男方一直拖着不离婚的理由，牵绊他的无非是这三点

 nanfangyizhituozhebulihundeliyouyounaxie？hunyinshiwomenzaizheigeshijieshangbiandeyilai，erbushiyigerenzaimanzhangerwuliaodeshenghuozhongpaihuai。hunyinshilianggerendebifenggang。

 yigezaiwaimianbaoshoufengyuzhikuderen，huijiahouzongnengdedaolingyigerendeanweihetitie，rangnizhenzuoqilai，rangniqidaimingtianyangguangdewennuan，juedenideshenghuomeiyouneimezaogao。

 danzongyouhenduohunyin，rangsuosuideshenghuogaibianlelianggerendeyiwei，yigebuzailixing，yigebiandegengjiachenmo，jiuxiangyixienanren，zaiwaimianzaoshoufengbao，huijiadengdaishijiehehanlengde。

 shuojihanjiaopoyoudianguofen，danshihenduonanrenzhengtianleihuijia，lianrefandouchibuxia。tamenchileliangkoujiushuizhele。jianjiandi，tamenbuzaiqidaiqizidewenrou，zongshiyongchenmolaihuidaqizidelengmo。

 “woxianglihun”，“wozhunbeilihun”，“woxianglihun”，zheixiehuashiwozaimengzhongxiewenzhangshikandaodezuiduodexinxi。wobuzhidaowodewenzhangshifouzongnengyinqibeishangnanrendegongming，haishidaduoshuhunyinyijingjieshu？

 nanrenduihunyinmeiyouyuwangma？yijingjuedexianzaidehunyinyijingdaoleshanqiongshuijindedibule？haishixianglihun，danzongyouyixiezhangairangnanrenxiabulejuexin？

 worenweizheixienanrenyoulihundexiangfa，dantamenjuedetamenbunengfangshou。zuihou，tamenxuanzejixurenshoubuxingfudehunyin。shishenmerangnanrenbulihun？dangyigenanrenxianglihunquejujuelihunshi，zheizhibuguoshizheisandian。

第一、孩子

 ruguoshijieshangyoushenmedongxinengrangnanrenyuanyifuchunuli，yuanyibeiyuanwang，naixinhezhengjiu？woxiangxinhenduonanrendouzhidao，ai，haizi，fumu，shizuirangnanrenbandaode，shuoshenmeshirangnanrenxianglihun，jujuelihun，haizishiyigetebiezhongyaodehuanjie。

 rangwomentantannianqingrendelihun。nianqingrenlihunlvzuigaodejieduanshiyouhaizihoudeyiliangnian。youyuhuaiyunhefenmianqianhoudejieduan，qizihuoduohuoshaohuiyouchanhouyouyuzheng，huoyinuhemingan。tamenhuiduijiating、laorenhuozhangfuchanshengwujiehebuman。

 gengzhongyaodeshi，yixienvxingdaizhehaizilaiyaogong，tamendexintaibuzhengque，huozheyixienanxingguoyucuxin，zheishideweichihunyinbiandekunnan。zuihou，tamendeqiziqiangpotamenyoulihundexiangfa，renweibicihennangoutong，bicibianhuataida。

 jingguoshensishulv，xuduonanrenjuedetamendeganqingkeyifangxia。bijing，meiyougongtongdehuatihexinlingjiaoliudekongjian。laorendejianyiyekeyibeihulve。bijing，tamenyijingshichengnianren，keyijuedingzijideshenghuo，danzuizhong，tamenbeikunzaihaiziyinggaizuoshenmezhong。

 kanzhetamendexuerouhaizaixuexi，qingchedeyanjinghetianzhendeweixiao，zongshinengrangyigerengandaoyizhonghanjianderouruan，zuihouxuduorenyijingjuexinlihun，zaixuanzehaizihehunyinziyou，xuanzejixurenshouhunyin，zheishihenduonvrenbumingbai，danwoxiangxinnanrenzuoweiyigefuqinshilijiede。

