后悔跟女友分手挽回

　　houhuigennvyoufenshouwanhui，nianqingnannvmenzuiershunengxiangdeshier，moguolianaile。ziran，tamenjinjinshiweilechuduixiangertanlianai，bingmeishencengcidemudihesuqiu。

　　yizheiyangdedanyide，xiangwanyiwandetaidulailianaidenannv，tamenxinzhijiqikandaiganqingtaidu，tongchangdoushihenbugouchengshu。takenenghuihenrongyidedijiugenyigeyixingpengyouchuduixiang，yucitongshi，youhuigengcaolvdihezijitanlianaiyixingpengyoufenkai。

　　ruguoyigenvrenkeyihaorenmeihaobao，nadeqifangdexia，zaiheyigenanrenfenshouyihou，wanquanduankaiyiqielianluodehua，neihaihao。pajiukongpayigenvrendexinzhibujianding，zaifenshouyihouzaizhaozishenqiannanyoufuhe。

　　duiyuyigenanreneryan，zishendenvyoulaixunzhaozijifuhe，jiuhaoxiangshizijicengtebiexiaideyizhifengzheng，zaidiuqizhihouyouhuranhuijialeyiyang。tacikedexinqingyouxiyue，tongshihaiyoukunhuo。

　　taxiyuenenggouzaicijiandaonixihuandenvren;takunhuoyigebuzaiaizishen，hezijitichufenshoudenvren，weishenmehuizaiquxunzhaozijifuhe。

　　nvrenhenifenshouyihou，youlailezhaonifuhe，tongchangshizheisanzhongqingkuang。

　　第一种情况：和你分手原因是气愤

　　renfeishengerzhizhi，fanershixueerzhizhi。yigenianqingdenvren，bingmeiyoutaiduodeqingganjingli，zaimianduinannvaiqingshi，nanmianyoujiaoweiqinglvheganqingyongshishi。

　　yigenianqingdenvrenhenrongyihuiyinweiyixiesuosuixiaoshi，jiugenzijidenanyoudachaoyijia。jiarushuangfangbuyuanzuochurangbudehua，neimezheigenvrenjiujiyoukenenghuigenzijidenanyouxiangfenshou。

　　keshitabingbushizhendexianghezijidenanyoufenkai，zhishitamuqianzhengzainaopiqi，chedimeiyoulizhi。taxiangzijidenanyouxiangfenshou，genbenjiushitazaiyiqizhixiasuozuochudecuowujueding。

　　zhidaoguoleyiduanshijian，taqixiaolezhihou，tahuihaohouhuizishenxiangnanyoutichufenshoudequeding。tazaibuduansikaozhihou，chajuezijiyagenjiuwangbudiaozishenqiannanyou，yushijiuquzhaoqianrenfuhe。

　　yigenianqingdenvrenzaihenifenshouyihou，youturanlaizhaonifuhe，henyoukenengshiyinweitahenifenshouyuanyinjinjinqifen。zaitaqixiaolezhihou，ziranerranjiuhuilaizhaonifuhe。

　　第二种情况：对自己的和好如初

　　renshiyizhongjiqifuzadeduomianxing，meiyourennengchedibaozhengdudongyigeren;jibianshishijieshangzuijubeiquanweixingdexinlixuejia，doubuganshuozishennenggouhenhaodilejieyigeren。

　　dajiadexinlitebiefuza，bujinnanyilejieqitarenxinlizhuangtai，naizhinanyidudongzijidexintai。youyuhenduoshihou，womenzijidexinlizhuangtaihekanfahuitufasanbailiushidudabianhua，napashidajiazijijiuwufabakongzhi。rutonggequlichangdeneiyang：“sheinengdongzishen?”

　　changyandao：“nvrenxin，haidizhen;mobutou，mobudao。”nvrenzuoweiyizhongganxinghuadeweishengwu，tamendexinlizhuangtaikendingyeshijiqifuzade。

　　yigenvrenkenenghuiyinniyixiebugou，erhenixiangfenshou。danshitazaihenifenshouyihou，youhenyoukenenghuihuranxiangqinidehao，jinerduizijidehehaoruchu，youlailezhaonifuhe。

　　nvrendezheizhongzuofa，kanqilaiyouqibianhuawuchang，buheqingli，danshizheishifeichangzhengchangde。youyunvrenbenjiushiyizhongganxingdayulixing，yizhibubitaizaiyidedongwu。erganjuezheidongxi，bingbushirennenggoujiangkongzhide，jibianshinvrenzijijiubuhao。

　　第三种状况：含有特殊目的

　　houhuigennvyoufenshouwanhui，yigenvrenheyigenanrenfenshouyuanyinhuoxuyoutaiduotaiduo，danshiyibandouhenjiandan，zongjiexialaikenengjiuwugezi，“womenbuheshi”。

　　buguoyigehenifenshounvren，turanlaizhaonifuhedezhuyaoyuanyin，neimejiujiaoweifuzale。zheijiuhaobishixiandanqiangyiyang，paodanzaituichuquyiqianjinyouyifa，quhuilaideshihouzeshiyiqun。

　　yigenvrenzaihenifenshouyihou，youturanlaizhaonifuhedezhuyaoyuanyin，youshidaiyouteshumudede。

　　huoxutajiushixuyaobaofuni;huoxutajiushiweilenengcongwozheier，quhuibenyingshuyutadewupin;haikenengtajiushibeishoushouyi，weilenengzainizheijinxingmouzhongmeirirenwu。

　　jinguanzheitingqilaijiaoweiheren，keshizheixieshiyebuwukenengfasheng。zhongjiu，shishinanliao，renshijiandeshi，sheiyounenggouwanquanxiangdaoni?

　　yiner，dangnideqiannvyoulaijinifuheshi，nibunengzhikaixin，yebixuyaoyouyidingdejingtixin。changyandao：“fangrenzhixinbukewu，renxinnance。”