挽回死心的男友

　　wanhuisixindenanyou，zaiganqingdezhangheli，hunyinjiushizheizuokanqilailaogudanyouchangchangdongdangbuandeqiao。dangliyiyinyingqiaoqiaodilongzhaozhe，henduorendouhuijuedebuzhisuocuo，haoxiangquanqiumorijijiangdaolai。danbiezheji，haopengyou，hunyinjiuxiangyichangmalasongbisai，youshi，dajiaqueshinengxianrupingjing，ganjuepibei，naizhixiangfangqi。keniqingchuma?zhengshizheizhongjuedifengsheng，miaohuilegengjiashenruhebaoguideqingganlianjie。jinri，zuoweiyimingzimeitipingtaiqinggandashi，womenjiangdainiyiqitanxunzheixiewanjiuhunyindeguanjiansuozai，rangwomendeganqingzhizhouzaiciyangfanyuanhang。

　　一、正视问题：婚姻问题的根本原因在哪儿?

　　zuixian，womenyaomingbai，ganqingchuxianwenti，bingfeidanfangmianyiwu。jiuxiangyikeshu，jiarutakaishidiaoxie，neikenengjiushiyinweiturangceng、shuifen、taiyanghuozhebinghaidengzhuduoyaosudezonghezuoyong。hunyinshenghuoyishiruci，taxuyaoai、lejie、zhongshi、goutongyugongtongmubiaolaizirun。

　　goutongbudaowei：shifoudajiahenjiudoumeiyouzuoxia，xinpingqihedeliaoyiliaoduifangdexinshiqingle?

　　shenghuosuosui：shifourichangdeyouyanjiangcu，rangcengjingdereqingbeimoqudeyiganerjing?

　　jingjifudan：shifouzhufangdaikuan、gouchedaikuan、haizijiaoyuhuafei，rangtamenyalizhongzhong，xinshengxianxi?

　　qingxushengshu：shifougongzuomang，huoshigezigerenaihaorangtamenyuelaiyueyuan?

　　xunzhaowentidebenzhi，rutongyiyuanzhenduanfabingyuanyinyiyang，shiwanjiuhunyindediyibu。

　　二、理智思考：你是不是也有“错”?

　　zaihuxiangzhizeyiqian，xianwenziji：“woshibushiyouzuodebugouhaodequyu?”hunyinjiushilianggerenyanchuwutai，bingbushiyigerendedujiaoxi。youshi，dajiabujingyideyixiexingwei，kenengjiuzaiduifangxinlimaixialebumanyidezhongzi。

　　niweimiantaigongzuomangliu，hushileqinqingdewennuan?

　　niweimiantaitaiguoziwohexin，meiyoukaolvbierendeganshou?

　　nishifouzaichaojiashi，huirenbuzhujiangchushangxindehua?

　　nishifouduibicideqiwangzhitaigao，yizhiyurangqi/taganjueyalishanda?

　　fanshengziji，bingfeiweibicicuowuzhaoliyou，gengshiweilegengquanmiandilejiehunyinzhongdewenti，weihouxudewanliuxingweidiandingjichu。

　　三、真诚会话：调整情绪的钥匙

　　wanhuisixindenanyou，danglianggerendoupingjingxialai，bingyuanyimianduikunnanshi，zhenchengdeduitanxiandeyouweizhongyao。jilao，hezuoshijiejuewentigongluqiaoliang，doushidiaozhengqingxudeyaochi。

　　xuanzeyigeheshideshijihedizhi：baozhengdajiadouyouzugoudeshijianyukongjian，keyixinpingqihedegoutongjiaoliu。bubidangzhehaizidemian，huoshizaiqingxujidongdeqingkuangxiataolunlihundeshiqing。

　　lingtingbierendeganshou：jita/tayigejihui，rangqi/taqingtuxinliqiangliebumanhenanguo。bubiqieduan，bubibianbo，jinjinrenzhendeting。youshi，lingtingbishuogengweizhongyao。

　　biaodanideyixiang：gentashuo/ta，nikeyiweilehunyinshenghuozuochudiaozheng，niyaoqinfenwanliuzheifenganqing。rangqi/takanjiannidechengxinheyongqi。

　　yitongxunzhaojiejuefangan：huihuademudebushiweilezhengchaohefenkai，gengshiweilexunzhaowentidebenzhi，binggongtongxunzhaojiejuefangan。jilao，nimenjiushitongban，bingbushiduishou。

　　zhenchengdeduitanhenyoukenengmodadeyongqinaixin，dantajiangshidajiawanjiuhunyindeguanjianyibu。