第二、期待改变

 nanfangyizhituozhebulihundeliyouyounaxie？ruguoyigenanrenduochoushangan，taziranhuiduochoushangan。yigeduochoushanganderenkeyishuoyaozoule，tashenhoudeshijiebengkuile，zheisihaobuyingxiangtadejuexin。raner，duochoushangandenanrenzongshiyourouguaduan，zongshixiangxinmoshengdeaiqingkeyizhongxinhehao。

 zheiliangzhongnanrenyekeyifanyingzaihunyinzhong。youxiehunyinjingbuqishijiandechenjin，manmanbiandecangbaiyongzhong。fuqiguanxibiandechenmo，chayihenda。qizikaishibiandeyinu、buhelihejianqiang，yinweibumanhuobuman。

 yikaishi，nanrenmenhuishengqidizhenglun，danhoulaitamenhuibiandechenmo。dangyigerenchenmoshi，zhiyouliangzhongkenengxing。yigeshifaxiancuowu，lingyigeshixiadingjuexin。zaidaduoshufuqizhijiandemaodunshengjihou，nanrenkaishichenmo，zheidaibiaolehouzhe。

 dangzhenxianghejiuyuanbeinvxinghushishi，xuduonanxinghuiyoulihunhejietuodexiangfa。bijing，tamendeshengminghaihenzhang，tamenbunengzaitamenmianqianshenghuo。tamenjianglaigaizenmeban？

 danxuduonanrenjinwanlihundejuexinjiangzaimingtianqizimingtianzuodezaocanzhongxiaoshi。dangyiduanshijianhoufashengzhengzhishi，tamendeqizibianchengleyigebuhelidecunzai，zheihuirangnanrenzaishunjianxiangyaolihun。danmeicitamenjuedinglihunshi，tamendouzaixiangtamendeqizishifouhuibiandemingzhi。

 zaizheizhongyouyuzhong，xuduoshuotamenxianglihundenanrenzuizhongxuanzerenshouzheiduantongkuerfayangdehunyin。xuduonvrenrenweizheizhongnanrenmeiyoulihundeyongqi，zheishiyigehendadecuowu。tamenmeiyouxuanzelihun，danzheigenanrenhenshenqing。tazongshiqidaizhetadeqizihuidaoyuanlaiwenroudeqizi。

第三、善良让男人不忍离婚

 youxienvrenzaijiatingzhonghenjianqiang。tamenbuzunzhonggongpo，buaizhangfu，buzuojiawu。tamenbayigelanduozhuanhengdenvrendefanmianyanyidelinlijinzhi。ruguotamendezhangfuyouyidianweifandexintaihuoxingwei，tamenhuiduitamendafaleiting，rangyigejiatingdejifeigoutiao。

 zaizheizhonghunyinzhong，shigenanrenzhongyoushigexianglihun，danzuizhongzhiyoujiugenanrenxuanzelihun。lingyigejianchishenghuozaizheizhongbupingdengdehunyinzhong。shishishang，pengyoushenbianyidingyouzheiyangdelizi。

 henduorenhuiquantalihun，yinweizuoweiyigejuwairen，tazaiyeshoubulele。nvrenkeboshizhimingde。weishenmezheiyangdenanrenbulihun？

 shouxian，taxianglihun。bijing，jishishiyigechengshidenanrenyehuigujitafumudeganqinghehaizidechengzhang。mianduizheiyangyigebeibidenvren，zheiyangyigenanrenxianglihunquejujuelihunzhiyouyigeyuanyin。

 tataishanliangle。tashigenanren。tarenshitadeqizi。suirantadeqizihenkebo，dantazhidaotaqiziruanruodeyimian。tazhidaoruguoyigenvrenlihun，tajiangmianduishenmeyangdeshenghuo。bijing，henshaoyoudiergeyihunfunvnengdedaoxingfu。

 wokeyirongrenta，danqitananrenbuhuirongrenta。ruguowohetalihun，takenenghuobuxiaqu。zhengshizheizhongnanren，taduiqiziyouzhequanmiandekaolv，shenghuozhongfeichangnuoruodenanren，zaitadeneixinshenchuyouzhezuishanliangdeyimian。

 henduorenkenengbulijiezheigebeiguodudeshanliangshufuderenshifouyoudanaowenti。shishishang，tafeichangqingxing，duihunyinyouzhetouchedekanfa。tazhishicongbutongdejiaodulijie。

 nanfangyizhituozhebulihundeliyouyounaxie？meizhonghunyindouyouyigegongtongdian。dangyigenanrenjuedinglihunshi，tajujuelihun。chulenv，chulenvxingbulijiedeshishishang，yinzangdeshinanxingzuibenzhidetixian。