zenmexiufunvhunyin,zaishenghuotuzhong,renmenyoushiyehuipengdaohunyinshenghuodeyidananti,haoxiangyidaowufakuayuede。yichangxiaozhengzhihou,fuqiliangrenhenyoukenengkaishizhiyilianggerendeganqinghainengbunengzhonglian。danshi,yaojizhu,hunyinlidemocawukebimian,zhongdianzaiyuwomenzenyangtuoshanyingduibingjiejuezheixiemaodun。zaizheili,wojidajiafenxiangqigeshiyongdefangfa,yuantamennengbianchengdajiawanhuihunyindaolushangdezhiluren。
1.情绪问题剖析

cengjingyouyici,woyuqiziyinyijianweibuzudaodexiaoshixianruzhengchao。yuanyinjuranshiwoxiabanhuilaibipingriwanxie,tawurenweiwozaigongsitingliu,biaoshimingxianqiangliebuman。suiranwochangshibiaoshu,jinjindaolushangzaoyudaoleyongji,dantahaoxiangbingbuxiangqingting,xinqinggengjiaxingfen。neiyike,wojingxing,womenzijideqingxuzaoyimianlinpoliedebianyan。
2.深层次情绪与心理状态
wonengtichadaotaxinzhongdefennuyuxinhan,zheixiedoulaiyuanyuwowufajiejinsuonengdilejieduifangdeganshou。wohenqingchu,zheizhongwuhuiruguobujishituoshanchuzhi,henyoukenengshiliangrendeguanxijinyibuehua。wojianjianfansheng,weishenmewobingbunenggengyouxiaodihetagoutongjiaoliu,gengjiashenrulejietadeyaoqiu?wozhujianrenshidao,zaihunyinshenghuozhong,youxiaodegoutongshiweixiqingganshangdezhongyao,erxianghuzhijiandelijieyubaorongnaishigoutongjiaoliudezhongyaoqianti。
3. 保持理性,防止情绪崩溃的矛盾
zaixinlichuxianbodongshi,bicidouyinggaiqinfenbaochilixing,fangzhiqingxuhuazhengzhi。weiyouruci,cainengjiyouxiaodegoutongfahuitezhang,congerchuliwenti,weihubaoyangqingganshangdepingwen。
dangqingxubengkuishi,tongchanghuisuikoushuochushangrendeyanci。weilefangzhiqingxuhuamaodun,rangwomendezhongyaorenwushibaochilixing。wocengjingchangshitongguoshenxiqilaihuanjiezijidexinqing,bingheqizikaizhankeguangoutongjiaoliu。zhihuizailizhizhuangtaixia,cainengzhenzhengdegengqingxidibiaoshuzijideguandian,yucitongshigengrongyijiejinsuonengdilejieduifangdelichang。
4. 积极主动沟通交流,解决歧见
zenmexiufunvhunyin,zaijingguoyiyedesikaohou,wozhudongxiangqizidakaixinfei,xiangxishuominglezuotianwanshangyebuguisudeyuanyin,bingbiaoshiqianyi。chengnuozairizhihoutiqianxiangtatonggaowoxingji,weicijianshaobubiyaodewuhui。tongguozheizhongjijizhudonggoutongjiaoliu,womenchenggongpojieleyiqiandeqijian,fuqiganqingyezhujianzouxianglediaojie。
5. 聆听和理解:推进沟通交流

zaizhihouderilitou,wodongdelegengweirenzhendilingtingqizidexinsheng。taxiangwomenqingtu,qipanhuodegengduodepeibanyuguanzhu。wozhujianganwudao,tasuozhenaide,yuanyuanbuzhiwodewulicunyou,haizaiyuneiyifenshencengcidelijieyugongmingdian。yiner,wozhuanzhuyushenhuayulaopodegoutongjiaoliu,jiejinquanlididadaotaxiwang。
6. 重视单独,给与彼此之间室内空间
zaishenrugoutongyulijiedeguochengdangzhong,wozhujianyishidao,jiyulaopozugoudeshijianyuzunzhongqizijuexingyouweizhongyao。zheibujinshiduitagerenquanlidekending,yeshiduifuqiguanxizhonggongpingyuhexiedexiangwang。yiner,wodongdelezaixiangchuguochengzhongqiadangdilakaijuli,rangshuangfangdouyouzugoudexiqishineikongjian,jinerranghunyingengjiawengu、zhangjiu。
情感问题免费分析
获导师一对一咨询
移动端官网
扫一扫
解锁更多情感秘籍
现在预约
shoucizixun,mianfeilingqu1ciqingganfenxi
*chengnuoziliaojinyongyuqingganfenxi,yangebaomi
© 2016 huazhen,inc. all rights reserved. huazhenyonghuxieyi
粤公网安备 44010402002416号
zixunrexian: 020-32519581 guangzhouquegeshuzijiankangguanliyouxiangongsi