高情商的重要性 先教孩子学会尊重他人

 gaoqingshangdezhongyaoxing，yigerendeqingshangzhishangzhenduiyigerendeweihainenggoushuochengshifendade，naizhihuiweihaidaoyigerendeyisheng，yeshihuizaochengtamenzaijingyingtuanduidangzhongshifouzaoshoureliehuanying，yezhengshiruci，yinciyouhenduorendouqidaizishendexiaohaikeyiyongyoujiaoweigaodeqingshangzhishang，keshizaixianshishenghuozhongyouhenduodexiaohaizhuyaobiaoxianbingbujinrenyi，shijishangzheihebabamamadewenhuajiaoyuyongyoujinmideguanlian。bujinkeyijinxinggaoqingshangdeyoumoduihua，haikeyigaoqingshangduifubanlvchugui。

 xiaoyangdexiaohaizaipingshihebierenjiaowangdeqingkuangxiayizhibutaikaixin，naizhihaihuijixuzaochengtadepenyouyuelaiyueyuelaiyuedi，zaikandaoleneiyangdezhuangkuangyihou，xiaoliuyehuijuededaoshifendedanyou，haipazishendexiaohaiweilaimeiyoubanfarongjindaotuantidangzhong，shijishangfashengleneiyangdezhuangkuang，bianshiyinweixiaohaideqingshangzhishangjiaoweidisuodaozhide，zaizheileizhuangkuangxia，babamamayeyidingyaotishenggaoduzhongshi，jinyouneiyangcaikeyijihaizichanshenggengqiangdezhaoliao。

不会聊天针对小孩的一生都是有极大危害

危害人际交往

 meiyigerendouqidaikeyiherangzishenjuededaojiaoweishifangyaliderenjiaowang，keshijiaruyigehaizideqingshangzhishangxiangduixingeryanjiaoweididehua，neimazaihetamenjiaowangdequanguochengzhong，bingbunenggourangdahuoerjuededaokaixin，naizhihaihuijixujuededaojiaoweidadegongzuoyali，yezhengshiruci，yincihenduorendoubuyuanyihezheiyangderenjiaowang，yincizhenduixiaohaiderenjijiaowangweihaiyeshishifendade。

feichangrongyiweihaidaoxiaohaidexingqing

 youyubuhuiliaotiandeyuangu，yincizaochengxiaohainanyirongjindaotuantidangzhong，neimazaizheileizhuangkuangxia，xiaohaidexingqingbianhuiyuelaiyueyulaiyuneixiang，keshirujindeshehuifazhanshiyigetuanjiexiezuodeshehuifazhan，buguanzuoyiqieshierdoubixudedaobierendexiezhu，jiaruxiaohaizhangqichuzaineiyangdezhuangkuangdangzhong，zhenduitamendeweihaiyeshishifendade，feichangrongyizaochengtamendexingqingyuelaiyueyulaiyupianzhi，buliangyingxiangyehuiyuelaiyueyuelaiyueyanzhong。

weihaidaoxiaohaidegongzuozhongzaojiu

 yigeqingshangzhishangjiaoweigaoderendaojingyingtuanduidangzhonggengweifeichangrongyizaoshoubierenreliehuanying，yucitongshiyegengweifeichangrongyibianchenglingdaozhe，neimaneiyangdeyigerenzaizuoyiqieshierdeqingkuangxiadoukeyidedaobierendexiezhu，dangranyegengweifeichangrongyiqudechenggong，keshijiaruzaihebierenjiaowangdequanguochengzhongmeiyoubijiaohaodeqingshangzhishang，neimajiufeichangrongyizaochengbierenzhenduizheigerengengweiyanjuan，yincizaigongzuozhongdangzhongyaoxiangdedaobierendexiezhuyehuijiaoweijiannan，neimazaizheileizhuangkuangxia，zhenduixiaohaideyishengweihaiyeshishifendade。

爸爸妈妈应当怎样鼓励孩子的情商智商？

观查，认知和了解

 jiaruyaoxiangsuzaochujiaoweigaodeqingshangzhishang，neimagengweiguanjiandeyijianshiqingbianshitonglixin，yejiushilejiebierendetihui，jinyouneiyangcaikeyilejieyingdangzenyanghebierenjiaowang，erbabamamadezhuyaobiaoxianzhenduixiaohaideweihaiyeshishifendade，yincizaipingshiderichangshenghuodangzhong，yidingyaoliuyiguanchaxiaohai，erqieyaolejietamendetihui，jinyouneiyangcaikeyirangxiaohaizaoshouneiyangdewenhuajiaoyu，jinerkeyihebierengengqiangdejiaowang。

