何挽回前男友的绝招

buzhidaogairuhewanhuiqiannanyou？houhuimoji，wuzhuchouqi？xiamianjiaoni7dajuezhao，mashangyongxingdongwanhuinanyouba!

一、爱他，先爱自己，让自己更有魅力

wulunwomenduomeaigongzuo，aixuexi，aizijidelingyiban，shouxiandouxuyaoaiziji。yinweinilianzijidoubuai，duizijidoubufuzeren，neimeninengduisheifuzeni？aiziji，jiushixiangbanfarangzijiyuelaiyuemei，yuelaiyuejiankang，yuelaiyueyouqizhi。hennanxiangxiang，yigebuguzijishentibujiankang、shencaibudali、xinqingbushuchang、ziwobumanyi、pengtougoumian、culunannaishishenmeyangzi，xiangxinzheiyangdezijidouhuibeizijihedaoba。

yourenhuishuo，zhenzhengaiyigerenshibuhuixianqitadewaimao，danzaixianshishenghuodangzhongyouyousheiyuanyixihuanyigelianmeidoufangqiderenni？chenkaigededisirenqizichenhong，tashuanzhudadaoyandemijuejiushizuobaibiannvren！suoyidaqijingshen，kaishixuexihuazhuang，dapeichuanyiba。chijiankangdeshiwu，zuojiankangdeyundong，rangzijidezhuangtaibaochidaozuijia。dangnizaijiandaoqiannanyoudeshihou，duifanghuihuranyanqianyiliang。zheiyangyigemeiyan、shencaijiaohao、shentijiankang、yongyouqizhideziji，shiwenyounagenanrenbuxihuanni？

二、从现在起，开始读书吧!做一个知性的女子

chulemeitianbaxiaoshidegongzuoshijianzhiwai，nideyeyushijianbeishenmesuozhanjuni？shiriju、hanju、meiju？haishi《badaozongcai》、《diwangchongfei》、《wumeijiaoqi》？zheixiezhikezuojieyazhiyong，bukechenmi。suoyicongxianzaiqi，batamentongtongfangxiaba！zheixieneironghuishufunidesizhi，mengbinideshuangyan，tamenjinjinhuimanzuniyishidehuanxiang，rangniyongyouduanzandekuaigan。ranerhuidaoxianshidangzhong，zijiyiranshixianzaideziji，budanmeiyourenhegaibian，erqiechizhilezijiyaozuodeshiqing。

neimekanshenmeshuhaoni？zhiyaoshiduizijiyouyide、jijide、baohude、tishengde、qiangdaneixindedoukeyikan，qiemeigeyuezhishaokanliangben。buchubannian，nijiuhuitihuidaozishendedongzuoyuelaiyueyouya，koucaihuiyuelaiyuehao，weirenchushiyehuiyuelaiyuewentuo，renrendouhuishuonibiandeyuelaiyuezhixing。zheijiushishujisuodailaideliliang，keyirangrenchongmanlixingyuwuxing，zuizhongshinichengweiyouwenhua、youneihan、youxiuyangdemeilinvxing。

三、如此知性的自己，用智慧分析出分手的症结所在

womenaiyigeren，shibuxuyaoshenmeliyoude，zhiyaoxianghuxiyin，biankexunxujianjinditourudaoganqingzhongqu。danshi，fenshoudeshihou，liyouqueshiduozhongduoyangde。shenme“nishigehaoren，wopeibushangni”，“wojinglilehenduo，dannihaibuchengshu”，“nitaiqiongle，nilianqqhuiyuandoubushi”dengzhurucilei。neimeshuozheixieliyougenbendewentishizainani？qishijinjinjiushiwobugouainile。cishinijiukeyihuiyiyixiayiqianzaiyiqishi，nihetazaiyiqiyounaxiebushufudedifang。

birutaxihuanrenao，ernixihuananjing；tayouxingqudeshiwuniquebuganxingqu。jianjiandenihuifaxian，nitongkudedifang，yeshitahuitongkudedifang。zhiyaobazheigetongkuhuajie，henduodewentidouhuiyingrenerjie。qishilianggerenzaiyiqi，budandandeshixihuanduifangjiukeyile，gengduodeshihouyaohuaxieshijianlaishenshiyixia，bicidexinshibushitongyigefangxiang。

