genqiannanyouliaotianyinggailiaosha?nihengaoxing,dannibuzhisuocuo。wobuzhidaozenmeshuo。wodanxinshuocuohuahuiyinqiduifangdefangan。raner,wohewodeqianrenliaodebuduo,xianzaiwobuzhidaozenmeliaotian。meiguanxi。tayuanyibanijiahuiqu,zheiyiweizhenihaiyoujihui。rangwomenlaikankanheqiannanyouliaotiandehuatihediyijuhua。
1.过滤信息
dangnidiyicikaishiliaotianshi,nihuigandaoganga。yinci,dangnihenishuohuashi,niyinggaixuehuiguanchaduifangdetaidu,congzimianshanglijieduifangdetaidu,bingjixushuohua。
dangnixiangduifangbiaodazugoudeneirongshi,tahuiyuelaiyuexinrenni,niyekeyishaixuanchugengduoguanyuduifangdeyouxiaoxinxi。
niyinggainenggoucizaiyiqishi,nimenyinggainenggoushuochunimenzaiyiqishijingchangshuodehua,shaixuanchunimenmingxianganxingqudehuati,bingzhijieyutajiaotan。liru,ruguonideqiannvyouxihuanmeiweideshiwu,nikeyizhijieshuo:shide,wohewodetongshijintianquleyijiacanguan。suiranhuanjingbushihenhao,danshiweidaozhendehenhao。weishenmewoyiqianmeizhaodaozheijiadian?woxiangzhidaonishifouzhidao?
liru,nideqiannanyoutongchangxihuankanbisai。zheibushishijiebeima?ninkeyiguanzhuyixiexiangguandegonggonghaoma。meiguanxi。
zheiliyouyigeyuanze,zhiyaonianzhaozheigeyuanzeliaotian,shenmedoubucailei。zheiyiyuanzeshiweilebimianrenheyuqingganyouguandehuati。
ruheyupengyoujiaotan,ruheyuqianrenjiaotan,ziran,buyaoganga。shuohuashiyaogaoduzhuyi。ruguoduifangjijihuiying,duoshuohua,fanyingpingdan,dulijieshuhuati。jicizhihou,nikeyizongjiechutadexingqusuozai。
2.聊天的时间
jianlilianxihou,nixiangmashanglajinnimendeguanxi。ruguoyoushenmeshiqingfasheng,nihuiheduifangshuohua,jiaohuanduifanghuihuifushenme?haoba,haoba”,“shide”,“hehe”。nijuedezheiyangdeliaotianhentongku。zheizhongbaoluxuqiugandeliaotianduitalaishuoshiyizhongtongku。youshihoutashenzhixiangzaiheini。zhenfanren!suoyibuyaomeitiandoushuohua,jiduifangliuxiayixiexiangfa。shouxian,jitayigeyouqudeyinxiang,heniliaotian,rangtaqidainideliaotian,danbuyaorangtazhidaonideguize。nihuifaxianniliaotiandecishuhuiyuelaiyueshao。yinweitakaishiyouyishidizhenxinidewaibiao,zheiyouzhuyusuoduannicujinguanxidezhouqi。
renheshihoudoubuyaoxiandewusuoshishi。tameiyouhuifunidexinxi。yexutazhendehenmang,yexutabuxianghenidajiaodao。dangniwanchengwentishi,tahuinaixindengdai,ruguotabuhuifunidexinxi。liaotianyeyinggaixuanzeshijian。ruguonimeitianzaoshanghexiawudouhenmang,erlingyijiagongsimeitianzaoshangdouhenmang,ruguonizaiyeyushijianfaxinxi,tahenmang。dangran,tameiyoushijianzhaoguni。zhaochuniqianrendegongzuohexiuxiguize,zhaochutayuanyiliaotiandeshijian。
3.引起共鸣
buguannishuoshenme,chanshenggongmingshifeichangzhongyaode。buyaozuoganggan,jishinideguandianbuyizhi,yebuyaobiaodaniwanquanbutongyitahuozhebulijieta。jizhu,nimendemudeshiweilewanhuiduifang,erbushiweiletaigang。
genqiannanyouliaotianyinggailiaosha?yuyanjishumoban-“wozhidaonishuodehua,henyoudaoli,yuanlaishizheiyang,yiqianzenmemeixiangguo,kanlaizheifangmianhaishinilihaia!”
liru,dangbeiwenjilingyifangzuijindeqingkuangshi,lingyifangshuotazuijinyudaolehenduokunnan,bujinshiweileanweilingyifang,erqieshiweilemimijiaohuan,gaosulingyifangzuijindemafan,zheiyulingyifangdexingzhishiyizhide。ciwai,shizhebiaoyangduifang。jishitaxinqingbuhao,zaibaoyuanzuijindemafanshiyebuyaozhijieshuojiayou。woxiangxinni,congduifangdejiaodutiyantadeqingxu,gaosutaninenglijietadeqingkuang。
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