多角度看如何提升自己的影响力

　　yingxianglishiyizhongnengli，keyibangzhudajiadedaogengduodekenengxingyuziyuan，rangqingtingwobeidazhongtingjian，bingqieyenengbangzhuwomenshixiangengduodelixianghebaofu。xiangyaotigaozijideyingxiangli，yaolejierenxingderuodian，erqieqiaomiaodeliyongtamen。benwenjiangcongduogejiaodupouxiruhetishengzijideyingxiangli。

　　一、利用人性的贪婪和自私自利

　　renxingdetanlanhezisizilishiyizhongjingchangchuxianderuodian，tarangwomenzongxiangyaohuodegengduodeyichuyuliyi。ruguonixiangyaotigaozijideyingxiangli，neijiuxuyaoshanyuliyongzheiyiruodian。nikeyigenjujibicidailaihaochuyuliyi，laihuodelingyifangdedalizhichihexiezuo。liru，nikeyitigonglianghaodejiuyejihui、genggaogongzidaiyu、gengqiangziyuandeng，nengrangduifangkanjiannidechengxinhezhencheng，congerdedaoduifangxinrenyuzhichi。

　　二、利用人性的虚荣心和自尊心

　　renxingdexurongxinhezizunxinshiyizhongfeichangpubiancunzaideruodian，tarangwomenzongxiwanghuodebierenderenkehechengzan。ruguonixiangyaotigaozijideyingxiangli，neijiuxuyaoshanyuliyongzheiyiruodian。nikeyigenjuchengzanhebiaoyanglingyifang，laitishenglingyifangdexinxinherenke，congerdedaolingyifangdedalizhichihexiezuo。liru，nikeyikuazanlingyifangdecaihua、guanlinengli、guanlinenglideng，nengrangduifangkanjiannideshangxihexinren，jinerchanshengxingquherenke。

　　三、利用人性未知的恐惧和不安

　　renxingweizhidekongjuhebuanshiyizhongfeichangpubiancunzaideruodian，tarangwomenyizhigandaojiaolvhedanxin。ruguonixiangyaotigaozijideyingxiangli，neijiuxuyaoshanyuliyongzheiyiruodian。nikeyigenjuchuliduifangwentihekunnan，laihuanjielingyifangweizhidekongjuhebuan，congerdedaolingyifangderenkeyuhezuo。ruhetishengzijideyingxiangliliru，nikeyibangzhuduifangchuligongzuoshangdenandian、bangzhulingyifangmianduitiaozhan、jiyulingyifanggengjiahaodeshiyongdeng，nengrangduifangkanjiannidexiezhuheguanai，jinerchanshengxingquherenke。