和女生聊天怎么避免话题枯燥无聊？怎么和女生聊天不冷场

 xuduonanhaizizaihenvhailiaotiandeqingkuangxia，quanshiyishixingqi，zenmehenvshengliaotianbulengchang？xiangqinaxieliaoshenme，chedimeiyouyigeqiadangdefangwei，yincipaochuqudehuatitaolunchangchanghuirangnvhaiganjuekuzaofaweiqiewuqu，liaotianliaotianjiubuyuanliaole。gennvshengzenmeliaotiancaibuwuliao？

 yaolejie，nvhaiyibanshiburongyijijijiyuhuatitaolunde，yincijiarunimeiyouyigeqiadangdexianliaofangwei，jiuyaozhaonvshengliaotian，zongshibatianliaosi。

neimahenvhailiaotianzenyangcainengxunzhaoqiadangdexianliaofangwei，fangzhihuatitaolunkuzaofaweiwuquni？

一、构建轻松自在的闲聊氛围

 henvhailiaotian，shijishanghewanyouxiyiyang，yizhiyingyizhishudoubutaihao，jinyoushudiaoyouhuosheng，nvhaicaihuigengweigaoxing，tongyangma，zaixianliaoruguonikeyijinvhaigoujianyigeqingsongzizaidexianliaoqifen，jinvhaichuangzaoqingxubodongranglingyifangjuededaochaju，rangnvhaijuedeyiwaijingxi、cijixing，neimanvhaidangranhuijideni，dangtajidenihou，bianhuichangchanglaiyuenixianliao，jianjiandidebianhuiduinizaochengxingquaihao。

 zenmehenvshengliaotianbulengchang？yincizaoqihenvhailiaotianshi，yidingbubijiaolvbuanhuoshinenggouququyuenvhai，neibandoushihuirangfenweiyuelaiyuenankanhewuqu，naizhihuipuluniduinvhaidexuqiugan，jitachanshengshejiaomeitigongzuoyali。

二、闲聊中心态的掌握

 fajuexuduodixiongzaigennvhaiziliaotianquanguochengzhongcunyouyigenanti，neibianshizhangwobulenvrenyaoxiangqingtudexintaiguanjian，zheiyeshixuduodixionghenvshenggoutongjiaoliudejiaodazuaizhiyi。

 liruganglejieyigenvhai，zaichuangjianxiyinzhuhuanjie，dangnvhaiduinanyinyoushaoweidehaogandujiben，zhixuyougoutongjiaoliudejiyu，tamenzongshihuibuzijuedikaizhanxintaishuchu，zheishihounanhaizijiarunengzuochuyouliangdexintaihuiying，dajiajiuhuiyoujiyuzaiciwangqianfazhanqushi。

 yincichulixianliaodenantizhongyao，bujinjinshihuatitaolunhexiaoshouhuashuzhishizhaoquanguochengzhaoxintai，rutongdajiadajiadoulejiedekanmingheshierxingzuoquanshibunenggenchudefangfa。

 yeyoubianshiyixiexiaoshouhuashuguojiguanli，xuduodixiongshengbanyingtaoweixinliaotianjiqiao，quedabushanggaiyoudeshijixiaoguo，naizhishinvshengdelengmoganenhuikui。

 xintaigongxiangduilajinliangxingguanxishifenguanjian，fenchengdanbianxintaigongxiangheshuangzhongxintaigongxiang，danbianxintaigongxiangyoufenchengxintaishuchujixintaihuiying。

bushanyubiaodaderenguishuyuburongyixintaishuchu，bushanyulingtingderenguishuyuburongyixintaihuiying。

 shuobaileganqinglajixiangjiafahaorenkabianshinvxingzaixintaishuchu，nanxingquemeiyouxintaihuiying，naizhiliandanbianxintaigongxiangyebuzucheng，yincilianzuihaodepengyoudoubingbushi。

shanyuxintaigongxiangderendaoxianliaodeshihouhuizhangwolingyifangdexintaiguanjian。jugeshilieryan：

 dangyigenvshenggennishuo，jinrichidaole，beilaobanjiangleyidun，qingxucaogao，yincitacishidexintaiguanjianshifan，danxuduogangtiezhinandediyifanyingzeshi，weihewandao，nimeishierma？

 yejiushihuaizhejiejuekunnandeluojisiweilaihuiyingnvhai，henvshengjiangdaolihuoshibutongbuyangdekuanweiyiliangju，neiyangdefangfanvhaishifangande，feichangrongyirangnvhaiganjuebulejieta，yunixianliaobuhuizaiyigepindaolanmushang。

 qiadangdezuofashirentongnvhaidexintai，biaomingrenkedeyucitongshilizainvhaideguandianshangyiqiquchizetadelaozong，laichudongxintaishangderenkehegongmingdian。

三、生产制造心态上的差距

 juedaduoshudixiongdexianliaoluojisiweiquanshiyitiaopingxingxian，jibianzhengqianfangyouchuangqiang，zhuangdaoyebuhuitou，lijimengchong，zaiciwangbuzhengquedefangweizou。

 fashengzheizhongzhuangkuangdeyuangutongchangshinanhaizizhaobuzhexianliaodejiezougan，zhiyouyijunvhaidehuiyinglaikaizhanxianliao，sangshixianliaodezhudaoquan。

 neimazaixianliaozhongshengchanzhizaoxintaishangdechaju，zehuishiwomenbawoxianliaodezhudaoquan，zhengqueyindaonvhaijindaodajiadexianliaojiagou，liru：

nvhaijiandaoniqingxubudahao，wenniganmani？gennvshengzenmeliaotiancaibuwuliao？

 jiarujibenhuiyingzhuangzuowanqianggaozhinvhaimeishierhuanjuhuashuoshiyixiexiaowenti，huijinvhaigoujianyizhong“wuxuqiugan”dejuede，neimanvhaihuiruhexiangni？

 nvhaihuiganjuezishenshiduociyiju，shibuliguanliandejindude，henyoukenengyouxierenyaoshuo，woruguoxiangnvhaifalaosao，burongyikanqilaizishentaiguorouruoma。

 zuihaoshidefangfazeshirangnvhaimobutounideniantou，qushengchanzhizaofanzhuan，liruneiyanghuiyingnvhai：wodayizhanglaila，xianghehongtangshui，bangwonongdianhuilaiba。

gennvshengzenmeliaotiancaibuwuliao？pengdaozheileihuiying，nvhaishichuhuyiliaode，huixiaozhehuiying：yo，nizhidaohaitingduode

zheigeshihouhainenggouhuiying：nikendingbuhuixiangtamenneiban，yaowoduohereshui、jiaqiangduanlianba？

 jianjiandidenvhaidexintaibianhuibeinituidongqilai，jianjiandidedajiadexianliaofenweijiugoujianchulai，zheijiushigenjuxianliaojiuyaonvhaiduinizaochenghendangrandexiyinzhu。

 zenmehenvshengliaotianbulengchang？ruguonishuodemeiyijuhuadourangnvxingmobutou，wufashihuai，rangnvhaibumingbaini，weichiyizhongxinxiangan，neimatabianhuigennishuodemeiyijuhuadoujuedeshifendeyouyisi。