四、承认自身某方面做的不好，是一种大气的表现

renmenhennanduiyuzijidequedianhuozheguocuojiyudaoqian，zheishirenxingderuodian，gengduodeshiaiyumianzi，pashanglezizun，congershiguanxibiandejiangying。qishizaiyouyixieqingkuangxia，yituiweijinshiganqingshengwenyizhonglianghaodecuihuaji。

meiguonbalanqiumingxing“dashayu”aonier，youyicizaizuojiemudeshihou，bushenbeidishangdedianxianbandao，shuailegesijiaochaotian，shenzhilianxiedoushuaichuquyizhi。cishidoudedajiahahadaxiao，tazhidaohouzuolegejueding，zaiweiboshangshuo：ruguoyourenbawosijiaochaotianpsderangwomanyidehua，wohuijita500meijin。yishijianxianqileyizhenpsre，erdajiazaikandaogezhonggaoxiaotupianhoudedaodeshiyipianhuanshengxiaoyu。duomeyuanhuadehuajielezheicigongguanweijia！weihewomenyebuxuexueni？zaizijiyouguocuodeshihou，dangnanyougangyaofahuo，jiujishibaozhuta，huozheyongyigewenlaiduzhutadezui，huaguocuoweiaiqing，lajinbicijuli。jibushizizun，youzengjiaganqing。aiqing，benshenjiubushitaixuyaozizundeshiqing。

五、让他知道，你需要他

youshihounihuitihuidaozheiyangyizhongganjue:yijianshiqing，nidepengyou、shangsi，wendoumeiyouwenbieren，zhijiezhaonilaishangliang，ranhouzhijiebashiqingweipaijini。zheishihouyexuniderenwuyijingfeichangduole，danshinihaishihuiquzuo，shenzhihenkaixin，zheijiushibeixuyaodeliliang。meigerendouxuyaobeizhongshi、beixuyao、beixinren。tongli，nidenanyouyebuliwai。

zaishishideshihoutongguogezhongtujingrangtazhidao，nixuyaota，nideshengminglichongmanletadehenji，shaoleta，rizisuiranhaishikeyiguoxiaqu，danshaoleyifenwenqing，duoleyifencanque。neimezaitadezhihou，biankehuanqinanren“lianxiangxiyu”debenneng，shiruo，kejifananrenxingxiazhangyideqianneng。

六、把他曾经对你的好，反过来讲给他听，共同回忆

“sheirenbeihouwurenshuo，sheirenbeihoubushuoren”。womenshenghuozaixingxingsesedeyulundangzhong，dangyulunduizijibulideshihou，womenhuifennu；dangyulunduizijiyoulideshihou，womenhuigandaoxingfu。neimezaicengjing，taduinidehaonihaililizaimuma？batayuechulai，gentajiangshuyixiatacengjingduiniyouduohao，zaichanshuyixianideneixinzaidangshishiduomedegandong，congerbatalahuidaomeihaodeshiguangdangzhong，gongtonghuiyi。cishicike，jinzhangdeguanxihuisuizhehuiyimanmanhuanhe，chuxianzhuanji。

七、懂他，比你强调爱他，更重要

meigerendoushiyibenshu，douyoubutongdejingli，butongdeshenghuoquanzi。jiushizheiyanggeshigeyangdehuanjingzaojiulemeigerendexingge、xingqu。nanrendeyalizaidangjinwufayongyijuliangjulaibiaoshuqingchu。suoyizaiyigenanrenxiangnichanshutajinhoudehongweilantushi，qishitadeneixinshixiangrangnizhichita、gulita，hetayiqichuangzao。neimezheishihoujiyutaxinxin，rangtazhidaotakeyi；ruguotaxiangnichanshutabuxiangyaodafudagui，zhixiangxiaofujian，neimenijiukeyigulitabaxiangzuodeshizuohao，gaosutayoutadedifangjiuyoujia，jiuzugoule。qishiwomenbuyidingfeiyaoyousuogaodu，zhiyaobashenghuoguohao，guodexingfu，jiushidechenggong。youxieshiqingyaoshitaxiangquzuo，ruguoyuwuguanyuanzedehua，jiuzhichitayixiaba。

xuehuizheiruhewanhuiqiannanyoudeqidajuezhao，gankuaiquyongxingdongwanhuinanyouba。