怎样挽留男朋友？请看这里

 dangyigenanrenjuedinglikainideshihou，nijuedeshinimendeganqingchuxiandawentile，danshiquecongbufansizijidebuzu？xiangyaowanhuinanyoudehua，neijiugaifansiziwo。neimedaodigaizenyangwanliunanpengyouni？

一、挽回前男友之认清自身缺陷

zhiyouzhenzhengmingbaifenshoudeyuanyin，cainengbimianwanhuizhongbubiyaodecuowu，rangwanhuishibangongbei。

1.pingshishifouduiairenyousuoshuhu

 debudaodeyongyuanshide，shiqulecaixiaodebeijiazhenxi。zheishirendetongbing，danbingbushiwuyaokezhi。nvrenzaibeizhuiqiushizongshibaibanjinchi，zaiyiqihouquebaibantiaoti。liangzhongzhuangtaixiachanshengdeluochayueda，suoyingzaodejiaxiangyueda，mouyifangxinlideluochajiuyueda。suoyihaohaohuixiangyixia，zijipingshiyoushenmeguoyufangzongzijierhulveduifangganshoudeshiqing，huoshichengnuoguoxuduodanyizhimeiyouduixiandeshiqing，congzheigejiaodujinxingfanshenghezongjieei，nijiuhuizhaodaokaizhanwanhuidefangxiang。

2.地位是否平衡

 qingzhuyi，shipingheng，bingfeipingdeng。bushizhishuangfangyaofuchuyiyangdejiazhi，huodexiangtongdejiazhi。ershizainimennannvdapei，fahuigezisuozhangdeshihou，youmeiyouzhenxiduifangdefuchu，bujiangqishiweilisuodangran。xuduonvxingpengyouzongbananyoudangbaibianjingangyiyangshiyong，shishidouyaonanrenjieguan，juedezijishinvren，suoyilisuodangran。

3.是否坦诚交流

 xuduorenzaiganqingmianqian，zongrongyikuanyudaiji，yanyudairen。yifangmiankekeyaoqiuduifangtouru，quebaozijideanquangan，yifangmianyouxiangyouzijidekongjian，duiairenyousuobaoliu。yaozhidao，dangnixuanzeyinzangshi，nideyanshen、yuyin、zhitiyuyan，zaidaoneirong，jirongyibingqiehaobuliuqingdechumaini。nitanchengdechengduyuedi，duifanglejienidechengdujiuyuedi，huxiangbuxinrendeqingkuangjiushiyoufasheng，yingxiangganqing。

二、挽回男友之重建吸引力

 nianqing，youhuoli，maomeidenvhaidaibiaozhefanzhinengliqiang，jiyinyouliang，erzaiyuangushihou，renleishengcunlvdixia，weilezhongzujiyinfanyanzhuangda，nianqingmaomeidenvhaijiuchengweinanrenqinglaideduixiang，zhijinzheiyizhongxuanzeqingxiangyeweicengyougaibian。suoyiyaowanhuinanyou，tishengxiyinlifeichangzhongyao。

 nvweiyuejizherong，diyiyinxiangshifeichangzhongyaode，yaozengqiangzijixiyinli，jiubixu“congtoukaishi”。jingxindezhuangrong，yanhanqiubo，nanrenwangwangwulididang。meiyouchounvren，zhiyoulannvren，renzhenxuexidabandejiqiao，xuexiyifudapeidefangfa。youderenhuishuo：neixierendoubushihuo，zhikanwaibiao，quebudongdexinshangxinlingmei，danxianshishi，waibiaoyijingbumei，sheiyuanyizaiduohuashijianlejienidexinling？

 danshidangguangkaowaixingxiyin，meiyoushizhixingdeneihan，waiqiangzhonggan，zheiyangdehuilaideguanxikendingbuzhangjiu，nvxingdemeibujinzaiyuwaibiao，haizaiyuneizaihanyang。wenrou，titiedengtezhishishishangmeiyigenanrendounanyikangjude。yiduanguanxizhong，runvfangchangshiqiangshidizhudaoyiduanguanxi，neimezheiyiduanguanxidepolieyeshikeyiyujiande。

三、挽回男友之建立心锚

 xinmaoshiyizhongnenggouqihuiyijieryinfawomenqingxudewaijieciji。youxiexinmaokeyiyinfawomenyukuaideqingxu(zhengmianxinmao)；youxiequedailaibukuai（fumianxinmao）。xinmaokeyiyou : shijue、tingjue、chujuesuoyinfa。liangrenzaiyiduanshibaideganqingzhongjianlideshicuowuxiaojideqingxujichu，yejiushishuo，fenshouzhihou，nanyouxiangdaonishi，duobandoushifumiandeyinxiang，zheijiushiyinweiniguoqudezhongzhongxingweijiletabuyukuaidelianaitiyan。xiangwanhui，jiuyaotuifanneixiexiaojidexinmao，zhongxinjianlichongmanmeilidexinmao。

1.地点物品的选择

 nixiangyaorangduifangzaishenmedifangxiangqini？yinweishenmeshixiangqini？birushuocanting，tacengjingzaimougecantingweiniqingzhuguoshengri，neicishiniyiliaozhiwai（qingxubodongbijiaoda），suoyizhihounizaiquneijiacantinghuozheshizaineijiacantingjibierenqingzhushengrishi，jiuhuiziranerrandexiangqita，shenzhixinqinghuibiandehenhao。

2.观察对方的状态

 zainijianlixinmaodeshihou，duifangdefanyingruguobijiaopingdan，yejiushiduifanghaiweijinrutebiedezhuangtai，neimeyihourangduifangyinweizheijianshierxiangqinidekenengxinghuiweihuqiwei。yaozhidaoduifangshibushiyijingjinruqiangliedezhuangtai，keyitongguonideguanchaheyuduifangdegoutonglejiedao，zainigujizuiqiadangdeshiketigongyouyin。

3.警惕干扰因素

 niyaozhuyibunengchuxianganraoyinsu，yinweiruguozaijianlixinmaodeshihouchuxianganraoyinsu，henyoukenenghuilingduifangfenxin，ranhouxinmaojianlishibai。birushuonibenlaixiangyaojitayigejingxi，danshizhengzaizhunbeideshihouturanduifangjiedianhuashuojialiyoushi，zheishihoutaxinshenbuding，nidejingxijiumeishenmeyiyile。

4.诱因要独特

 yaowanhuinanyoudehua。zheiyidianyefeichangdezhongyao。zaimougerenjinruqiangliezhuangtaideshihou，ruguonisuotigongdeyouyinshipingchangdezhuangtaihedongzuozhileide，neimeduifangdedanaojiubunengfenbianchuzheigeyouyinyoushenmedutede，neimezheigexinmaojiuwufajianli。

 zongshanglaishuo，nanrenhenvrenzaiganqingzhongdexuqiuhezuoyongdoudayoubutong，suoyinvrenbunengzongshiqiangqiunanrenanzhaozijidexiangfaxingshi。zhiyourenqingzishenquexian，tongshimingbaitadexuqiu，cainengzhenzhengshixianwanhui。