提高情商的技巧，成为一个高情商的人，太实用了

 youshujuxinxishuoming，gongzuozhongchangsuozhong，zhuyaobiaoxianchusederenyuanzhongyou９０％jubeiqingshanggao；ruhetishengzijideqingshang？xiangduixingde，zhuyaobiaoxianqianjiaderenqunzhongyou８０％deqingshangzhishangyebugao。qingshangzhishangzhenduiqinmiwujianbenrenguanliandechansheng、fazhanqushi、tigaoqingshangdejiqiao，weihubaoyanghetishengjubeiguanjiangongxiao。youbieyuzhilidekekaoxing，womenkeyitongguoxuexitishengzixin。

１．管理情绪

 ruhetishengzijideqingshang?yaoxiangbubeixintaishangxia，zuixianshiyaonengfajuezishendexintai，youbiequ、naonu、nanguodengbutaihaoxintaideqingkuangxia，shenxiqi，ranglixingzhongfanrendedanao，lizhidejiejueshier。

２．提升经验

 jingyanshidongxideyagen，shijueceyigerenduiyijianshiqingdefenbianhechulifangfadejibenshangyaosu。erjingyanyoubaokuoliangyibufen：jianrenyuxingzou。qujiangeshigeyangderen，gentamenxianliao，kanyixiatamenduizheishijiedeguandian，changshihuanweisikaoyixiaquzhangwotamendeqingxu；qugeshigeyangdediqulvyou，kanbendidajiaderichangshenghuo，kantiankanyunkanyushanghua，kanyiqianrichangshenghuozaimeiyigediqudeqiandajialiuyoudewupin。lejiezheiquanshijietarenshizenyangcunhuode，yejiukeyigengqiangdexuanzezijijiejuenantidefangfa。

 suihouyueduwenzhanghenzhongyao。shujishirichangshenghuodejinglian，kanyibenshubianshijiandaoyiduirendexiaogushi，jiandaoyiduirendeniantou。lejieleshulideciju，jiugengfeichangrongyilejierichangrichangshenghuotarenhuazhongdehanyihebiaoshudexintai。

３．掌握限度

juedaduoshudiqingshangzhishangdegerenxingweidouyouyubawobutaihao“xiandu”：yaobushudujiaocha，yaobuwujibifan。

jiansuankebokouwuzhelanhefengqushiliangmashi；xinzhikoukuaihetanchengshiliangmashi；

meiyouxiuyanghesatuoshiliangmashi；qinghezhongbuqufenhezhishuangshiliangmashi；

４．学好激励

 ruguonidenanpengyouhuozhelaogongchuyurenshengdaoluhuianhuozhemangranjieduanshi，dingyaozhuyaobiaoxianchuniduitadeshiyong，zheibujinnenggoushitaduoyixiezixinxin，bingqiehainengshitaduinichongchizheganxie。

５不必总以自我为中心，碰到难题时，还记得考虑到另一方的观点。

６回绝娇情

 henduorenyouyigehenxianzhudejiaoqingdezhuyaobiaoxianbianshibutaihuijienatarenzhijiedehuijuewo，duiyuwolijishuobu。zhenduitarenzhijiedeqiangdiaozijidequedian，wonengqijibaihuai，gezhonggeyangzhaojiekou，zhaoyuanyin。zuixian，tarenhuijuenibiaomingtagongzuonengliburuhuobiedeyuanyin，bukeyiyouyutarenmeiyoutingcongnideqingyierluannaopiqi，zheijiushigongzhubingle。shijishangxiangyixiang，xuduoqingkuangxiajinyouqinmijiechudeyouxiurencaihuizhijiedeqiangdiaonidewenti，quexian，dajiayingdangweitarenqiangdiaozishendequedianerkaixin，youyujiuzhenglezishendequediancaikeyishizishenyuelaiyuegengchuse。

７，埋怨不起作用

 zaoyifenpeikaixindeshi，zhongjiudeshier，neirutongzenyangjiejue，maiyuanbukeyiqiyiqiegongxiao，haihuijixushiniduizheiyijianshieryoufeichangdadebumanqingxu。

８提高情商的技巧:学好做决定，与盆友相处要维持适合间距