中年夫妻的情感状态多半是以下三种，和老公有名无实该不该离婚

helaogongyoumingwushigaibugailihun？nikesishuo：“hunyinshiyibenshu，diyizhangxieshi，qiyushipingdandesanwen。”deque，rendaozhongnian，fuqizhijiandeshenghuo，yijingbiandehenpingdan，jibenshangmeiyouyuanlaidejiqinghelangman。

zheiyishiqidefuqi，mianduishenghuodeyali，zaoyiyanjuanleganqing，buhuizhudongweichifuqiguanxi。

yinci，xuduozhongnianfuqideganqing，huiyuelaiyuedanmo，shenzhixingchengyizhonghubudaraodezhuangtai，shuangfanggeyougedeshenghuo，sihuchenglezuishuxidemoshengren。

fuqiyidanbiandelengmo，kendinghuiduiganqingchanshenghendadeyingxiang，henduobeipandoushicongzheigeshiqikaishide。

jiarufuqibudongdejingyinghunyin，rangfuqiguanxijixudanbo，zuizhonghuizaochengbukewanhuidehouguo。

shishishang，neixiebuxingdehunyin，wangwangmeiyoubeipan，danfuqizhijiandelengmoheshuli，quechengletamenguanxibengkuidegenyuan，zhideshensi。

guigenjiedi，zhongnianfuqideqingganzhuangtai，daduoshiyixiasanzhong，buxin。

一、动不动就分床，婚姻名不实

zhongnianyihou，ruguofuqizhijianzongshitichufenchuang，henrongyizaochengguanxishuyuan，jishizaiaiyebunenghuiqu。

yinwei，fuqiyidanxuanzefenchuang，shuangfangjiumeiyoujiaoliu，buzaihuxiangguanxin，ershichenjinzaizijideshijieli，henkuaijiuhuihulveduifang。

youyuzheizhongqingkuang，fuqiguanxilengdan，liangrenbudarao，zuizhongdaozhiganqingpolie。

zaizhe，fuqifenchuangjiule，shuangfangmeiyougoutong，henrongyichanshenghuaiyi，yidanshuangfangmeiyouxinren，jiuhuishiguanxiyuelaiyueyuan。

shishishang，suiranfenchuangdejulihenxiao，danyoucichanshengdeyingxiangshijudade，zheizhongzhuangtaihuishifuqizhijian，xinyuxindejuliyuelaiyueda，xingchenglengmodeguanxi。

xuduozhongnianfuqiganqingfenbenglixi，jiushicongfenchuangkaishi，xiwangnannvdouyaoyinqijingjue。

shennvshihezhangfujiehun15nian，ganqingyizhipingdanrushui，shuangfangdoumeiyouqidai，guanxifeichangshuyuan。

yinci，shennvshitichufenchuang，buxiangrangzhangfudaraota，buxihuantadeshentiwenti，jianjuefenkai。

qichu，zhangfuyouxiebuqingyuan，shibushidilaizhaota，liangrenyehuiyouyixieqinmidexingwei。

buguo，fenchuangsangeyuehou，zhangfujiubuzailaizhaotale，jishitazhudonganshi，zhangfuyewudongyuzhong。

jiuzheiyang，shuangfangxiguanlezheizhongshulizhuangtai，jianmianwuhuakeshuo，jiuxianglianggemoshengrenyiqishenghuo。helaogongyoumingwushigaibugailihun？

zuihou，zaifenchuangyiniandeshihou，shennvshifaxianzhangfuheqitanvrenwanaimei，yinuzhixiatichulihun，guanxishunjianbengkui。

yinci，duiyuzhongnianfuqilaishuo，zuihaobuyaofenchuang，ruguoshuangfangbuzaiyiqi，hunyinjiuhuimingbushi，guanxihennanjixuxiaqu。

yidanyifangyoulebuanfendexiangfa，jiuhuichuxianhunwaiqing，daoshihouhunyinyewufaweichi，debuchangshi。

