沟通交流，和女孩子聊什么话题？

 yelihaikeyitiaoxuanyuezheiyinvshengmingriquzuoshenme?dangzheiyinvshengneixinyouyidingdesisuodeqingkuangxia，jiuzhengshinvshengyehuiduinishifenyouhaogan，jiaruyuanyilenideyaoqing，neiyangnvshengyeliyehuiduiniyouyidingdediannian。xiangyixiangmingriyingdangtiqianzhunbeiyixienaxie，jiaonihenvhaiziliaoshenmehuati，nvshengxihuandeliaotianhuatiyounaxienidouzhidaoma？kanyixialingyifangdeneixinyounaxiedezhuanbian，neiyangyeshihenvshengkeyilajinjianju。nvshengzaiwanshangyehenxihuanliaoyixiejifuhulinanti，youyumeiyigenvshengdouyouqihaokan，yincizaichuanzhedabanhuoshijifuhulishi。yehuichuxianxuduohuatitaolun，neiyangdajialiangrenzhongjianhaikeyijiazhongyixiagoutongjiaoliu，zhongjiunvshengsuishisuididouxuyaobazijichuanzhedabandemeimeidade，caikeyixiyinzhunanhaierdezhuanzhuli。

1、不必仅仅简易的信息内容沟通交流

 zaigennvshengliaotiandeqingkuangxia，jinjinjiandandeliaoyiliaogongzuofangmian，shenghuoshangyixiewuguantongyangdeshier，zheizhongshierbushibunengshuo，jinjinyongdeqingkuangxiabudui，zheizhonghuatitaolunshihezaifuqiliangpingchangdegoutongjiaoliu。huoshishigentashuodeyixieshier，nijiandanjianglezishendejianjie，jiaonihenvhaiziliaoshenmehuati，nvshengxihuandeliaotianhuatiyounaxienidouzhidaoma？meishenmeshencengcidegoutongjiaoliu。yeliruhehenvhailiaotiandeyidabuzhengquejiuzheiyang，quanbuxianliaoquanguochengshifenpingpingdandan，naizhiyoushihouhuifeichangganga。

2、少用“你在干什么?”

 zhunbeizhaolingyifangzhujianxianliaodeqingkuangxia(chukaineileixianliaobuhaipanankandeyixingpengyou)，qianwanbieyong“nizaiganshenme”tamen，youyuniwenlingyifangzaiganshenme，tadaduoshuyaoshuozishenzaiganshenme，suihoujiumeiyouxiamianle;zheijiushihaimeiyouzhujianjiubatianliaosilede。

3、持续充实自己，扩展自身的眼界

 jiaruninengxunzhaoshijiankankanxinwenwang，duyidubaokanzazhi，nidenaohaizhonglibianhuiyoudaliangdehuatitaolunkeliao。jiaonihenvhaiziliaoshenmehuati，nvshengxihuandeliaotianhuatiyounaxienidouzhidaoma？yaorangzishenjinsuishishiredian，liuyiyouqudexijupianshipinduanpian，huoshihulianwangshangshixingdegaoxiaoduanzideng。