rangxiaohaiqiadangdelejieziji

 yigerenyouzhegaoqingshangbingbingbushibixubiequzishen，quanbudeshierquanshibixuweibierenkaolv，meiyigerenjinyouyongyouzishendandudexingqinghegexinghuacaikeyishiyigexiangxideren，yecaikeyidedaobierendexiaihexinren，yincimeiyigexiaohaidouyingdangqiadangdelejieziji，jinyouneiyangtamencaizhidaoyoushenmeshiershizishenyingdangzuode，youshenmeshiershizishenyanfande，erzaizheileizhuangkuangxia，tamendebenrenxingqingyekenengyuelaiyuegengweilitishi，zaihebierenjiaowangdequanguochengzhongyekeyigengqiangdelaijieshoubieren，yincizheiyangderenzaijingyingtuanduidangzhongyegengweifeichangrongyizaoshoubierendereliehuanying。

接纳小孩的有缺憾

 zairichangshenghuodangzhongmeiyigerendouqidaizishendexiaohaishigengweichusede，yeqidaizishendexiaohaikeyiyuelaiyuejinhuwanmei，keshizaixianshishenghuozhongkendingmeiyouwanmeiderencunyou，neimazaizheileizhuangkuangxia，youhenduobabamamadexintaibianhuiyuelaiyueshifenkuangzao，yehuichangchangchizexiaohaidequexian，yinweibabamamadegerenxingweifeichangrongyijihaizichanshengjiaoweidadegongzuoyali，yucitongshiyehuiweihaidaoxiaohaidedairenjiewu，neimajiaruxiaohaibaneiyangdexingqingsongdaohebierenjiaowangdequanguochengzhong，yefeichangrongyiweihaidaotamenderenjijiaowang。

照料小孩的情况下一定要留意重视她们

重视小孩的性情

 meiyigerendouyongyouzishenyuzhongbutongdexingqing，youyixiexingqingshihuizaoshoubierendexiai，keshiyeshiyouyixierenyaoduiyixierendegexingzaochengyanjuandexintai，zaiyingduizheileizhuangkuangdeqingkuangxia，youhenduobabamamayizhihuiyijuzishendeaihaolaidiaojiexiaohaidexingqing，keshibabamamasuoxiaidebingbuyidingbianshiqiadangde，yincizhongshimeiyigerendegexingquanshishifenguanjiande。

zhongshixiaohaisuozuodemeiyijianshiqing

 gaoqingshangdezhongyaoxing，meiyigerenzaichengzhangdeguochengshangdouhuizuochuyixiebuzhengque，yinweinianjijiaoweixiaodeyuangu，yincixiaohaizaichengzhangdeguochengzhongfancuowudegailvdangranhuiyuelaiyuegaoxieyixie，zaiyingduizheileizhuangkuangdeqingkuangxia，youhenduobabamamayizhihuihuomaosanzhang，shijishangneiyangdezhuangkuangzhenduixiaohaiyebingbingbushiyouqidehao，zaihexiaohaijiaowangdequanguochengzhong，babamamayidingyaoliuyizhongshitamendexingqing，jinyouneiyangcaikeyirangxiaohaiyuelaiyuegengweizixinxin，zaihebierenjiaowangdequanguochengzhongdangranyekeyigengweicongrong。

重视小孩的建议

 youhenduobabamamayizhiganjuezishensuozuodequanbushierquanshiweilebaobaohao，yincizaizheileizhuangkuangxia，tamenzhenduizishenxiaohaidejianyibingbingbushiyouqideguanxinneiyangdezhuangkuang，jinguankanshangquhaoxiangshiweizheizhongxiaohaikaolv，keshishishishangfeichangrongyijihaizichanshengfeichangdadegongzuoyali，neimazaizheileizhuangkuangxiayefeichangrongyizaochengxiaohaiyuelaiyueweishouweiwei，jiusuanshitarulejingyingtuanduidangzhong，yehaoxiangshiyigemeiyouyiqiecunyoushijiyiyideren，neiyangzhenduitamendeyishengfazhanyeshiyouqibuhaode。

 gulihaizizhenduimeiyigefumueryanquanshifenwaiguanjiandeyijianshiqing，zaizheigequanguochengzhongyouhenduodeguanjiandianbabamamayidingyaofenwaideliuyi，jinyouzhuyilezheizhongguanjiandiannanti，caikeyijihaizichanshenggengqiangdezhaoliao，yecaikeyirangxiaohaiyuelaiyuegengweichuse，jiarubabamamazhenduizheixiefangmianbingbingbushitebieguanxindehua，neimajiufeichangrongyiweihaidaoxiaohaideyisheng，jianxinneiyangdezhuangkuangzhenduiyiqieyigefumueryanquanshibuyuankandaode，yeshidahuoeryidingyaoliuyifangzhideshier。bujinkeyijinxinggaoqingshangdeyoumoduihua，haikeyigaoqingshangduifubanlvchugui。