外遇被老公发现怎么办？外遇的缘故是什么？

zaipouxiwaiyudeqizilunlihoudezhuyaobiaoxianhou，niyaoxiangquwanhui。danyoubuqingchuzenyangzheshou，yexuyifengwanhuidexinnenggourangtahehaoruchu，neigaizenyangzhuanxieni?yuyankeyishuozaiwanhuizhongqizhefeichangdadegongxiao，danbingbushishuoshikedoubixuneimezuo。qiziyouwaiyuzenmeban？waiyubeilaogongfaxianzenmeban？

zaiwanhuiaiqingdequanguochengzhong，jiarulianluobukeyiduiwanliuzaochengxiezhudehua，ningkebubilianluo。youyuyigelianluojiarubukeyikaizhanyigehaodetuidongdehua，neibidingshiyigehuaidetuidong。erfumianxinxituidongyiduo，wanliudenanduxishubianhuitisheng。yiyangde，youyixiehuaduoshuowuyi，bibushangyongxingdonglaibiaoming，fandaonengfanyingniyanxingyizhideyimian。

waiyubeilaogongfaxianzenmeban？zaizheiyiqian，xianxunzhaotawaiyudeyuangu，caikeyijiniduizhengzhiliao，qudechenggongwanhuixifu。

一、妻子出轨后的主要表现

huranliuyiqipinpaixingxianglai。pingpingdandandehunhoushenghuofeichangrongyirangnvxingzhujianbianlan，buxianglianzishenyebuyuanchuanzhedabanyixiazaichumen。jiarutayizhiyilaiquanshiyi“benlaimianmu”yingduirenheren，baohanni，danjinqiquehuranliuyiqizishendejifuyoumeiyousesuban，yanweishifouyouzhouwen，yashifouzugouxuebai，bingzaibiaomianshebeishanghuaxiaolexuduo，bazijizaicinongdexiangnianqingleshisui，nixianbubideyiwangxing，renweitaxiangjiniyanqianyiliang，yaoduokaolvzhouquan，kanyixiatashifouweitarenergenggai。

juhuizengjia。tayizhiyilaiquanshixiaiwozaijiali，xiabanleyeshijinzaojinjiade，danjinduanshijiantabushituocishuoqiyeyouzhutihuodong，jinrilaodongliangdayaojiabanjiadian，yuelezuihaodepengyouyiqijuyiju，bianshilibaitianyizhengtiandoubuzaijia。nisuiyiwenyiwenruheneimeduozhutihuodong，tajiuweiweisuosuo，huoshishifenxiaoxindiguanchanidexiaobiaoqing。nantongbao，zheishihoukeqianwanbieshuhule，nidetayoukenengyijinggenqitananshengyouhuini。

fuqishenghuobujijizhudong，tuituotuiwei。meiyicinixiangtaanshizhedeqingkuangxia，daoshijiandiantayizhimanmantuntun，huoshilijijiashui，naizhiyehuigennijianyifenlishui。youshihoutayehuimeiyicidoutongyini，dannizongshihuijuedetabuxiangguoquneimaxianghupeiheni，naizhixiangzhenijinzaowanbi。weishenmeni?henyoukenengjiushinizaoyibukeyikaolvtale，tazaoyiconglingyigenanrenneibianganshoudaogenggaodereqing。

二、妻子出轨的缘故

yaliguoda。meirigongzuodaoshizaochuwangui，fanhuijiazhongyeyaozhaoliaoxiaohaihezuofan，zhangfudoububangzhu，zhangqixingzaineiyangdegongzuoyalixiarichangshenghuozaisuonanmianyaoxiangchulaizhaoxunjieyadefangfa。

neixinkumenhegudu。nvxinghunhou，nanshengmangliugongzuozhongchangchangyougongchuhejiaoji，erzishenzaihunhouyebukeyisantianliangwudihezishendehaoguimijiemeimenyiqijuhuihuodongxiuxianyulele，gongzuozhiyudeshijianjuedaduoshuquanshizishenyigerenzaijialidaizaijiali，fufulianggerenjiaowangjiaoxindeshijianyemanmanjiangdile，nvxingzhangqixingyingduineiyangdeziranhuanjing，neixinhuizaochengkumenhegudugan。

qianqueguanzhuheaixi。juedaduoshudenvxingzaihunqiannayigebingbushijiazhongdexiaogongzhu，erzidahunhou，jiudengtongyuxueqilejiatingbaomu，guanqian、guangongzuozhong、daguanjia、guanxiaohai，yeyouguanzhangfu，youlidaowaizhenshibianshiyigenvchaoren，wanshijubei。shijishangnvxingzaitourulezheimeduo，wulunzaishenglixueshanghuanshizaixinlizhuangtaishang，quanshibixulaogongguanzhuheaixide。ruguonvrenzhangqixingneiyangditouruquemeiyouhuodeganenhuikui，neimayehuifeichangrongyishiganqingzhangqiwufadedaoziyangyehuiwaiyu。

shenpangyouguoduodeyinyou。nvxinglveweiyouyidianfengzi，zaizaijiashangshenpangyouhenduoyixingpengyouchupengdao，neimazaoshoudeyinyouyejiudadazengjia，zaiyixiezhuangkuangxiananshengdezhuyaobiaoxianjiangdi，neimabianhuijinanshengchenxuerrudejiyule，yinci nvrenyizhaojiabuzhujiufeichangrongyichuguile。

