男方一直拖着不离婚的理由，其真正意图女人都不知道

 nanfangyizhituozhebulihundeliyouyounaxie？zaijintiandehunyinzhong，xuduofufushenghuozaiyiqi，bingjiangjiuzhe。zheikenengshiyinweihaizihuocaichandewenti。jishimeiyouganqing，tamenyebuhuixuanzelihun。zheizhongqingkuangzaishenghuozhongqishihenchangjian。

 youqishinanren，zainvrentichulihunhouzongxiangtuozhe，qishitamenxinliyouyizhongxintai，jishifuqizhijianmeiyouganqing，yebuxianglihun。

shishishang，youxienanrenxuanzetuozhebuyuanlihun，buyidinghaiyouganqing，kenenghaiyouzheixieyinsu。

心中还有一丝不甘

 youshiliangduifufudeguanxikenengyouwenti，dantamenmeiyoudadaowufahuanjiedechengdu。jibenshang，tamentichulihunshiyinweiyixiesuosuidezhengchaohuofennu。

 danshishishang，wozhendebuxianglihun。wohaishiyoudianbuyuanyi。wojuedewoweizheigejiatingfuchulezheimeduo。ruguowolihun，zheigejiatingjiangbeicuihui。

 nanfangyizhituozhebulihundeliyouyounaxie？ruguoyigenanrenyizhituotuolala，buxianglihun，tongchangshiyinweitaxinlitebiebuyuanyi，buxiangfangxiatazuixihuanderen。jishitadeqizihetameiyouganqing，nanrenyebuyuanyilihun。yinweitajuedezijiweijiatingheqizifuchulezheimeduo，buxiangqingyifangshou，suoyitabuxiangjieshuzheiduanguanxi。

 daner，ruguoqizijianchilihun，nanrentongchanghuixuanzexiantuoyan。ruguozuihoumeiyoubanfadiaojie，dannanrenbuxiangweilehaizihejiatingerlihun。

我不忍心伤害我的孩子

 youxienanrenjuede，ruguotamenlihun，tamendehaizijiangmeiyouyigewanzhengdejiating。buxianglihundemudeshibuyaozaihaizidexinliliuxiayinying。jishiniduinideqizimeiyouganqing，nidehaiziyeshiwugude。zheizhongrentongchangyouyizhongteshudezerengan，zhishaoshiweiletamendehaizi。

 zheizheizhongqingkuangfashengshi，qizitongchanghuiweijiatinggandaonanguo。suiranyigenanrenhentongku，xiangjinkuailihun，dantabixuweitadehaizichengshou。yidanlihun，kendinghuiyingxianghaiziweilaideshenxinjiankang。

youcikejian，ruguoyigenanrentuozhebuxianglihun，neiyekeyikanchutaduizheigejiatinghehaizidezerengan。

 yexuyigenanrenzaizheiduanbuxingdehunyinzhongzaoshoulejudadetongku，danzheizhongqingkuangqishishitazuinankandaode。suirantamenmeiyouganqing，dantamenbuxianghenkuaijieshuzheiduanguanxi。bijing，tamenyougongtongdehaizi，fouzetahuishoudaoshanghai，zheiyeshinanrenbuxianglihundeyuanyin。

不想失去婚姻财产

 lingyizhongqingkuangshi，yigenanrenzaizheiduanhunyinzhongbeipanletadeqizi，suoyidangtadeqizixianglihunshi，takendinghuimianlincaichanfengedewenti。

 danshiyouxienanrenbuxiangfangqizheixiecaichan，yinweitamendanxinzijizuizhonghuibeipanchujia。suoyiwobuxianglihun。jishiwoyizhituoyan，woyebuxiangzhudonglihun。mudeshirangnvxingfangqizheixiecaichanhuobuxianglihun。

 yibanlaishuo，zheizhongrenshiteshudewuzhi，tebiehaipashiquzheixiecaichan，suoyitamenbuyuanyitongyilihundeyaoqiu。ruguoshizheiyang，womenkeyikandao，nanrenyidingshineizhongshoucainu。jishilianggerenzhijianmeiyouganqing，tamenyebuxiangfangqizheixiecaichan，suoyitamenbuhuixuanzelihun。

 danzhengruneijulaohuasuoshuo，ruguoyigenanrenzhendebuxianglihun，tajiubuhuizuozheiyangdeshi。bijing，tayijingjiehunzheimejiule。ruguoyigenanrenzhendeyouliangxinhezerengan，tayongyuanbuhuixuanzebulihun，yinweitabuyuanyifangqizijidecaichan。zheishinanrenhexinggezhijiandechaju。

我不想离婚的原因是我得特别尴尬

 youxienanrenjuedelihunshiyijianfeichangkechideshiqing。tamenbuxiangzaiqinqimianqiantaiqitoulai。zhengyinweiruci，tamenbuxianglihun。tamencaiqudefangfashiyizhituoyan。jishizheiduanhunyinjijiangpolie，woyebuxiangrangbierenkandaowodexiaohua，suoyiwoxuanzeletaobi。

nanrenhaishiyaomianzide，buxiwangbierenzhidaozijixianzaibukaixin。

 yibanlaishuo，zheixienanrentebieguanxinzijidexingxiang。tamendanxinlihunhuiyingxiangtamenweilaidezhiyeshengya。tamenyekenenghaipashiquyigemianfeidebaomu。ruguonilihunle，nihuizaicichengweiyigeren，nixuyaolaidaodali。zheijiushiweishenmewoxuanzelihun。

 yigenanrenbuxianglihundeyuanyinyeshiyinweitayijingxiguanlezaijialiyouyigeqizi，suoyidangyigenvrentichulihunshi，ruguoyigenanrenzaiwaimianmeiyouqitanvren，tatongchangbuhuixuanzelihun。

yinci，yibannanrenxuanzetuozhebulihundezhenshiyitu，yexuhenduonvrenhaibuzhidao。

 nanfangyizhituozhebulihundeliyouyounaxie？nvxingyinggaiguanchatamendezhangfuchuyushenmeyangdeqingkuang，yibianzuochufanying。danshi，ruguoniyinweiyishichongdongerbulihun，yinweilihunbujinhuishanghaishuangfang，haihuishejilianggejiating。buyaozuorenherangnihouhuideshi。niyinggaizhenxizheiduanlaizhibuyidehunyin。