别输在不懂得人情世故上 高情商的重要性

 gaoqingshangdezhongyaoxing，bumingbaiweirenchushiderennanyizaishehuifazhanshang、zaizhirenyuanchangzhonglizuyu，genrenlahaoguanlianhenzhongyao，dangaohaoguanxibingbingbushimaoweidiqudajiaobieren，feidehetarenqinmijiechu，gengbingbushifengchengyubieren，yongquyuetaohaocaitazishenderenshenziyouquan。bujinkeyijinxinggaoqingshangdeyoumoduihua，haikeyigaoqingshangduifubanlvchugui。

 renjijiaowangshiyigerenyishengguanjiangouchengbufen。bumingbaijiejuerenjijiaowang，genrenlahaoguanlian，duigongzuozhong、richangshenghuohebenrenshenxinjiankangdoushihuizaochengfumianyingxiang。youyumeiyigerendegexing、richangshenghuoqingkuangjiziyuanbingfu、gerenaihao、jiazhiguanniandengdebuyiyangcunyousixiangguanniandejiedi，zheishifenyiqiezhengchang。

 danruguobumingbaigaohaoguanxi，herenherendouxinggebuhe，neimejiuhenyoushenmewentile。zenyangherenlahaoguanlian，rangzishenzaiweirenchushishangyourenyouyuni？gongxianghaoduogejiqiao，zheiyeshigaoqingshangdezhuyaobiaoxian。

1、替人着想。

mingbaitibierenkaolv，qiewuguoyuzishen。yaohunshu，yaomingbaicongbiedeshijiaodulisikao，erqiedongdezuochuyidingdexianshenjingshen。

 ruzaiyutarenyiqixiezuoerhuodekaoshichengjihou，qiejijinjinzhuyaobiaoxianzishen，bayitongdelaodongsuodejuweijiyou。eryingdangyubierenyitonggongxiang，shanyuweitarenjiyujiyu，erqiebangzhubierenwanchengtamendezongtimubiao，bianchengyigejunhengjiejuezishenquanyiyubierenquanyideren。

 gaoqingshangdezhongyaoxing，yucitongshi，tirenzhexianghaixuyaozhuyaobiaoxianzaidangtarenpengdaokunnan，zaodaocuobaideqingkuangxia，lijijiyuxiezhu，neiyangcaikeyichanshenglianghaodeshuangzhongguanlian，dangtarenganshoudaonidewendu，yehuiyuniduoqinmijiechu。

2、豁达大度，豁达大度接纳差别。

 zhuzhonggebiechayideyucitongshi，mingbaiqujiena、kuanrongzheileichayi，mingbaiqujienatarenyuzishendebutongdian。bingshidujiyukuazan。

 huodadadu，youyidingdegongqiliang，jienazheileichabieerchanshengdebuyiyangxiangsheng，erqiekeyiyiyizhongdangranpingjingdexinlizhuangtaiqukuanrong，caiqubuyiyangdejianyi。

dangzishenxinxiongkuanguangdeqingkuangxia，zhuyaobiaoxianchuqudezheileiganranli，yeshiyubierenchuangjianyouliangguanliandeguanjianyaosu。

3、明白沟通的技巧。

 youshirenherenzhijiandeguanlianyoulieshifoujiuqujueyunengbunenghaohaodigoutongjiaoliu，zhengsuoweijiufengzhijiqianbeishao，jiarulianhuashuobulai，neimahetanlajinguanlian？

 yinci，mingbaiyixiegoutongdejiqiao，liru，shanyulingting，shanyudechuyijianfankui，weiwandebiaobaibiaoshubuyiyangdejianyi，zhongshimaodundefangzhijixintaidecaozongzheixie。bujinkeyijinxinggaoqingshangdeyoumoduihua，haikeyigaoqingshangduifubanlvchugui。