中年婚姻索然无味，和老公有名无实该不该离婚

 helaogongyoumingwushigaibugailihun？guoqingjiehoudediyitian，laileyiweilaifangzhexiangnvshi，takanqilaihenjusangdijiangshuletadehunyin：“wodeshenghuozhendetaiwuliaole，jializongshibinglengde，meiyouhuoli，taiyayi，henxianglihun。

wohelaogongjiehun17nianle，haizigangdugaoyi，zhuxiao。

 zheihaizicongchuzhongqijiuzhuzaixuexiaoli。yikaishi，wozhendehenxiangpeiwo。wozhangfulanzhuwoshuotayexuyaowo。xianzaitazhishipeiyanghaizidedulixing。ruguowoxiangyaohaizi，takeyisongwoqukanhaizi。

jiranhaiziyijingwanquanduli，wozhangfujiubuxuyaowole。

zaiguoqu，wozhangfuduiwohenhao，mashangxiabanhuijia，peiwozuofan，hewoliaotian，haizifangjiadeshihouhuidaiwohehaizichuquwan。

现在我丈夫已经完全改变了。他经常需要加班。他总是抱怨自己压力很大，对孩子很不耐烦。他心情不好，我在家里经常感冒。

wozhendetaijusangle，xianranwomenyiqianbushizheiyangde。

 woshizhegaosuwozhangfuwodexin，shizhewennuanwodejiating。neitianlaogongshengri，womailetazuixihuandehaixian，zuoleyidazhuocaiguoshengri。

jieguowozhangfushenyecaihuilai，kandaowozaidengta，tazhishilenglengdishuowozaixiamang。

 shishishang，wohuaiyiwozhangfushifouzuobi，dantacongweigaibianguo。suirantajiabanhenwan，duiwohewodehaizibunaifan，dantarengranmeitianhuijia，congbupipingwodeshenghuofei。wozaibanyetoutoudikanlekantadeshouji，ranhouquyinxingjianchatadezhangdan。

suiranhunyinmeiyouwenti，danwoxianglihun，laoshi，woyinggailihunma？”

听完向女士倾诉，婚姻咨询师问她：“你想好离婚后怎么过？”

chenmoleyihuier，xiangnvshiyaoleyaotou。

wozhidao，xiangnvshishixiangyonglihunlaitaobixianzaidehunyinshenghuo。

danshilihun，bingbunengjiejuewenti。jishilihunle，xianzaizheiduanhunyindewentiyezhihuiliujixiayiduanhunyin。

weiduoliyahunyinguwenfenxiyujianyi：

 xuduofuqidaolezhongnianjiuhuichuxianhunyinweiji，deque，renzaizheigenianling，youlaoyouxiao，yijiarendouzhiwangziji，yaliqueshihenda。

zaichenzhongdeyalixia，fuqizhijianmeiyouguoqudetianmihejiqing，quefalangman，maodunyuelaiyueduo。

zaichaimiyouyandepengdiaoxia，yuanbenshanshanfaguangdehunyinbiandeandan。

youxierenjuedexianzaidehunyinbuxingfu，xiangyonglihunlaigaishanqingkuang。

 zheizhongxiangfajiuxiangnixiangjiejueyigechanzaiyiqideerjixian，nibuquxiangbanfajiejuechanzaiyiqidejie，ershibaerjixianchanzaiyiqidejiedoujiandiao。helaogongyoumingwushigaibugailihun？

结果是什么？

erjixianjiekaile，danerjiyemeiyong。

xuduorenzailihunqianjuedezijidebanlvbuhao，youhenduoquedian，bushizijizhenzhengxihuande，yebushizijixiangyaodelingyiban。

tamenxiangtongguolihunzhaodaoyigehaonanrenhaonvren，qishizaihundeshenghuohenkenengbixianzaideshenghuogengzaogao。

jiuxiangwoyiqiandenanduzhexiaochendejingliyiyang，xiaochen30suijiulihunle，jinnian34sui，heqianqishixiangqinrenshide。

xiaochenhenzhenshideshuotabuxihuantadeqizi，danshiyinweijiatingpeidui，jiatingguanxiyebucuo，suoyicaijiehun。

jieguojiehunbudaosannian，xiaochenyuqianqidemaodunzhujianjiashen，xiaochenmeitiandouxianglihun。

houlaiyinweiyicizuijiu，xiaochenyiwaichugui。

neishixiaochendeqianqiyijinghuaiyunsigeyuele，qianqikuzheqiuxiaochenhaohaohuijia，haohaoshenghuo，rangxiaochenfashizaiyebuwanle。

xiaochenxinxiang，tahuaiyunle，bunenghewolihun，zaishuo，woyidianyebuxihuanta。

yiciyiwaichugui，qianqidekenqiu，rangxiaochendexinlifashenglebianhua，tarenshilehenduopengyou，haizaiwaimiansiwujidandiwan。

xiaochendeqianqifaxianxiaochenbuyuanhuitou，bugujiarendefandui，huikanchuhaiziliuchanle，shigenanhai。

likaiyiyuanhou，qianqizhijiexiangxiaochentichu。

buguoxiaochenyejuedeqianqizaigenzijikaiwanxiao，shuo：“nimendouhuaiyunle，zenmegenwolihun？”

qianqiyijuhuayemeishuo，bahaizidezhaopianfajiletadejiaren。

dunshijiaqunzhakaileguo，xiaochendemuqinyouqiyounu，zhijieyunguoqu，xiaochenhuangle。

zuihou，xiaochenwunailihun。

xianzai，xiaochenyijinglangfeilesinian。zicongxiaochendemuqinyundaohou，shentiyuelaiyuecha。

 xiaochenhenhouhui，zheijiniantaturanyishidao，tadejialichongmanleqianqideyingzi，hetajiaowangdenvren，douburutadeqianqidanchun，gujia。

小陈，后悔了。

 tahouhuilihun，yehouhuishanghaileqianqi，tashuozijipobujidaidichuanyueguoqu，zhanzaidangchuxianglihundezijimianqian，henhendishanletayibazhang。

lihundenianqingrenkenengzhaobudaozijidexingfu，gengbuyongshuoyoulaoyouxiaodezhongnianrenle？

 lihunbushigaibianxianzhuangdebanfa，yebushijiejuewentidebanfa。zhiyougaibiannidesiweifangshi，yijijidezhuangtaimianduihunyin，hunyincainengzhujianhuifuyuanlaideguangcai。

 helaogongyoumingwushigaibugailihun？shiyoubajiu，renshengburuyi。yuqitaobi，burunuligaibianxianzhuang，guanlihaohunyin，nuligaishanhunyinguanxi，buyaoqingyizuochulihunjueding，rangzijihouhui。