老是怀疑老婆有外遇怎么办？该不该调查

laoshihuaiyilaopoyouwaiyuzenmeban？shanghaihunyinwaiyudiaochalaopochuguile，zhenduinanshengeryan，shijiweishangmianbudeyijianshi，zheibudanbiaominghunyinshenghuochuxianlenanti，gengbiaomingzishenmeiyougongzuonengliquzhengqueyindaotaxiangshourensheng。naonuyeba，nanguoyehao，xintaishangdebuwendingfeichangrongyirangzhangfuzuochubulizhideshierlai，danjiaruzhenxinshiyiyaoxiangwanliu，tiyixianpingjingxialai，caikeyinenggougenghaodixiezhunilaizuozhengquedeshi。nvrenwaiyudiaocha，zhangfuzenmezuo？

一、外遇恶性事件被发觉后，置放一下再解决

shanghaihunyinwaiyudiaocha，waiyuchucibeigaofashi，fufubicihuizaixintaishangzaochengjudadeqifu，tongchangzhuyaobiaoxianchuxingfen，naonu，cankui，xiaochen，kuijiuhuozhekuijiu。zheizhongxintai，tongchanghuizaiduanduandeyitiandeshijianli，zhouerfushidichuxian。yifenzhongqianhaichengnuoyaowanbizheiyiduanhunyinshenghuo，henyoukenengyifenzhongzhihouyoujielidiyaoxiangwanliu。zheigeshihou，youqianrushenjiukanqilaizhiguanzhongyaole。jixianghuyiduanshijian，nenggougenjuxiangqinpenghaoyouqingtudengfangshixianjianqingzishendexintai。

二、挽回婚姻，恢复感情

nvrenwaiyudiaocha，cong“waiyuexingshijian”zhongxiufu，shiyigejianxineryouyouzhangdequanguocheng。keshi，zhengjiuzheiyiduanqingganyebingbushibutaikeneng。anxialiehaoduogeliuchengxingdong，nenggoujiasu“chuangkou”dequanyu：

zuixian，ganyudanfu。waiyubudanshilingyifangdebuzhengque，niyeyouyidingdeyiwu。yinci ，yichengzhidexintaiquhelingyifanggoutongjiaoliu，nenggourangdajiadeguanlianjinzaohuodehuifu。

qici，kuanronglingyifang。waiyu，tongchanghuizaochengshoushangdeyifangqingxushikong。yinci ，yaoxiangzaiduanqineineihuodekuanrongbushishijide，keshibansuizheshijiandeliushi，huodeyuanlianghuiyuelaiyuefeichangrongyixie。

ciwai，kaolvdaodajiayitongdeqidaizhi。zheihenyoukenengbixuhuaxiaoyixieshijian，quzhengliyiwangchanshengdeshijiqikaolvdaofuhexingdegailv。jiaruzuihoushuangfangdouyuanyidiaojie，niyeyingdangyaogaoqingchu，xiufudequanguochengshibixuzijintourushijianyeyouhuolide。

zuizhong，fujianxinlai。dajianenggouyiqiquzhaozixunguwen，jiandingbuyixianghuduihunyinshenghuodefuwuchengnuo，fangzhifenbiedezheixiemimi，zaishuofushidajiadeguanlian。qizichugui，zaigaijinxianghuguanliandequanguochengzhong，henyoukenenghuiyouyuxinlidekuijiuganeryuelaiyuexinshenbuning，zheishihou，nixuyaozuodeshitiaoxuanqujianxinta，jitaguishugan。

三、憧憬未来

bingbushiquanbuzaoshouwaiyuweihaidehunyinshenghuo，doukeyihuoshiyingdangbeiwanliu。youshi，youyuchuangkouguoshen，zaoyidaonanyiwanliudechengdu。shubuzhi，jiaruliangrendounengjiejinquanlidizijintourudaoguanliandefujian，youxinxin，youyili，tourudeqinfenbianhuihuodeshouyi，dajiadeqingganyeyinerhuodeletisheng。

laoshihuaiyilaopoyouwaiyuzenmeban？qizichuguiruhewanhui?jiarunizhenxinshiyiyaoxianglingyifangpeizainishenbian，neimeniyaozuodeshisikaobenshendenanti，jiaqianggoutong，bingzuochugenggai。danglingyifangduidajiadejianglaizaicimanhuaixinxinheqidaideqingkuangxia，wanliuqudechenggongyejiujinzaiyanqian。