拉黑删除也不怕，男人拉黑了多久可以复合

 nanrenlaheileduojiukeyifuhe？zaihuifudechuqi，huifushifeichangkunnande。cishidelianggeren，ganqingjiuxiangjinrulesihutong，nizenmeshuotadoubulihui，nizenmezuodoushicuode。

究竟是什么原因？

yinweiyouxienvshengjibendoushiweilewanhuiganqing“zuo”si。

 xiaokajiushizheiyangyigenvhai。mianduifenshou，tayikaishibutingdijinanyoufaweixin。jieguoqianrenbuyuanyi，suoyihuifubijiaofuyan，huozhegancuibuhuifu。

jieguoxiaokazhijiechongdaonanhaimianqianyaoshuo，nanhaibijilejiuduozheta。xiaokabudanmeiyoushoulian，haijixuzhuinanhaidanweizhaota。

zuihou，nanhairenwukeren，zhijielaheixiaokasuoyoujiadesuoyoulianxifangshi。

zheixiaxiaokadanshihenduoshihou，womenjiuxiangxiaokatongyang，mianduifenshou，zongshixiangjinyiqiebanfarangnanyouhuixinzhuanyi。

danshizheiyangzuodecishuyueduo，nanhaijiuhuiyuejuedenitaipianzhi，bujiangli。yeyoukenengchanshengnifanxinli。

 erqie，buguanzheixienanshengduinvshengzuochushenmegaiguozixindechengnuo，nanshenghaishihuijuedenizheiyangzuoshiweilewanhuiganqing，erbushifazineixindiyishidaozijidewenti。

 yinci，zhengjiuaiqing，bunengzhishirangduifangzhidaoniyouduoaita。danyaorangduifangzhidao，zainimenfenkaiderizili，nimenbiandeyuelaiyuehao。

ruheliyongxinlizhanchedizhengjiuyigenanren，rangtazhudonghenifuhe？

01、全面改变，重建自我价值

 yinweixiaokazhiqiandejiuchanxingweirangqianrenfeichangyane，suoyidiyibubixushouxianshifangyali，zheiyangnanrendeyalijiukeyizhuanyi，buyaolianxiqianren，ranglianggerenduankaiyiduanshijian。

zheiduanshijian，weixiaokatebieanpailexingxiangshejishi，weixiaokazhengtixingxiangsheji，baokuofaxing、chuanyifengge、zhuangrongdeng。

 gaizaozhihoudexiaoka，yuyiqianxiangbi，bujinbiandemeilijingzhi，zhenggerenkanqilaiyehenyouqizhi。nanrenlaheileduojiukeyifuhe？

 yucitongshi，yaoqiutaduocanjiahuwaihuodong，canjiayixiepengyoujuhui，shidangfasongyixieguanyuchongwu、yundong、jianshen、yuedudengfengfushenghuodepengyouquan。

yinweibeiheile，qianrenkanbudaoxiaokadanzheiliyouyigeguanjianlianjie——gongtonghaoyou。

zaizheigeguochengzhong，tongguolianghaodegongtongpengyoujinxingshidangdegoutongxiaokagaibian，danjuekoubutifuheci。

 wozhixuyaoshidangditantanzuijindefaxianxiaokabianhuahenda，shenghuofengfu，zhenggerenyehenjiji，zhiyaorangqianrenzhidaoxiaokayinqitahaoqixindebianhuajiukeyile。

fenshouhouwomenyaoyonggandimiandui，ruguoshizhongbaochihuibidetaidu，zhihuishihuifudenanduyuelaiyueda。

 jiarunibuxiangrangzheiduanfuchudeganqingjiaranerzhi，nijiuyaoyongyuzhengshizijidequedian，gaizhengquedian，zhongxinxiyinta，huanqitadeai。

02、利用朋友关系重构舒适链接

zaidezhidaoxia，yonglelianggexingqi，xiaokawanchenglezaoqidebianhuahepengyouquandezhanshi。

xiayibujiushizhongjianyupengyouguanxidelianxi，zheishiyigefeichangguanjiandejieduan，xuyaoyigehelidefangshiyuqianrenzhongxinlianxi。

 zailianaiqijian，tamenyouyigefeichangzhongyaodelianxi。tamenyiqiyangleyizhijianjindemao。tamenhaijitaqulegemingzijiaoxiaopiao。rangxiaokayixiaopiaoshengbingweiyou，jiduifangfaleyitiaoxinxi，huanjielebicidejiangju。

 zaitandaoxiaopiaozhihou，tazhongduanleduihua。mudeshixiangtadeqianrenchuandayigexinhao，biaomingtabuzaijiuchanzaiyiqi，zheiyangtajiukeyifangsongjingtiweiyihoudefazhanliuxiahuifudekongjian。

03、巧用聊天技巧，让他堕落

 tianjialianxifangshihou，tongguopengyouquandehudonghexiaopiaodeshiqing，liangrenzhujiankaishiliaotian。gaosuwoxiaokazheigeshihouliaotianyidingyaozhuyiliangdian：

bimianqingxuwentiheminganhuati

 bimiantijiganqing，henrongyizaicixianrugangadejingdi。bijingganqingzoudaolejintou，shuominghaishiyouhenduobuhaodedifang，zhongjianganqingdeshihoubunengtijiguoqu。

04、保持距离感

 gaibianhoudexiaoka，rangqianrenjuedetaheyiqianhenbuyiyang，duitaxianzaidezhuangtaihenhaoqi。nanrenzongshixihuanbuduanditansuo，yicijiunengdedaojieguo，henrongyishiquxingqu。

 nanrenlaheileduojiukeyifuhe？yinci，zailiaotianzhong，yaobaochijuliganheshenmigan，liaotianyaodiandaojizhi，yiciliaotianbujinxingjiuhuiqidaixiaciliaotian。