恋爱结婚出现了第三者现象，怎么对付

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最先，你需要让第三者对自身的个人行为有一定的自我反思

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nvxingzenyangyongshanjierenyihegangzhengbuajikuidisanzhe-yingduidisanzhedefangshi

次之，晓之以理，以理服人，让第三者知所行止

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