挽回男人的心，挽回男人最好的技巧

wanhuinanrenzuihaodejiqiao，xuduonvhaicuowudirenweinanrenshiwuqingde。yidantamenfenshou，tamenzhendewufawanhui。fenshoushi，duifangfeichangwuqing，shenzhibuyuanyijinifenshoudezhenzhengliyou。niyinyuezhidaonimenzhijianyidingyoushenmewenti。niyuanyizuodianshenmelaijiuta。

dantadehuayuheyuqishirucilengkuwuqing，nandaozaitaxinlizhendemeiyouganqingma？

dangranbushi，zhishitazaizheiduanganqingzhongtaileile。nanrenyeshiren，yehuiyouqingxu。

wojianguohenduonvhaizuolehenduowuyongdegongzuolaizhengjiutamenxinaidenanren。liru，tamenfengkuangdijiyigenanrenfaxinxi，qingtadeqinqipengyoubangzhutadiaojie，fangqitadejiaoaoheqianxun，yaoqiuduifanghuitou。

danzheizhongfengkuangdemilianbingmeiyoudailaihaodejieju。lingyifangpingbilesuoyoulianxixinxi，shenzhibunengchengweipengyou。

ruguonixiangzhengjiuyigelengmoderen，nibixuzunzhongtadexiangfaheyiyuan，zhaodaofenshouwentidegenyuan，ranhougenjujutiqingkuangcaiquxingdong，erbushiqiangpoduifanghenizaiyiqi。

suoyi，zenyangcainengshixiankuaisufuheni？zheixuyaoyixiejiqiao。

一、找到分手的根源

fenshouyibanyoulianggeyuanyin：

1：tamenzijideqingganyuanyin；ruguonimenzhijianmeiyoujiliedezhengchaoheyanzhongdechugui，nimenzhijianrengranyouyixieqingganjichu。renyurenzhijiandejiaoliushiweilebiaodaganqing。

fenshoubingbunengmoquguoqudeyiqie。yinci，nikeyizaitamianqiantidaogengduoguanyuaiqingdemeihaoshiguang。nimenyiqizuodekuailedeshiqingrangtahuiyiqizuichudemeili。zaiwenshuizhongzhuqingwadefuhefangfatongchanggengrongyibeinanrenjieshou。

2：waibuxianshiyuanyin；henduoshihou，yiduixiangaidefufufenshoubushiyinweitamendeganqingyouwenti，ershiyinweishijiyuanyin。liru，fumubutongyiyidilian。

ruguozheixiewentidebudaojiejue，nideaijiangyongyuanlongzhaozaiyinyingzhizhong。kongpayifanghuiyiciweijiekoulikai。duiyuzheizhongfenshou，zaifuheshi，womenbixutichuyigejutikexingdefangfalaijiejuewenti，zheiyangwomenjiubuyongdanxinle。

二、认清当前关系，找到联系渠道

1.ouerhuifuxiaoxi，womenhaishipengyou

“fenshouhouhainengzuopengyouma？”zheishiyigezaiqingganwendazhongchijiudewenti。fenshouhouchengweipengyoushiyigefeichangmingandehuati。youxienvhaihuirenweitameiyoulesuowo，shenzhimeiyouhuifuwodexinxi。

zheishifouyiweizhetarengranduiwoyouganqing？shishishang，lingyifangkenenghuibanidangzuobeitai。mianduizheigefuzadeduixiang，wobujianyinizaiweizhideguanxizhongyanzhangzhanxian，xiaohaozijihenzhangshijian。ruyoubiyao，womenkeyijijicujinzheizhongguanxi。

2.wudongyuzhong，buhuirenhexiaoxi，womenshizuishuxidemoshengren。

weixinqqdianhuameiyoubeishanchu，danmeiyitiaoxinxidouchenrudahai。henshaoyourenzaifenshouhoushoudaolengyu。duiyuzheiyangyigeren，shouxian，womenxuyaojifatagoutongdeyuwang。ruguotabuhuiying，bujiaoliu，suizheshijiandetuiyi，tahuixiguanzheizhongshenghuo，nimenzhijiandefuhehuihenyaoyuan。

mianduizheiyangyigenanren，wulunnifenshouhoushuoshenmedoubuhuifu，jixuxunqiuhepingshimeiyouyongde。nikeyizaifenshouhoushiqucuiruodeqingxu，zhaodaotaganxingqudehuati，guyibiaodayutabutongdeguandian，bingyindaotazhudongjiuzhengni。tongguozheigeguocheng，nikeyizaiyiqiandejiaoliuzhongzhanxianchubutongdegexingmeili。

