刚被分手如何挽回女友

　　gangbeifenshouruhewanhuinvyou，fenshouzhihoudeni，shifouchafanbusi，juedezhenggeshijiebenghuaile?congqiandeshengsiqikuo、tianmeiqinwen，xianzaiquejinshenglengbingbingde“dajiafenshouba”。buyaohuixin，gemen!jintianjiurangwo——nideqinggandashi，jidajiazhiwuzhao，shoubashoujiaoniwanhuineiyigezaoyisilexindenvpengyou!

　　一、认清现实，接纳分手

　　zuixian，niyaomingbaiyigedaoli：wanhuibingbushikaoyikuernaosanshangdiao，gengbingbushikaosipilailian、xinxihongzha。zheiyangzhihuilingtagengweidichuni，juedenishigebugouchengshu、buzhiyikaodenansheng。yinci，diyibu，niyaozuodejiushirenqingxianshi，jienafenshouzheigexianshi。

　　meiyoucuo，womingbaizheihennan。danniyaoqingchu，zhiyouxianjieshoufenshou，nicainengzaizheiyiduanganqingnitanzhongquanshenertuichuqu，yigengjiakeguan、lizhidetaiduqusikaonimenzhijiandeguanxi，xunzhaocunzaidewenti，caikenengweihouxudewanhuidiandingjichu。

　　二、自我反省，找出原因

　　xiamian，bianshiziwofanshengdebuzhoule。niyaoxiangqingchu，weihenvshenghuisilexin?doushiyinweinibuzuguanxinta?huoshiyouyuniguoyuzisizili，zhiguanzhuzijidexiangfa?huozheyinweinibuzhidaoruhehetagoutongjiaoliu，zaochengwuhuihefenqibuduanwanshan?

　　xianbiejizhezhaoliyou，yebuyaobazerendoutuijita。jilao，yiduanganqingdeliekai，conglaijiubushidanfangmianyiwu。zhiyouxianyishidaozijidenanti，bingyuanyiweicigenggai，nicaiyoujihuiquwanhuita。

　　yinci，quchuzhibi，haohaodilieyilienigerenzhenggaicuoshiba。biepachou，gengbuyaopatong。jinyouganyuzhimianzishendewenti，nicainenggoufazhan，caikeyibiandeyuelaiyuehao。

　　三、冷战一段时间，给她室内空间

　　haoduorenwanhuideshihourongyifandeyigecuowubianshi：gangfenshoujiujizhequwanhui，haipatawangjiziji。qishini，zheimezuotongchangdebuchangshi。gangfenshoushi，taduinidexiaojiqingxuzhengchuzaigaofengshiduan，nideyiqiewanhuigerenxingweidoukenengbeishizuo“saorao”。

　　suoyiya，hebujitayiduanshijian，yeweizijiyiduanshijian。zheiduanshijianli，nikeyongyudiaozhenghaozijidexintai，tishengzijidejiazhi。ertayexuyaoshijianlailengjingfenxi，laitiyanmeiyouniderizishibushizhendegengqiang。

　　yibanlaishuo，lengzhandeshijiankongzhizaidabangeyuedaoyigeyueshangxiajiaoweishiyi。ziran，shijixuyaogenjudajiadeqingkuanglaiding。zongeryanzhia，bieguozhangyebuyaotaiduan，taizhangtayexuqueshibaniwangle，taiduanleyouqibuleshijixiaoguo。

　　四、提高自己，变得越来越好

　　gangbeifenshouruhewanhuinvyou，lengzhanqineibingbushishinixiandemeishigande!niyaochongfenliyongzheiduanshijianlaitigaozijia!bulunshibenzhihuoshiwaizaimeidouxuyaohenxiagongfu。

　　benzhifangmianni，nikeyiduonianshu、duoxuexijineng、suzaoyigexindegerenaihao……zongeryanzhia，rangzijibiandegengjiayoupinwei、gengweiyouqizhi。waizaimeifangmianni，ninengyundongjianshen、daban……rangzijikanqilaigengweikushuai、gengweijingshenshizhi。

　　jizhua，wanhuibingbushikaokenqiuhetongqing，ershitongguoxiyinzhu!dangnizhenzhengyuelaiyuezugouyouxiushi，tacaihuizaiciduiniganxingqu，cainengxuyaopeizainishenbian。