那么恋爱结婚出现了第三者现象，怎么对付

 henduonianqianhaibushixing“disanzhe”zheigeci，neishizhenduijihunxiaohuodehunneichuguimubiao，dajiachengzuo“lianren”，“disanzhe”，“ernai”zheixie。chuguinanrenzuisiwujidandejieduandangshuminguoshiqiyiqian，fengjianshehuixiade“yifuduoqi”zhi，jinguanneishihouyouzhengqiheceshi，qiheqiezhifen，keshishishishangshijiang“disanzhe”hefale。aishishenmenijiushehuidenvxingmeishenmeyingxiangliheliyiketan。zidatuixing“yifuyiqi”zhizhijin，lianaijiehunnvxingmendehunyinshenghuozhipeiquanhuodelejudadequebao，keshi“disanzhe”zheiyichuangruzheyiranshikeweixiezhehunyinshenghuoyujiating。

 zuoweixinshiqidenvshi，juyouzhichangzhongdeganjinglisuo，hunyinshenghuozhongdexianhui，youzhelianglidebiaomian，haiwubiyouyizhongweijiyishi，yejiushishuoweijiyishi，youyuhunyinshenghuoshiyixiangfengtou，bukeyibatabianweizishendesuoyou。disanzhechuxian，yibancikedajiarichangshenghuopingwen，yongyouxiaohai，juyouyidingdejingjihechuruzhichangyingxiangli，hegonggongpopozhongjianyefeichanglejiele。jiaruniduixianjieduandejiazhonglingrenmanyi，xiangweihubaoyangjiazhongdequanyi，lahuilaogongdexin，jiubixuyingyongzishendeconghuichaikaidisanzhe，caikeyitongdisanzhehudou，neima，zenyangchenggongdejibaidisanzheni?

zenyangchenggongjibaidisanzhe-yingduidisanzhedefangshi

 juedaduoshuchuguinanrenjinjinyishideguannianzoupian，tamenbingbingbushiqueshiyaoxiangbeipanhunyin，shubuzhi，zishendelaogonggenqitanvxingzaiyiqi，dangranneixinburongyishushi。disanzhewangwangneiyangchangkuang，shiyouyutazhangzheyoulenidelaogongjitachengzhe。nifahuoshiwukebimiande，keshidaliangdeshiyaolizhijiejue，zheishitangruoluanlezhenjiao，jiandanzhijie，fandaozheledisanzhededao，balaogongyinxianglingyifanghuaili，neimaruheyingduichangkuangdedisanzhe?

1.知彼知己，百战百胜

 zaimeiyoubazhuangkuangmoqingchuyiqian，xianbubigenlaogongtiaoming，andilidatingyixiadisanzheshishenmeyangderen，lianaijiehunnimendehaohuaizhichu，youmuyouzishenfeichangzhidexiaofangdediqu。disanzhejinguanshidahuoeryanlide“huyao”，keshitajiushinizhangfukanzhongde，dangranyounayidiannengxiyinzhuta，neima，jiaruniyekeyibaozheng，zhuangkuanghuigenghao。disanzhedaduoshushibininianqingdenvhai，zheileinvhaiergaoaozida，ziyiweishinenggouyunijiaofeng，tidainidebuwei，tamenyaobushiweiqianquan，yaobushiweizhenzhengdeaiqing，danjixingdeguanlianshijianbukeguangde。nizuoweishunlichengzhangdelaopo，yingdangzaizheicijiaofengzhongyouzixin。

 hebuxianwanjiulaogongdeqingmian，duliyuedisanzhechuqutanyitan，yinikendingdeqichang、wanshan、fengfan“zhanya”ta，rangtajiandaozishendehaiziqiyumei，quanzidongchechu。fangzhicaiyongjiduanhuaduice，biruchangchangzaixinwenbaodaoshangjiandaozhengshibaodadisanzhe，neiyangjiduandexingweibingbukeyizhidisanzhe，fandaojinidelaogongjiandaoniwuebuzuodeedu，tahaigangennizaiyiqima?cikedisanzhezaipaoqusugeku、sagejiao，jiugengjinzhualenansheng。

2.始终永不放弃运营自身

 jiehunhoudenvxingyidingjuebunengfangqikongzhiziji，yidingbubibazijiderongyan、shenxing、qichangsuoyouhaofeizaijiazhongzhong，youyutashiyizhongziwohuimie。dangyouyitian，nidenanrenbeiqitanvxingxiyinzhuerqu，nizuishaoyingdangyouzichanbataqianghuijia。biru：niyenenggoumeirichuanzhedabandemeilidafang，genlaogongzhongjianweichidiancengcigan，shitagangkaishihaoqixin，gangkaishiduiniguanxindaliang，wuxingzhizhongjiushengshuledisanzhe。jiarujiniyifengongzuozhong，neimejiugengqiangle，jingjifazhandedandujinizishizhizhongyouzixin，youqudongli

3.给你一大帮亲朋好友队，而第三者唯有你老公一人

 zuoweitadelaopo，nideyoushibidisanzheduoxuduo ，nigenlaogongzhongjiandexiaohaijiushiniliangdeganqingqiaoliang，nidegongpo，jiarujiaowangfeichanghao，huishikezhaoliaoni，shoushehuiyulun，tamenburongyirongxuzishendedaerziwaiyu，aishishenmeniqinqipengyounenggoushikexiezhuniyuweijidangzhong。zheizhongshuyunidejiarenjinpai，yaoshiyunyonghao，nenggoujinanshengshifangyidingdegongzuoyali。