3.qingkuangbuhao，beiheile，wodeshijieduinibukaifang。

wanhuinanrenzuihaodejiqiao，duifanglesuoni，jujueyunigoutong，yejiushishuo，nishiqulegaishanguanxidelianxiqudao。danqingkuangbingmeiyouneimezaogao。talesuoni，zheizhishibiaomingnidehuayehuiyingxiangtadeqingxu。

niyinggaibimianhongzha。jishininengzhaodaolianxifangshi，yebuyaofasongfengkuangdexinxi。talesuoni，zheiyiweizhetabuxihuanzheizhongfangshi。nikeyizuihoulianxitayici。buyaojiyutianjialianxixinxi，jitaliuxiayigebuhuijiuchanbuqingdehaoyinxiang。

dengdaoshijiankuaidaole，zaizhaoyigehefadeliyoujiahuilianxifangshi。

ruhetianjialianxixinxi？zheixuyaogenjunindexijielaishixian

yourenshuo，jirantazheimehenwo，bawolaheile，duanlelianxi，woyinggaidengyihuierma？duifanglengjingxialai，lengjingxialai，ranhouwoquzhaotafuhe。danbiewangle，shijiankeyirangchouhenxiaoshi，yekeyirangaixiaoshi。dangnixiaoshibingduankailianjieshi，lingyifangkenengyijingkaishilexindeshenghuo。

yourenshuo：“renyurenzhijiandeguanxi，xuyaofuchuganqingheshijian。”renmendeganqingbushiyichengbubiande。ruguonizhangshijianbulianxi，nideganjuejiuhuibiandemosheng。fenshousantiandeqinglvbibijieshi，fenshousanniandeqinglvhenshao。fenshouheduankaideshijianyuezhang，lianggerenfuhejiuyuekunnan。

ruguonidefenshoubushiyinweiyixieyanzhongdeyuanzexingwenti，nikeyigenjuduifangdexinlixuqiuhexinggeruodiancaiquyixiejiqiaolaibangzhunifuhe。

三、采取行动，有效恢复

tingdaofenshouhou，meigenvhaidouhuixiayishidiwenfenshoudeyuanyin，quewanglefansizijizaiaiqingzhongdebiaoxian。

nifuchulehenduo，danduifangganjuebudaonideai。tamenbuganjinidenuli，zhigandaoyayihetongku。renyurenzhijiandeguanxishiyizhongshenkedezhishi。duidaiairenheputongpengyoudefangshishibutongde。nicongxiaojiuhenshouhuanying。jiejiaohenduopengyoubingbuyiweizhenizhidaoruhezhuiruaihe，ruherangnideairenhenizijikuaile。

yaorangduifanghuitou，keyicongyixiajidiankaishifenxi：

diyibu:lejieduifangdexinlixuqiu，tigongzugoudeqingganjiazhi

womenzhuiruaiheshiweilexingfu，erbushiweiletongku。shuangfangfenshouyidingshiyinweiyifangjuedezheiduanguanximeiyoujitazugoudexingfu。zaizheigeshihou，zuizhongyaodeshirangtazhidaoniguanxintadeqingxu，xiwangtanengzaiaiqingzhongkuaile，bingyuanyiweitagaibian。

dierbu:zhenduixinggeruodian，duizhengxiayao

wanhuinanrenzuihaodejiqiao，zaizheigeshijieshang，meigerendexinggedoushifeichangbutongde，tamendouyouzijidexinggeruodian。mianduibutongxinggederen，womencaiqubutongdehuifufangshi。ruguoduifangruanruoeryouyubujue，womenxuyaogengjijidicujinguanxi，shenzhijitashijiayali。mianduiqiangyingderen，guoyujijihuishideqifan，daozhichongtu。