三、怎样撰写挽回媳妇的信

renkezishendecunzaidebuzu。zaixinzhongxianxiechengzishendecunzaidebuzu，wubirenkeshizishendenanti，bunenggouzeguaita。youyujiarujiangquanbudenantidouguiyinyutadeshenshangdehua，zongshizaochengtadedichuxintai。weilegenghaodijiangdifenqidian，niyinggaiyaodanfuqiquanbudeyiwu。shijishang，zuoweinansheng，nidequebixumingbaifuzeren。xiezheizhongneironghaikeyifanyingnishiyigeyongyudandangderen。qici，nixuyaojiangzishendewentifenxihao，wangdianliejuzheizhongnanti，rangtajiandaonizhenshilejiedaobenshendebuzhengque。

xushuzishenxiajuexingenggaibingjiyuxiangxidejihuafangan。ranhou，nixuyaoxiechuzishenzaoyixiajuexingenggai。ninengxushuzishenweihebixugenggai，genggaidelaiyuanyujiqiqudongli。yihou，nixuyaodechuyifenxiangjindegenggaijihuafangan。nijiangjihuafanganxushudeyuejingzhunyuehao。yuejingzhunnidegengxingaizaocaikeyiyoushijixiaoguo，zheiyeranglingyifangjiandaoniderenzhen。zuihaoshijiushijidaonageshijiandianbixuzuoyixieshenmeshiqing，zuodaonaxiedeshijixiaoguo。yeyoubianshibixupeishangchengfacuoshi，yejiushi，wanyijinxingbushang，bianhuiyouruhedechufa。zheigengnengbiaomingnidexinxin。

xushuyitongdemeihaojiyi。xieyixiedajiayiqijingliguode、yinxiangshenkedeshier。huanqitaxinliaizhenide、shebudedeyimian。jiangneishihoudejuqingxushudeyuexiangxiyuehao，zuihaoshinenggoujiangneishihoudeqingxu、xiaobiaoqing、zishihechangshuoguodehuadengguanjiandiandouxiechuqu。

四、提高诱惑力

qiziyouwaiyuzenmeban?chukaijixinyiwai，haibixuzuochushentilixing。danglingyifangfajueniyanxingyizhishi，gengjuedenishiyigekaopukexinlaideren。

waizaipinpaixingxiang：“quanbudexiaidoushiyibeixiyinzhuzhujiande。”yinci waiguanshejidegengxingaizaoshiwubibaozhengde。zhenduinanshenglaijiang，zuihaoshidepinpaixingxiangzhanxianbianshizhengjietaiyang，bingbingbushimeiyigerendouyouzheshuaiqibirenderongmaohebakuaifujideshenxing，danzuishaoyaojirenfenfaxiangshang、zhongshikekaodejuede。

benzhihanyang：yigenanrenfengfuduocaidebenzhi、qianxundexintai、kuankuodexionghuaiquanshirangnvxingqinlaidezichan，pengmianshixuehaozhengqueyindaotanxintanhuaneirong，dandanshiduo3dxuanranzishendezaojiuheyiwang，rangnvxinghaiyoujihuibiaoshuzishen，zheizhongquanshinenggoufanyingnanshifengcaidediqu。

lianaidengji：kandaonvshishijiaolvbuandaoshuobuchuhua，huoshihuabutoujibanjuduo，zheizhongdoushihuitingzhicicidexianliao。qingganbuchenggongshijishangyeyiweizhezhelianaidengjidi。genjuluojixingdexuexipeixunyuzaiyurenxiangchuchuzhongdaodegongzuojingyan，nenggoujinigengweimingbaizenyangyuyixingpengyoujiaowang。

genjuduiwaiyudeqizilunlidezhuyaobiaoxianpouxi，niyemingbailezenyangzhuanxiewanhuixifudexin。dangnvxingduihunyinshenghuobumanyiertiaoxuanwaiyushi，tagengfeichangrongyixianjinlai。zaizheileizhuangkuangxia，laogongyingdangzhanxianchuzishendegaoshiyongjiazhi，rangtaganshoudaozainipangbiandejingcaifencheng，bianhuigengweiyuelaiyueaini。ciwai，shidudeyixingpengyoucijixingyekeyirangtagengweixintengni。aishizerenheyizhi，shizuinengmingquezishennenggouweizheiyiduanqingganchengdanzerendeqingkuangxiacaizhujiancunyoude，erbujinshiyizhongjuede。zhengqueduidaibenshendeyiwu，bingtishengzijidelianaidengjihelingzhegongzuonengli，rangtaxiangyouzheiyiduanhunyinshenghuochanshengdexingfukuaile，dajiadeguanliancaikeyizhangqi。