如何在不同的场地说话 高情商聊天术

 gaoqingshangliaotianshuzhong，gaoqingshangliaotianhuashufanliyouhenduozhidexuexidedifang。zhumingxiaoshuojiadaierkanaijicengshuo：rujinshehuifazhan，benshendeshunli，zhishiyou15%qujueyunidezhuanyejinenghejishuxing，ershengyude85%qujueyushuohuayishu。yujushiguanniandejiqiao，shirenyurenxiangchudegongluqiaoliang。yincigoutongjiaoliuqueshishiyimenzaoxingyishu。jishishishoudaobeipan，yenenggaoqingshangmianduinanpengyouchugui。

第一：颜值爆表新时期，更必须颜值爆表

 zaibuyiyangdechangsuo，yingshuobuyiyangdehua，ruguobuliuyizhangwochangsuodefencun，tubenshenyishizhikuai，jieguobianhuichuchou。huaduoderenderenburuhuashao，huashaoburuhuahao，yuyanbiaodazaijingmeiyouduo，jiandanmingle。shiduqingkuangxiakantoubushuotou，tarenzaitanbenshenguidingdeqingkuangxiabixukantoubushuotou，bulejieqingkuangdezhuangkuangxiabixukantoubushuotou。

第二：要明白解决不满情绪，改进认知能力

 gaoqingshangliaotianshuzhong，gaoqingshangliaotianhuashufanliyouhenduozhidexuexidedifang。tiaoxuanzaochenglingyirenzhongaidehuatitaoluntaolun，zaiherenxiangchudehuanjiezhongyubenshendexiaohuobanmenhejiashuqinrenhudongjiaoliugoutongjiaoliudeqingkuangxia，hudongjiaoliugoutongjiaoliukeliaobuwandehua，keshiyudaoyudaojiumeiyouhuashuo，naizhijuedebutaidui，xinfan。zheiguanjianshiyinweidajiabuqingchulingyirenguanxindehuatitaoluntantaoyoushenme。yongxiantantigaobicizhijiandejianju。

第三：要明白同理心，情和理融为一体，才会合理地说动人

 changyandao：yiqingdongren，yiqingdongren。qingbuxizelibuda。renshiyouqinggandexiaodongwu，yincizaigoutongjiaoliudehuanjiezhong，yujuzhongyidingyaosanfachuzhenzhenzhengzhengdeaiyi，yiqingweixingshijinrulingyirenxinlidequanqiu，zaochengganzhaolidezhuyaoyinsu。jinyoujinxingneixindegoutongjiaoliuheqinggangoutongjiaoliu，caikeyinenggougenghaodituidonggoutongjiaoliu。

第四：脑子里全是一件事，说出来的基本上全是建议

 chuangyerenzaixiaoshoushichangbutaihaodeqingkuangxia，quzheweiwanshengyugongranzhize，yaobachizeyanzangzaiwanxiaoshenhou，yongwanxiaodefangfalaiwanzhuanzhizetaren。yaomingbaihuanweisikaoyixiayixia，diandaojizhi，bubizhuimaoqiuci，xiankuajianghouzhize。jishishishoudaobeipan，yenenggaoqingshangmianduinanpengyouchugui。