二、相互抱怨和指责，导致夫妻之间的隔阂

shijishang，yixiezhongnianfuqibudongdexianghulijie，zongshihuxiangzhize，jingchangbaoyuan，shiguanxigengjialengmo。

liru，nanrenzongshibuxihuannvrenbupiaoliang，luanhuaqian，huozheshuotamenbuhuiguanjia，matamenmeiyong。

 yidanzheizhongbaoyuanpinfanfasheng，jiuhuirangnvrenyuelaiyuelengmo。dangyigenvrenfuchuleyiqie，chengdanlesuoyoudejiawu，quemeiyoudedaonanrendeanweishi，takendinghuishoudaoweiqu。

tongli，ruguonvrenjingchangpipingnanrenmeiyounengli，buxihuantamenbuzhuanqian，congbulijiehezunzhongtamen，kendinghuirangtamengandaoyane。

dangnanrendefuchudebudaorenke，fanerbeinvrenbishishi，tamendexinyijingduiganqingshiqulexingqu。

yinci，duiyuzhongnianfuqilaishuo，qianwanbuyaobaoyuanhezhizeduifang，fouze，guanxihuiyuelaiyueshuyuan，daozhihunyinpolie。

zaiyuzhongnianfuqixiangchushi，yaoduozhuyiyanyubiaoda，duoshuojijigulidehua，shaoshuoxiaojibaoyuandehua。

nvrenbuyaoduinanrenshuo“jiajinizhenshixialeyan，bierendelaogongneimechenggong，niqueyidianbenshidoumeiyou”zheijuhuayouqishanghailenanrendezizunxin。

nanrenyebunenggaosunvren“nizhenshigeshibaizhe，yidianyongdoumeiyou。niyikaishizenmenengjiajini？”，zheixiehuahuirangnvrentebiexinhan，gandaoweiqu。

shishishang，xuduozhongnianfuqibingbuzhongshizheixiefangmian，zaishenghuozhongjingchangbaoyuanhezhize，zhihuizaochengfuqizhijiandegehe，haowuyiyi。

zhenzhengdehaofuqi，dongdexianghulijie，xianghuxinshang，gongtongnuli，chuangzaoxingfudeshenghuo，zheijiushihunyinyinggaiyoudeyangzi。

三、双方划清界限，互不沟通

zhongnianfuqi，yidingyaoyougoutong，ganqingyuepingdan，yueyaojijidiweichiganqing，zheiyangcainengshiguanxigengjiawending。

raner，xianshizhongxuduozhongnianfuqi，quezuobudaozheiyidian，quebuganshe，shuangfanghuaqinglejiexian。

fuqizhijianyidanbugoutong，biranhuishihunyingengjiamosheng，guanxigengjiashuyuan。

julilaishuo，tamenxiangchudeshihou，gedeshenghuo，sheiyebulishei，shuangfangdedongxidoushifenkaicunfangde，suoyouderichangyongpin，yedoushifenkaishiyongde。

shenzhi，tamenzaijialimoxulezheizhongshulideguize，meiyourenjinruduifangdekongjian，shifuqiguanxixingtongmolu。

zaizheizhongshenghuozhuangtaixia，fuqizhijianmeiyoujiaoliu，shuojijuhuadoubunaifan，xiguanleyongchenmoduidailingyiban，ganqingzennenghaoni？

zheiyangdezhongnianfuqi，xinzhongyijingmeiyouduifangdeweizhi，yanyubutoujibanju，guanxijiuhuizhujianbengkui。

yinci，rendaozhongnian，fuqiqianwanbuyaohuaqingjiexian，yidingyaoyiqishenghuo，duoguanxinhejiaoliu，zaipingdandepeibanxia，cainengshiganqinggengjiawending。

zongshangsuoshu，zhongnianfuqideshenghuo，daduoshizheisanzhongzhuangtai：

suishifenchuang，hunyinmingbushi；xianghubaoyuanhezhize，zaochengfuqigehe；shuangfanghuaqingjiexian，hubugoutong。

shishishang，youtaiduodezhongnianfuqichuyuzheizhongzhuangtai，ruguobugaishan，kendinghuiyingxianghunyin。

zheijiuxuyaozhongnianfuqiyinqizhongshi，zhudongweichiganqing，buyaorangguanxijixulengdan，yimianhunyinchuxianliehen。

haodehunyin，bushishenghuodezhiliang，ershifuqizhijianxiangai，zuolezuizhangqingdepeiban。

tamenjijiguanlihunyin，xianghulijiehexinren，xianghuguanxinhezhichi，rangshenghuogengshushi，zheishixingfudejichu。

helaogongyoumingwushigaibugailihun？zhengrubaerzhakesuoshuo：“fuqizhijianyaohuxiangrenshihelijie，ranhouyouxianghurongrenhezunzhong，cainengweichixingfudehunyin。”