婚后发现老公有外遇该怎么处理，男人有外遇如何处理

ruguoyifangzaihunyinzhongyouwaiyu，nixuyaoshoujixiangguanzhengju，nixuyaoshoujixiangguanzhengjuzhengmingtayouwaiyu，guocuozaiyuta，zheiyangdangfuqifenxiangshi，nijiukeyixiangniqingxie。ruhechulizhangfudewaiyu？nanrenyouwaiyuruhechuli？

一、妥善处理自己的情绪

yidanquerenzhangfuyouwaiyu，zhengchangrenjiuhuichanshengfennu、xiuru、cuozhe、jiaolv、weiqudengxiaojiqingxu。zheixieqingxudechuxianyusuofashengdeshijianxiangduiyingshizhengchangde。

yinci，womendediyibushijieshouzijideqingxu。zaiwodezixunjingyanzhong，xuduoqizianweiziji，yibianzaizheigeshihoujixuzhandou：“wobunanguo，wobushengqi，woshiyigelixingderen”。

jieguo，gengduodefennu、xiuru、cuozhe、jiaolvheweiqudejilei，yijizaimianduizhangfuhehunwaiqingshiquefalixinghezhihui。dierbushiyouyigeanquandeqingxushifang。liru，nikeyihenizuihaodepengyoutanlunnidehuaixinqing，huozhexierijibaoyuan，huozhedanizhangfudezhentou。

二、三个月内不要做任何大的决定

sangeyueshiyigejixingxinlichuangshangshiqi，nizaizheigejieduansuozuoderenhejuedingdoukenengshiyigeqingxuhuadejueding。zheigejuedingbushiweilechuliwenti，ershiweilechuliqingxu。zaizheigejieduan，nikeyizanshibimianwenti，huidaonimuqindejialiyiduanshijian，huozhelvxing。shouxianweinideqingxuhexinlingtengchukongjian。

三、为自己做决定

shiqingyijingfashengle。nixianzaizhiyouliangzhongxuanze：

lihun：ruguonixiangbaochiniduimeizhuyideaiqingguan，chengweiyigewanmeizhuyizhe，yongyuanbuyaorangzijihuobierenzaihunyinzhongfancuowu，neijiuxuanzelihun。

meiyouduicuozhifen。niwanquanyouzigehequanlixuanzenixiangyaodeshenghuofangshihehunyinzhuangkuang。raner，nihuigengjianuligongzuo。duinidezhangfuheguanxidekekekenenghuidaozhiweilaiguanxizhongchuxianleisidewenti。nanrenyouwaiyuruhechuli？

jieshou：jieshounidezhangfuqueshiyouwaiyu。jieshouzheizhishiduinihunyindetiaozhan。jizijiyigefansidejihui，jizijiyigechengzhangdejihui.

四、和老公摊牌

ruguonijinglileyishangsangebuzhou。nikeyixuanzeyigeshijianhedidianhenidezhangfuhaohaotantanzheijianshi。shijianjianyibuyaozaibaitian，renmendeqingxuzaibaitiantiaoyue。jianyibuyaodaizaijiali，yinweizaijialihenrongyichumofengjingheqinggan，daozhiqingganjiaoliu。zuihaoshiwanshangzaiwaimiandechaguanli。

gaosunizhangfunidejueding。ruguonidejuedingshilihun，nibixutongguofalvchengxu。ruguonidejuedingbeijieshou，woxiwangjixuzheiduanhunyin。neimewentishi“nimengongtongdewenti”，xuyaogongtongmiandui。

五、让丈夫处理好自己和第三方的关系

zuiwendingdeguanxishisanjiaoguanxi。niyouwaiyudeyuanyinshinihenizhangfudeguanxibupingheng。weilebimiangengexingdejieguo，ruchongdong、baolihuolihun，nixuanzelingyigerenzuoweiguanxidepinghengdian。

ruguonixianzaijuanrunizhangfuhedisanfangzhijiandeguanxi，zheijiangjiaqiangsanjiaoguanxidewending。yinci，zaizheigeshihou，nimengongtongmianduideshi，nimenxinren、zhichinimendezhangfu，binghuashijianyudisanfangdajiaodao，erbushizhijieganyu、lianxihuotanpan。

六、注意事项

shandaiziji：buyaozairenhejieduanshanghaiziji。nideshenghuobujinjinshinidezhangfu，haiyounidehaizi、fumu、qinqihepengyou。shenghuozhongbujinyouhunyin，haiyougongzuoheqitayouyiyideshiqing。zhiyouzhaoguhaonideqingxuheshenti，nicainengyouliliangjixuzuojuedingheqianjin。

bimian“jijituidongwaiyu”：zaiwodezixunjingyanzhong，chaoguo50%dehunwaiqingzhengjushiyouwodeqizishoujide：tonghuajilu、duanxin、wangluojiludeng。fengheyingzi，caoheshudoushishibing。

zheiyijudongqinfanletarendeyinsi，rangzhangfugandaobuxinren、yaliheqiwangxiaoying。haoba，jirannixiangzheiyangzuo，wojiurangnimanyi！zuihou，cujinhunwaiqingdeshixian！

nanrenyouwaiyuruhechuli？zhuyimanzuzhangfudexinlixuqiu：nanrenzaihunyinzhongdexuqiu，ruziyouhuxi、zunzhong、xinshang、chongbai、xingxuqiu，zhudongmanzuqizidexuqiu，zaihendachengdushangbaochifuqiguanxidepingheng，bimiandisanfangdeganyu。