究竟恋爱结婚出现了第三者现象，怎么对付

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1、提高自己。

 conglidaowaideshifangfengcaidenvrenshilingrennanyikangjude，nanshengliuliandisanzheyidingyouzheiyiyuangu。jiuneibufengcailaijiang，nvxingyaoshiyiqiexiangyaokaigedian，duokanshu，jinanshengyizhongyuqingguzongdejuede，rangnanshengzhuomobutou，yibancikenanshenghuiganjuezheiyinvxingyoudianerweier，henyazhi。waizaijiugengweiguanjianle，nanrenyishengzhuiqiuwanmeimoguocaihese，nvxingdeyibiaomeizainanshenglaikanyeshihenzhongyaode。yizhedabanzheixiefangmianbuzhuiqiushihenchangkuang，mao，zhiqiurangnanshengkanguoganjuehenshufu，biebuzhengyan。chucizhiwai，nvxingyidingyaoliuyiweihubaoyang，duoshaonianlingdenanshengdouxiainianqingpiaoliangdenvxing，yinci dangnvrenbiwaibiandedisanzhegenghaokangengnianqingdeshihou，nanshengshunlichengzhangyejiuzhongguizishendeshouzhangxinle。

2、把握住男生。

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3、赶跑第三者。

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 congbenshen、disanzhe、zhangfuzishensangecengmianlaijibaidisanzheshizaihaobuguodele，aishishenmenixiangduilaishuojiaoweiquanfangwei，jushiyekeyifeichanghaodebeicaokong。