好好说话很重要 高情商的重要性

 gaoqingshangdezhongyaoxing，zhenduihenduoreneryan，huishuohuaderenchangchangbeirenjuedeshigaoqingshang，jiarubawoleneiyangdezhuanyejineng，penyou，qinglvguanxinenggenghemu，gongzuozhongguanlianyehuigengshunli。wenzhongkenengxiangxijieshaohuijianghuadegaoqingshangderen，douyounaxiexiangtongdian。shiwomengankuaikanlaiyiyixiaba。bujinkeyijinxinggaoqingshangdeyoumoduihua，haikeyigaoqingshangduifubanlvchugui。

1.微笑持续

gaoqingshangderen，jianghuadeqingkuangxia，yizhimiandaixiaorong。

 xiaorongyouqingchuneixinjiedideshijixiaoguo。renmenduibierendediyiyinxiangzhuyaoshiyijuyumianbuyouguandexinxineirong（rongmao、shenqingdeng）laijuecede，danzhenduiluchuxiaorongdelingyifang，youshifangyalijingshixindequxiang。

 youyulianbuguazheweixiao，yincidajiahuifenbiantamenmeiyouduizishendejingongxin，shiyoushande。zheiyeshiyuzhongzujiwenhuabuxianggandedabufenrenyigongyoudefangshi。

2.镇定自若

gaoqingshangderen，「yizhihenchenzhelengjing」。

 xuduoshanyugoutongjiaoliuderendounengjilingyifangchanshengshuxingandeqifen。lingrenganjue「hezheigerennenggoujianjiandijianghua」，chongmanleningjingdefenwei。

 zheileiqifenyibanlaiziyutamenzhendingziruodexintai。judongtanranderen，butaifeichangrongyiyouyuyiliangjuhuaeryuelaiyuepiqibaozao，dajiahaikeyishifangyalidijijidihetamenliaotian。

3.有进取心

gaoqingshangderen，youjinquxin，lingrenganjue「heyourenshuonaxie，tamendounengjieshou」。

 meiyigerendoushiyoukunao，youqishibianchengshehuirenshihou，yibandoushihuizaigongzuozhonghesishenghuozhongpengdaoyixienantihekunao。zaizheileizhuangkuangxia，gaoqingshangderen，huixiangyaolingtingtamenbiaolukunao。

tamenburongyizeguaitarendequexian，zhishijienalingyifangbingwanzhuanditiyijian。

4.人生道路经验丰富

「yiwangjingligeshigeyangdelijing」yeshigaoqingshangderenpubiandetedianzhiyi。

 zaiyifanfengshun、buqingchucuobaiderenqunzhong，youxuduorenduitarendetongchumeifashenyoutihui。ciwai，ruguoshirenshengdaolugongzuojingyanfeichangshaoderen，yeshiyouduibierendeqingxumeifalejiedequxiang。

 keshi，xuduoyiwangjinglitongchulijingderen，feichangrongyiduiyiyangjinglicilijingderenshenyoutihui，gengnenglejiebieren，yinqigongming。

yinci，youkunaoderenhuihendangrandijiuhetamenshuojuxinlihua。

5.求知欲充沛

gaoqingshangderen，qiuzhiyuchongpeiyeshitamendetexing。

gaoqingshangderenduishenmedouyouxingqu，youyuxuduoshiertamendouxiangyaozhidao，yinciduitarenshuodehuabianhuitebieganxingqu。

 wulunshishenmeyangderen，zhenduixiaitingzishenfayanderen，doushihuixiangjijidihetaliaotian。miandaixiaorong，shidudisuishengfuheducuzaici，nengranghetamenliaotianderenyekeyixinqingshuchangdijianghua。

6.意见反馈非常好

gaoqingshangderen，you「nengdechufeichanghaodeyijianfankui」detedian。

xuduobeichengzuo「shanyulingting」deren，doushiyouzailingyifangjianghuadeqingkuangxia，jiyuqiadangdeyijianfankuidegongzuonengli。

 zaijiaotandezhongduanshi，huidiandiantoubiaoming「ena」，zaijinyaoguantouhuiqinpeidishuo「wa~」，huoshichuanchuhuanxiaoshengdeng，tamenyibanhuidechutingdedonglingyifanghuazhongguanjiandeyijianfankui。

huodele「lingyifanggetdaowodedianle」deyijianfankui，dajiayekeyixinqingshuchangdijiangchuzishenxiangshuodehua。

7.会听人把话讲完

gaoqingshangderen，yibandoushiyoubalingyifangdehuatinghoudetedian。

 wulunshishuoyijianbudadeshiyeba，huoshidaishangmouleiyongyijianghuadeqingkuangxia，dajiayizhiqidailingyifangyongxintinghoude。hekuangshizaikaizhankunaozixundeqingkuangxia，yuefamomodixixinlingtingderen，yuefeichangrongyibeixinrenbingduitamenbiaoluxinlihua。

shijishang，gaoqingshangderen，zailingyifangshuowanqianshiburongyizaibantuchahuade。

8.很会寻找彼此之间的相同点

gaoqingshangderendetedianshi「nenglikefajuebicizhijiandexiangtongdian」。

 zanqiewulunlejiehenduonianledepenyouhehaopiqidepengyou，yaobushiyouqideliburaorenderen，sheidouhegangpengmiandelurenbingbushineimafeichangrongyizhaohuatiliaotianliaotiande。

 zaizheileizhuangkuangxia，yuefakeyikuaisufajuebicizhijianxiangtongdianderen，jiuyuefeichangrongyinengrangbicikaixindiliaotian。zheishiyouyurenmenganjueyuefahezishenleisideren，jiuyuefeichangrongyizaochengqinqiegan。

zheileizhuangkuangxiadexiangtongdianshixingquaihao、chushengdidian、xiaideyishudashizheixie，renhedongxidounenggou。

9.乐观的性情

gaoqingshangderen，qixingqingyedaduoshushileguande。

 gaoqingshangdezhongyaoxing，dabufen，jijizhudongleguanderenduisuoyourenjianghua，tarendounengyoukaixindeganshou。penyouheguanlianhaodepengyoujiubieshuole，jibianshilaoren、xiaobeihuoshilingdao，wulunguandianzenyang，tamenyibanyehuixiaomimidi、xinggaocailiedilingtinglingyifangjianghua。

yinweizheileileguan，lingyifangdeqingxudangranyeyuelaiyueleguan，jianghuayefeichangrongyiyoujing，yueliaoyuegaoxing。

10.不否认另一方

「juebufourenlingyifang」yeshigaoqingshangderendetedian。

sheiquanshineiyang，zuoweijianghuaderen，dabufendouqidaizishenshuodehuanenghuodehaowuyiwen。

「neibuyiyang」denghaohuaibufendebeifouren，bianhuilingrenjuedefangfozishenbeijujuebeifourenle，jueduibuhuixinqingshuchang。

 gaoqingshangderenburongyineiyangzuo，jibianhelingyifangjianyibuyucitongshi，yibanyeyaoshuo「yuanlaishizheigeyangzi」，xianhaowuyiwenlingyifangdehua，suihouzaiweiwandimingquetichuzishendeniantou。bujinkeyijinxinggaoqingshangdeyoumoduihua，haikeyigaoqingshangduifubanlvchugui。